Welcome Suzy!
You have come to the right place for information and support. Nobody knows this disease as well as those who are dealing with it. We are a military family too! My husband is active duty Air Force--nearly 15 years now. Our daughter was diagnosed at 6 months due to failure to thrive, (she was only 11 pounds) and she also had a cough that would not go away. She is nine now. Her digestive issues (lack of ability to digest fats and proteins) were pretty bad. At 20 months of age we put her on a G-tube, which she still has today. This does not mean Mason will need one...this was what my daughter needed to get her to gain any weight. At that time she was very thin (negative 10th percentile) and the worst part was she constantly cried out in pain from cramps/gas/obstructions. We have come to love her G-tube because it took away that pain, and now she is a normal body weight.
Do the Marines have the Exceptional Family Member Program? Your daughter should look into enrolling if they do. Different branches of service will have diferent names for things, but basically they will code their service file as having a child with special needs so they can get some support. Mason will need a CF care center or satellite center so the EFMP will help get them near one and then stationed near one for the rest of their enlistment. This doesn't mean that they will never have to move again. It just means that when they move it will be to a place where they have a hospital for Mason.
Also, we go through a lot of medical supplies and presciptions for our daughter, and the military is <b>incredible</b> in this regard. It has factored in to my husband staying active duty because CF needs the best medical insurance you can get your hands on. We pay very little out of pocket costs for her medicine and doctor visits...nearly nothing. Hospitalizations are totally covered and the surgeries she has had...also totally covered with no out-of-pocket costs.
I too am sorry to hear of the diagnosis. It is a heartbreaking one, but your family is not alone. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
Hugs,
Michelle, mom to Tori, 9 w/CF and G-tube, avid reader; and Trace, 13, Autistic, curious-minded