NYCLawGirl
New member
Okay, just a quick little trend I've noticed, not at all on this site, but in general...
The other day someone found out I had CF and, rather annoyingly, reacted by saying "wow, you're so old!" First of all, I'm not "old" even by CF standards. I'm 26. But I consider myself lucky, I realize I've lived beyond my original life expectancy and am still healthy, so frustrating as her comment was I tried to take it in the spirit it was offered.
Not so much my friend, who immediately responded that there were TONS of older people with CF and that it was all about taking care of yourself. Which brings me to my main rant here: I felt like he was saying that CF is no longer a real threat...that we could all live into our 50s if only we would just take better care of ourselves. I know the value of compliance, I know it's extremely important, and I am SO inspired by all the wonderful people living such long and healthy lives with CF (including some of you on this board). But I also know some CFers who have always been compliant, who have done all they could and fought so incredibly hard, but still didn't make it. I just feel like it's frustrating when people say things that make it sound like we can (or should be able to) completely control this disease, because many of us just plain can't.
Has anyone else encountered people who in trying to be upbeat and positive end up denying part of the reality of CF? Am I crazy for having a problem with this?
The other day someone found out I had CF and, rather annoyingly, reacted by saying "wow, you're so old!" First of all, I'm not "old" even by CF standards. I'm 26. But I consider myself lucky, I realize I've lived beyond my original life expectancy and am still healthy, so frustrating as her comment was I tried to take it in the spirit it was offered.
Not so much my friend, who immediately responded that there were TONS of older people with CF and that it was all about taking care of yourself. Which brings me to my main rant here: I felt like he was saying that CF is no longer a real threat...that we could all live into our 50s if only we would just take better care of ourselves. I know the value of compliance, I know it's extremely important, and I am SO inspired by all the wonderful people living such long and healthy lives with CF (including some of you on this board). But I also know some CFers who have always been compliant, who have done all they could and fought so incredibly hard, but still didn't make it. I just feel like it's frustrating when people say things that make it sound like we can (or should be able to) completely control this disease, because many of us just plain can't.
Has anyone else encountered people who in trying to be upbeat and positive end up denying part of the reality of CF? Am I crazy for having a problem with this?