Getting out of bed.

Faust

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This will sound weird, but I wonder if anyone else has been having sleep issues recently. It has always taken me a while to fall asleep, and I have always had EXTREMELY vivid dreams/nightmares, but recently the dreams/nightmares have been so good (like a very well produced movie or miniseries), where I can literally control my dream however I want, that I don't want to wake up. And I think that my dream state is so deep, that even if I get the correct amount of sleep, i'm still tired when I finally force myself to get out of bed.


Of course this morning it was worse because she had cleaned the bed linen and it was all fresh, clean bed linen to sleep in (AWESOME), and I was also clean, and it was just like a sleep related mental orgasm all night/early day. I could go to bed at 2 or 3am, and literally sleep till 3 or 4pm if life didn't get in the way due to my dreams.


Recently my dreams have been much more vivid and amazing than usual. I don't know if it's the supplements or my high Fuji apple intake before bed, but man, this is like seeing an awesome movie that I can control for free every night, and I never want it to end <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0">

About the only other time I can recall having such vivid dreams was when I was going through puberty and was having some very strong sexual dreams.
 

RoyalPrince

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ME TOO!!!! i always have trouble falling asleep but have some great dreams that i almost always remember and feel really tired when i wake up... i always have trouble getting out of bed and as odd as it sounds, when i wake up earlier say around 6 or so i can get up better than i can after sleeping in...
 

Scarlett81

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I'm sorry but I can't take this seriously , you're making me laugh. I'm picturing you there, and it reminds me of an old Seinfeld episode.

Ok, actually, I thought I was the only one who has such vivid dreams! I know what you mean, I wake up and think-people pay good money for such good stories. I think when I'm at my worst with the sleeping/dreaming thing, I'm always on steriods. And then its usually nightmares, sweats, delerium.
But I was told by a doc that even inhaled steroids can cause odd sleep patterns. If you take them long enough.
Maybe its that?
I do also have big trouble sleeping restfully. I can fall asleep no problem, but I never feel rested, like I had a good heavy nights sleep. Is it coughing, nasal drip-one of those for me I think.
I wake up and every muscle in my body hurts, my back is all crunched up, and I crack it 5 times hard. My neck's twisted up. Really, I hurt all over my body.
Its not my mattress, b/c we thought that and got a new high end mattress. My hubby sleeps 10x better, but I'm the same. I got every expensive (and cheap) neck support pillow there is.

So all I can do is relate, sorry. Other than Nyquil, which isn't great for you, I've found nothing that helps. Maybe a cup of herbal tea. Hot bath with chamomile and lavendar-which SD, I'm sure you do every night anyway!
 

anonymous

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Me too. I used to keep a dream diary when I was younger to help my famous career as an author.

Do you ever wake up, but can't move or focus your eyes well? It's like a surreal movie were everything is just out of focus and it feels like you have weights holding you down. Wierd.
 

anonymous

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Anybody take Tylonel PM (or just the active sleepy ingredent) or Ambien or something? Ambiens seem to give me a hang over so I avoid those unless I really need them, but the Tylonel PM helps at least making more sleepy to fall asleep faster.
 

EnergyGal

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when you can control your dreams that is called lucid dreaming. That is a gift.

I can do this sometimes and it is really nice. You can learn a lot about yourself through dreaming.

Some people dream of flying and if you are able to fly in your dreams you will awake feeling cured from anything that bothers you before the dream

I often have flying dreams and when I do have these dreams I cannot begin to tell you how great it is. A part of me feels like I am flying and in this dream i know I am flying and I tell myself that I am really flying.

Some people believe that flying dreams are when your body is leaving an astral plane. IT is called astral traveling. For the believers out there, your body leaves and returns when it is ready to awaken. I feel like I had a mission to accomplish and return when I am finished. I think in my case it was an emotional accomplishment. Winning over a problem in my head where I can decide what is best for me and have the confidence to face whatever may come my way.

Keep on dreaming
 

thelizardqueen

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I too have trouble falling asleep most nights (up till about 1am), but once I'm asleep I have very vivid dreams. Some good, some not so good - but it always seems that I can remember the dreams details even when I wake up.
 
I've read that apples, not caffeine, are more efficient at waking you up in the morning. Is there a chance that the high carbohydrate from the apples might be keeping you from falling asleep as quickly as you'd like?
 

CowTown

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Hello Hello There!
Wow. I haven't discussed my dreams in so long, but I can tell you I have a history of some incredible incredible dreams!!!! I'm known by all my friends and family to have thee most vivid, lucid, graphic, extremely gorey and detailed dreams that they know. I have never really wondered why it happens to me other than maybe just being a very visual person. I wonder if it has anything to do with the meds we take. If a bunch more people come on here and say they have lucid and highly visual dreams too, then maybe there's something to it. Hmmmm.

