having kids later on.

[falloutboygurl16]

hi everyone.
i know im still young and everything but i have some questions.
so ive been reading here and you guys all seem to say that if you want to have a baby you should have really stable health.
i by no means want to have a child right now.
in fact i plan on getting married and then having a child.
probably around 26.
its always scared me about having kids but that is one thing that i want in my life more than anything.

anyways. i know that i cannot have a child naturally. not because i have c.f. but because i know from experience. haha.
anywho.
ive pretty much talked to my boyfriend about kids and we have decided that we do want to have children later on in life.
i just want to know if there are things i should do in order to plan my body for children in the future.
what kinds of things i can do in order to get pregnant in the future.
if you can do ivs while pregnant and what kind of treatments you can and cannot do.

ive thought about adoption and believe me it is an option but only second to a paternal child.
my boyfriend was adopted so its not a huge deal.

 

[falloutboygurl16]

hi everyone.
i know im still young and everything but i have some questions.
so ive been reading here and you guys all seem to say that if you want to have a baby you should have really stable health.
i by no means want to have a child right now.
in fact i plan on getting married and then having a child.
probably around 26.
its always scared me about having kids but that is one thing that i want in my life more than anything.

anyways. i know that i cannot have a child naturally. not because i have c.f. but because i know from experience. haha.
anywho.
ive pretty much talked to my boyfriend about kids and we have decided that we do want to have children later on in life.
i just want to know if there are things i should do in order to plan my body for children in the future.
what kinds of things i can do in order to get pregnant in the future.
if you can do ivs while pregnant and what kind of treatments you can and cannot do.

ive thought about adoption and believe me it is an option but only second to a paternal child.
my boyfriend was adopted so its not a huge deal.

 

[falloutboygurl16]

hi everyone.
i know im still young and everything but i have some questions.
so ive been reading here and you guys all seem to say that if you want to have a baby you should have really stable health.
i by no means want to have a child right now.
in fact i plan on getting married and then having a child.
probably around 26.
its always scared me about having kids but that is one thing that i want in my life more than anything.

anyways. i know that i cannot have a child naturally. not because i have c.f. but because i know from experience. haha.
anywho.
ive pretty much talked to my boyfriend about kids and we have decided that we do want to have children later on in life.
i just want to know if there are things i should do in order to plan my body for children in the future.
what kinds of things i can do in order to get pregnant in the future.
if you can do ivs while pregnant and what kind of treatments you can and cannot do.

ive thought about adoption and believe me it is an option but only second to a paternal child.
my boyfriend was adopted so its not a huge deal.

 

[falloutboygurl16]

hi everyone.
i know im still young and everything but i have some questions.
so ive been reading here and you guys all seem to say that if you want to have a baby you should have really stable health.
i by no means want to have a child right now.
in fact i plan on getting married and then having a child.
probably around 26.
its always scared me about having kids but that is one thing that i want in my life more than anything.

anyways. i know that i cannot have a child naturally. not because i have c.f. but because i know from experience. haha.
anywho.
ive pretty much talked to my boyfriend about kids and we have decided that we do want to have children later on in life.
i just want to know if there are things i should do in order to plan my body for children in the future.
what kinds of things i can do in order to get pregnant in the future.
if you can do ivs while pregnant and what kind of treatments you can and cannot do.

ive thought about adoption and believe me it is an option but only second to a paternal child.
my boyfriend was adopted so its not a huge deal.

 

[falloutboygurl16]

hi everyone.
<br />i know im still young and everything but i have some questions.
<br />so ive been reading here and you guys all seem to say that if you want to have a baby you should have really stable health.
<br />i by no means want to have a child right now.
<br />in fact i plan on getting married and then having a child.
<br />probably around 26.
<br />its always scared me about having kids but that is one thing that i want in my life more than anything.
<br />
<br />anyways. i know that i cannot have a child naturally. not because i have c.f. but because i know from experience. haha.
<br />anywho.
<br />ive pretty much talked to my boyfriend about kids and we have decided that we do want to have children later on in life.
<br />i just want to know if there are things i should do in order to plan my body for children in the future.
<br />what kinds of things i can do in order to get pregnant in the future.
<br />if you can do ivs while pregnant and what kind of treatments you can and cannot do.
<br />
<br />ive thought about adoption and believe me it is an option but only second to a paternal child.
<br />my boyfriend was adopted so its not a huge deal.

 

[LouLou]

IMO the #1 best thing you can do for your body between now and when you want to have a baby is to exercise. If you are not already compliant with your meds and therapies work towards that. Wanting to be a mother (and a healthy mother even more importantly!) is an excellent goal if it motivates you. It is definitely one of the things that motivated me towards becoming 100% compliant at the age of 21. I also want to live as long as possible with my husband. There's so much more I could say but I need to sign off. Good luck!

 

[LouLou]

IMO the #1 best thing you can do for your body between now and when you want to have a baby is to exercise. If you are not already compliant with your meds and therapies work towards that. Wanting to be a mother (and a healthy mother even more importantly!) is an excellent goal if it motivates you. It is definitely one of the things that motivated me towards becoming 100% compliant at the age of 21. I also want to live as long as possible with my husband. There's so much more I could say but I need to sign off. Good luck!

