Dear Ahmed's mom,
My heart goes out to you and your family for all you have had to go through this year. I know how awful it is to watch your child suffer when he is so little and vulnerable.
All kids with cf have a hard time gaining weight when they have a lung infection. So it's really important to keep your child's lungs as clear as possible. For Jordan, that has meant taking inhaled medication four times a day and doing chest physiotherapy at least twice -- three times when he's sick. In addition, we (and our doctors) decided it was important for Jordan to avoid people with the flu, colds, or coughs, especially when he was very young and his airways were tiny. I know some people believe that that young kids with cf need to be exposed to germs to "build up their immune systems", but that is not my interpretation of the scientific evidence (more on that in a later post). Right now, at any rate, your son is having a really difficult time, and it seems as though it might be worth being a little overprotective with him until he's bigger and his condition is more stable.
We also had difficulty with Jordan's weight in the first year, especially since his intestines were raw and bled easily from his two surgeries. We couldn't feed him more than a small amount at a time, or he'd hurt and start to bleed all over again. Here are some of the things that worked for us:
First, we fed him mainly a formula called Pregestimil. This is already partially digested and contains a type of oil (MCT) that kids with cf can absorb especially easily. Another formula, called Alimentum, is very similar. They are both expensive, but you may be able to get insurance to pay at least part of the cost if your doctor writes a letter explaining that the supplement is medically necessary. You can also get a bottle of the MCT oil alone, which you can add either to the formula or to Ahmed's food to increase calories.
Second, we fed Jordan small amounts every two hours round the clock, except for a four-hour break at night. This was a really hard on me, but not on Jordan, as he would suck in his sleep. I wouldn't recommend it if you have to get up and go to work in the morning or if it keeps Ahmed from getting his sleep. However, it did help put the weight on Jordan.
Third, when we found that Jordan was unable to digest about one-quarter of the fat he ate, even with enzymes, we started giving him antacids with the enzymes, which cut the amount of fat he was dumping considerably. See my previous post to Amy for more details.
When Jordan got older, we decided to focus on increasing his calories with the healthier fats found in vegetable oils, nuts, and fish; we have tended to avoid much in the way of animal fats or junk foods. But I encourage you to experment to find out what works best for Ahmed and your family. If he continues to have difficulty gaining weight, there is the possiblity of having a feeding tube put in so that he can get nourishment even when he's sleeping. It wouldn't be my first choice, but it has worked well for some people.
Let me know if any of this helps or if you have other questions. I am hoping you will have an easier time in the coming months.
Bambi, Jordan's mom