I'm 17, and I've had a G tube for most of my life. I went for a few years in grade school without one, and I think I'd have been better off with.
For me, I got the G tube(when I was 8- also had one as a baby/toddler)because not only was I not gaining weight, trying to keep it on was making me miserable. I was constantly trying to cram in as many calories as possible, and it was really stressful. I was also getting sick more fequently, and because I didn't have lung issues at the time, we hoped that better nutrition would prevent them.
For me, the Gtube is much easier than trying to eat everything orally from a quality of life standpoint- I don't have to worry about getting in as many calories as physically possible, and as a result my eating is actually bettter.
I also really belive that my lungs are healthier for it. There's a proven connection between weight and lung health, and I think that alone makes the gtube worth it.
I don't think it looks *that* bad either. It's not goregous, but it's not disfiguring or anything. Mine is also pretty easy to conceal. Unless I'm wearing something skintight, it's not/barely visible and when it is, it looks like an odd fold of cloth/fat- not like, mygawd alien device type thing. I've got a mickey though- the peg tubes are definitly worse. I hate, hate hated my peg.
I don't think it's a decision to be taken lightly, but I don't think it's as bad as alot of people make it out to be.
For me, I got the G tube(when I was 8- also had one as a baby/toddler)because not only was I not gaining weight, trying to keep it on was making me miserable. I was constantly trying to cram in as many calories as possible, and it was really stressful. I was also getting sick more fequently, and because I didn't have lung issues at the time, we hoped that better nutrition would prevent them.
For me, the Gtube is much easier than trying to eat everything orally from a quality of life standpoint- I don't have to worry about getting in as many calories as physically possible, and as a result my eating is actually bettter.
I also really belive that my lungs are healthier for it. There's a proven connection between weight and lung health, and I think that alone makes the gtube worth it.
I don't think it looks *that* bad either. It's not goregous, but it's not disfiguring or anything. Mine is also pretty easy to conceal. Unless I'm wearing something skintight, it's not/barely visible and when it is, it looks like an odd fold of cloth/fat- not like, mygawd alien device type thing. I've got a mickey though- the peg tubes are definitly worse. I hate, hate hated my peg.
I don't think it's a decision to be taken lightly, but I don't think it's as bad as alot of people make it out to be.