Okay, it just came to light that some less healthy CFers don't like comparing to others thier age, because they feel bad. If this is you, please PM me or post anon. I am looking for the whole spectrum of the realtionship, not just the good or bad things, please do that, at least <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
Thanks MUCHO to everyone who has responded.