How fun I opened this thread! I used to have a ton of lucid dreams and would realize I was in the dream while dreaming and determine that I could start to do anything I wanted, without the risk of getting in trouble, being seen by people in reality or embarasssing myself because it wasn't real! It is the most awesome thing ever, and I would also control it so that I didn't wake up and it didn't end. I kept on going with whatever is was. So much fun! The strangest one I remember off-hand was where I was caught in an underground parking area and noticed a "bad" guy. As he approached me, all I could tell was that he was "bad" and I was in trouble and going to get hurt, not a good situation. Once he got close enough and the fear was so great, was when I realized this was only a dream and he could not truly hurt me. I suddenly had extra power-strength and started kicking his a**! I turned into my very own super hero and had fun. When this dream began, it was very scary and evil, but by the time it ended it was this uplifting, disneyland sort of thing where I just took over and created a safe world for myself.

Gosh my dreams could go on and on. I used to write them down too because I was told that when you focus a lot of attention on your dreams while you're awake, you will naturally evolve into lucid dreams and soon remember more of them. I used to draw some of my dream images and was so fascninated by the evil stuff and the good things. I have not always been able to figure my dreams out, b/c I have some seriously ODD ones, but some of the symbolic images that would reappear were so interesting. For example, I used to have reoccuring dreams with black crows in them. Crows in mythology meant death....go figure. Usually soon after seeing one of the crows, I would then see blood and someone would die. I'm not kidding, they were always crazy crazy! My poor husband often wakes me up in the middle of the night b/c I'm making this aweful blunt-screaming noise and it scares the insides out of him. Those sounds I make are always me trying to "get out of my dreams". Sometimes I know I'm dreaming (and if it's scary) but can't wake up to make it stop. Poor hubby!! Other times I have awesome, happy dreams and can fly, etc. Good times for sure.

I guess I'm done. I could go on and on. Wow.

Oh one more thing, in the last 6 months or so I have just started to do a sleep walking type of thing. I've never done that before in my llife. The first time that happened I woke up and I was standing along side my bed trying to swat spiders out of the bed. I was freaking out and could have sworn I saw them. This exact thing with spiders happened to me 2 different times. The first time I was so scared, and my husband was out of town, so I slept in the living room for the rest of the night. I hate spiders. They're my truest enimy.

Now I'm done.
 

Faust

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For any women in this thread, theres no need to discuss your dreams, because we know it's a given that I am in them, k? Thanks. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 

Faust

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>amy</b></i>

ya sean.... and then you woke up.....



anyway, i sometimes dream i'm flying.



also, i used to be fluent in spanish when i was younger (i lost it due to non-use), but i can still speak fluently in my dreams. i can't when i'm awake - i can barely form a sentence.</end quote></div>

Am I speaking fluent Spanish with you in your dream? <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 

EnergyGal

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To Kelly

Last week on CNN they told about a woman who starte to sleep walking. Her husband found her in the kitchen with the oven turned on and she was going into the fridge. she was clearly sleep walking. This is kind of scary as she was taking the drug Ambien.

I once took Ambien for a few days and became angry (not the mood of choice for me) I no longer take a sleeping aid thankfully.

I hope you are not taking this drug
 

Faust

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It happened again last night. I had another epic dream that was like a very long but better version of the remake of Dawn of the dead, Land of the dead, Pirates of the Caribbean with Johnny Depp, 28 Days Later, and the video game Stubbs the Zombie. I can't exactly remember how the dream started out, but myself and some others I knew were all human (non zombie) and out doing something. Then the reality like the remake for Dawn of the Dead took place (GREAT movie btw, rent it at blockbuster if you want to see a great well done zombie flick) with zombies attacking. A few of us got nailed in the begining but myself and a couple others fought back and took out a ton of them with everything from molotok cocktails, high end construction equipment (smashing the crap out of them), to breaking into a military armory and unleashing massive firepower on them. We eventually died to them though (being eaten alive, it was VERY graphic and horrible, and I even felt it in my dream).

Then I came back as a zombie, along with a couple of my friends. My friends didn't seem to hold onto much of their previous human mind (probably because it was eaten heh), so trying to communicate with them was generally pointless. We shambled along for a while untill we found a town of zombies. It looked like it used to be some kind of islander village, or maybe a renaisance facade town at a theme park. Myself and one or two other zombies who still retained some of their intelligence built a better house than what most of the others had. We had for all intents and purposes, a "family", and while everyone else would go out on hunting trips to bring back humans to eat, I don't recall ever eating anyone/thing in the movie.

I noticed that the female zombies in our family seemed to act differently than me, as in she seemed way too human. After being around here for a while, when I guess she realized I was harmless, she "came out" to me, in that she was still 100% alive/human and that she had just been pretending this whole time, and that if you pretend good enough and keep your wits about you, you can fool all of them. Somehow during the course of this revelation, and the next "dream sequence", I turned full human, but I knew how to pretend I was a zombie, and melted in with the crowd. I had caked congealed bloob all over my face, had drool all over my face, a tilted head, limbs like rubber johnny (like a praying mantis but closely held to my torso), and shuffled with a really bad zombie like gait.

