My husband and I would be divorced if we never went out. I always thought that no one could take care of him better than I and that everyone else would not remember to give the right meds/nebs/vest, etc. But they'd never learn if not given the oppurtunity. Our son loves being able to be other places and experience other things. So go out, enjoy, be free of meds if just for an evening, it is amazing what just a few hours away can do. Just as it is for any parent of any child. Enjoy your husband.