I know that this has probably been mentioned before but I am 23 female with CF and have been going out with my BF for 2 years I just get frustrated all the time with things I shouldn't like the other day I felt a bit off and was suppose to go out for tea with my BF and his friends but I just couldn't go and he got upset about it and we had a fight I really love my BF and he is so good to me I know it must be hard on him all the time with my CF I sometimes think am I better off not having a BF I just don't know how to handle it does anyone ever feel this way?
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Frustrated
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I feel this way all the time.
My boyfriend always wants me to stay over his house, but I'm hesitant because I always have so much going on (health wise), or I'm not feeling well, or I know I won't get a good nights rest when I need one. It's frustruating, and probably more so for him. I feel like an invalid and no fun to hang out with. But look at it this way....you two have been together for so long that I'm sure if it was causing him any strife or problems, he would have spoken up by now.
I hate to say this, but you always should take care of your health needs first. I've tried to do that more but at the same time include my boyfriend, so it's not like i'm isolating him from my true self. And if you can't go to the boyfriend and his friends, make him and his friends come to you!!!
My boyfriend always wants me to stay over his house, but I'm hesitant because I always have so much going on (health wise), or I'm not feeling well, or I know I won't get a good nights rest when I need one. It's frustruating, and probably more so for him. I feel like an invalid and no fun to hang out with. But look at it this way....you two have been together for so long that I'm sure if it was causing him any strife or problems, he would have spoken up by now.
I hate to say this, but you always should take care of your health needs first. I've tried to do that more but at the same time include my boyfriend, so it's not like i'm isolating him from my true self. And if you can't go to the boyfriend and his friends, make him and his friends come to you!!!
My big problem with my BF is getting him to stop smoking. He doesn't smoke in the house (I won't tolerate that at all) but sometimes he still lights up when we're in the car. He rolls the windows down but some still gets in anyway. He knows I don't like it and that its bad for me but he gets stressed and does it anyway.
Mockingbird
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Just carry a pair of scissors around with you, and every time he lights up, snip it off! =-)
(I mean the ciggarette, of course; what else would I be talking about? Sheesh =-)
(I mean the ciggarette, of course; what else would I be talking about? Sheesh =-)