I traveled with the zombie masses (seems we weren't a town anymore, just a large group of zombies shuffling around looking for some people to eat), because there was nowhere else to go. Somehow during our travels, our "leader" was contacted by the leader of one of the two last strongholds of humans left on earth. There were two large groups of humans left, in two areas not too far away from each other, and both controlled a very large, fortified structure each, and they were warring with each other over resources to continue their way of life.

One had a giant many story shopping mall/hotel type thing (like in the most recent Land of the Dead movie with John Leguizomo and Dennis Hopper), and the other group had something similar to a military type stronghold. All of them lived a kind of caste system way of living, with the undesireables more on the outskirts toiling away and trying to survive, while the middle class lived a relatively comfortable existence but their "jobs" were pretty crappy - mostly to serve the higher ups. And the higher up's lived the most oppulent lifestyles of all, with hordes of goods that used to belong only to the most very rich before the planet fell to the undead.

Anyways our "leader" was contacted by the human leader from the Mall/Hotel, and they came to an agreement that if we were to cause constant focused war on his nemesis in the military stronghold, and raid his goods and bring them to him, we would be able to feed on the lower class humans he had way too much of at his mall/hotel stronghold. Apparently he viewed the lower class as scum, and they were greatly outnumbering the upper class and starting to cause revolt against them...basically a classic struggle between have's, and have nots.

We marched towards the mall/hotel stronghold and came up into the area via the hotels main huge dining area. All of the people were frozen with fear and just watched us, but we had strict orders to leave them alone. One zombie couldn't take the temptation and attacked some person, and we immediately tore the zombie apart, and the hotels security came out of nowhere and instantly incinerated the attack victim.

We waited for the leader to speak to the main guy, and the whole time in the dream, now that i'm human again, I was wanting to find ways to kill as many zombies as possible without them being aware it was me, and I desperately wanted to run away up to my new found group of humans and let them know I was also human, but considering I was surrounded by tons of zombies that all looked like me in various ways, and I looked horrible, there was noway I could do it. I was constantly pushing zombies off of very high ledges in hopes that they took brain trauma and "died", pushing some more into industrial machinery and compost machines, all kinds of things.

While walking around the mall waiting for an official makeup of what we have to do, I ran back into that chick I was with earlier when she wasn't a zombie. The problem now though was, she was a zombie now, but was exactly like I was earlier, as in she hated it and was harmless also. I followed her and observed her, and when we were more alone, I bumped her aside into a long hallway and made eye contact with her, and through interpretive gestures and memory of our previous special moments of contact, was able to get across to her that it was me, and that I wasn't a zombie anymore. We were then for all intents and purposes, as much of a couple as a zombie and a non zombie could be. She was like me in that she didn't want to kill anyone, but she had to eat. I would find spare raw human and animal parts and feed her when no other zombies were around, and when I was extremely tired she would hide me under something out of the way so I could get a couple hours of sleep and she would guard my area so I wouldn't be discovered.

We would go off on our "missions" to assault the other human base, but we didn't want to kill any humans, so we would lay in ambush haldway on the way to the other stronghold, and wait for a stragler zombie to come back with goods, and we would jump out and kill him and take his goods. We felt this was better than nothing, and helped take our anger out on the zombies and one by one lessened their numbers.

Our little scheme worked perfectly until for some reason (it wasn't clear why), we had to pick up and move a long distance like a giant pack of buffalo on the plains. I was able to walk with my zombie mate and the rest of the horde before exhaustion took me over. My mate tried to carry me while I was passed out, and the other zombies kept trying to make her drop me because it didn't make sense to them, and exhaustion/sleep was something they only associated living humans with. Finally we hit a large bridge area, and for some reason took a break. My mate laid me down so I could try and get some sleep, she tried to hide me as best as she could with some driftwood and other flotsom. The last thing I remember before I woke up to the pest control lady at the front door, was some extremely blood covered female zombie try to rouse me from my sleep, and I had the very strong impression that my ruse was up...




I felt everything in the dream like it was really taking place, and I had 100% complete free ability to move how I wanted to, and make whatever choices I wanted to. I truely felt like I was really there, and when I woke up, I was crying that I would never see my zombie mate again. I tried to go back to sleep and pick up where I left, because I have been able to do this many times in the past concerning very vivid dreams, but I just couldnt get back to sleep, so here I am now.


Just thought i'd share. As for what I ate before bed: I had 2 pieces of fried chicken for dinner after the gym, then a little while later a big peanut butter and strawberry preverse sandwich with whole milk, and then right before bed I had 3 fuji apples.
 
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