Had my baby!

Kristen

New member
First, Congratulations! I know it's been a month now since your initial question, but I wanted to chime in based on my own experiences.

First, as far as treatments go, can you do some of them while you nurse? I used to do hypertonic saline while nursing, because I figured there was no harm if she inhaled HS. What about doing something other than the vest when you feel like you need your boob out ;) - like the Accapella?

My DD never took a bottle or a paci. She was a NICU baby and, for the first week, she would ONLY take a bottle and wouldn't nurse. We hired a lactation consultant who got her nursing, and, after that, I was scared to give her a bottle and ended up regretting it because she nursed every 2-3 hours (during the day), until she was 11 months old, so I never got a break! So, I would say definitely keep working on the bottle. Plus, there may come a time where you may have to go on a drug that's unsafe for nursing, and, if that happens, the last thing you want to stress about is how on earth are you going to feed her. I almost had that happen to me when DD was 10 months old. I was a wreck until I got a second opinion and then did a lot of research and found out that I could actually continue nursing her.

That is great that you are sleeping when she sleeps. I was not very good about that (I'm not a good napper) and I was EXHAUSTED. I was scared to bedshare, but I would still fall asleep nursing. I remember nursing DD sitting up in bed, and then waking up and hour later with my head resting on the slats of the bed and DD alseep on the My Brest Friend. I found it "funny" how you are so sleep deprived with a new baby, and nursing relaxes you, and then you are supposed to stay awake at 3:00 AM! So I did a lot of research on safe bedsharing and decided I might as well just do it safely.
 

Kristen

New member
First, Congratulations! I know it's been a month now since your initial question, but I wanted to chime in based on my own experiences.

First, as far as treatments go, can you do some of them while you nurse? I used to do hypertonic saline while nursing, because I figured there was no harm if she inhaled HS. What about doing something other than the vest when you feel like you need your boob out ;) - like the Accapella?

My DD never took a bottle or a paci. She was a NICU baby and, for the first week, she would ONLY take a bottle and wouldn't nurse. We hired a lactation consultant who got her nursing, and, after that, I was scared to give her a bottle and ended up regretting it because she nursed every 2-3 hours (during the day), until she was 11 months old, so I never got a break! So, I would say definitely keep working on the bottle. Plus, there may come a time where you may have to go on a drug that's unsafe for nursing, and, if that happens, the last thing you want to stress about is how on earth are you going to feed her. I almost had that happen to me when DD was 10 months old. I was a wreck until I got a second opinion and then did a lot of research and found out that I could actually continue nursing her.

That is great that you are sleeping when she sleeps. I was not very good about that (I'm not a good napper) and I was EXHAUSTED. I was scared to bedshare, but I would still fall asleep nursing. I remember nursing DD sitting up in bed, and then waking up and hour later with my head resting on the slats of the bed and DD alseep on the My Brest Friend. I found it "funny" how you are so sleep deprived with a new baby, and nursing relaxes you, and then you are supposed to stay awake at 3:00 AM! So I did a lot of research on safe bedsharing and decided I might as well just do it safely.
 
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Deb

Guest
Congratulations on the birth of your baby.

Number one rule is take care of yourself. This means you need to sleep. I personally don't know how anyone could sleep soundly with an infant in the bed. And it is sound sleep that you need.
I was exhausted when my daughter was about 3 weeks old and I was feeding her in bed one night because it was the middle of the winter and i was so cold. Even though we were sitting up in the bed I still fell asleep. That was the end of that. My husband took over night feedings from then on. It helped me tremendously to be able to sleep through the night.
Even with enough sleep, I ended up with pneumonia when she was 3 months old. This was very difficult on me and my family. My husband then had to take care of our son and the new baby on his own.
TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. It will benefit everyone in the end.
 
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