Dear Vampy,
For starters, I am not a goth-like person. However, I think you should expand your search to just any other Cfer. You don't have to be goth to have valid opinions, just as you have no to be a prep to be good at sports. I would be willing to talk anytime, we can even talk about goth stuff, although I probably know little of it. Just don't limit talking to goths, we're are all in the same boat here.