 

[LouLou]

IMO the #1 best thing you can do for your body between now and when you want to have a baby is to exercise. If you are not already compliant with your meds and therapies work towards that. Wanting to be a mother (and a healthy mother even more importantly!) is an excellent goal if it motivates you. It is definitely one of the things that motivated me towards becoming 100% compliant at the age of 21. I also want to live as long as possible with my husband. There's so much more I could say but I need to sign off. Good luck!

 

[LouLou]

IMO the #1 best thing you can do for your body between now and when you want to have a baby is to exercise. If you are not already compliant with your meds and therapies work towards that. Wanting to be a mother (and a healthy mother even more importantly!) is an excellent goal if it motivates you. It is definitely one of the things that motivated me towards becoming 100% compliant at the age of 21. I also want to live as long as possible with my husband. There's so much more I could say but I need to sign off. Good luck!

 

[LouLou]

IMO the #1 best thing you can do for your body between now and when you want to have a baby is to exercise. If you are not already compliant with your meds and therapies work towards that. Wanting to be a mother (and a healthy mother even more importantly!) is an excellent goal if it motivates you. It is definitely one of the things that motivated me towards becoming 100% compliant at the age of 21. I also want to live as long as possible with my husband. There's so much more I could say but I need to sign off. Good luck!

 

[JazzysMom]

HEY Tamara....long time no see!

I agree with LouLou on this. Since you dont know what the future will hold its important to just do your best with your over all health....compliance, nutrition & exercise.

When you are at the point of actually being ready for kids then good support through your doctors & family is essential. The pregnancy is the easy part (it ends eventually), but the parenting is forever!

I am not sure why/how you know you cant have a kid naturally, but if its from an "oops" of not using protection & lucky out, DONT go by that. I didnt use birth control for 12 years and then BAM.....

HUGS!

 

[JazzysMom]

HEY Tamara....long time no see!

I agree with LouLou on this. Since you dont know what the future will hold its important to just do your best with your over all health....compliance, nutrition & exercise.

When you are at the point of actually being ready for kids then good support through your doctors & family is essential. The pregnancy is the easy part (it ends eventually), but the parenting is forever!

I am not sure why/how you know you cant have a kid naturally, but if its from an "oops" of not using protection & lucky out, DONT go by that. I didnt use birth control for 12 years and then BAM.....

HUGS!

 

[JazzysMom]

HEY Tamara....long time no see!

I agree with LouLou on this. Since you dont know what the future will hold its important to just do your best with your over all health....compliance, nutrition & exercise.

When you are at the point of actually being ready for kids then good support through your doctors & family is essential. The pregnancy is the easy part (it ends eventually), but the parenting is forever!

I am not sure why/how you know you cant have a kid naturally, but if its from an "oops" of not using protection & lucky out, DONT go by that. I didnt use birth control for 12 years and then BAM.....

HUGS!

 

[JazzysMom]

HEY Tamara....long time no see!

I agree with LouLou on this. Since you dont know what the future will hold its important to just do your best with your over all health....compliance, nutrition & exercise.

When you are at the point of actually being ready for kids then good support through your doctors & family is essential. The pregnancy is the easy part (it ends eventually), but the parenting is forever!

I am not sure why/how you know you cant have a kid naturally, but if its from an "oops" of not using protection & lucky out, DONT go by that. I didnt use birth control for 12 years and then BAM.....

HUGS!

 

[JazzysMom]

HEY Tamara....long time no see!
<br />
<br />I agree with LouLou on this. Since you dont know what the future will hold its important to just do your best with your over all health....compliance, nutrition & exercise.
<br />
<br />When you are at the point of actually being ready for kids then good support through your doctors & family is essential. The pregnancy is the easy part (it ends eventually), but the parenting is forever!
<br />
<br />I am not sure why/how you know you cant have a kid naturally, but if its from an "oops" of not using protection & lucky out, DONT go by that. I didnt use birth control for 12 years and then BAM.....
<br />
<br />HUGS!

 

[falloutboygurl16]

thanks for the advice.
thats pretty much what i thought i would do.
taking care of my health needs to be #1 priority right now.
i know i dont want kids for a couple years but i want to know that i can make it possible.
my biggest dream is probably to become a mother one day.

haha yeah i know what you mean.
haha thanks mellissa and loulou.

 

[falloutboygurl16]

thanks for the advice.
thats pretty much what i thought i would do.
taking care of my health needs to be #1 priority right now.
i know i dont want kids for a couple years but i want to know that i can make it possible.
my biggest dream is probably to become a mother one day.

haha yeah i know what you mean.
haha thanks mellissa and loulou.

 

[falloutboygurl16]

thanks for the advice.
thats pretty much what i thought i would do.
taking care of my health needs to be #1 priority right now.
i know i dont want kids for a couple years but i want to know that i can make it possible.
my biggest dream is probably to become a mother one day.

haha yeah i know what you mean.
haha thanks mellissa and loulou.

 

[falloutboygurl16]

thanks for the advice.
thats pretty much what i thought i would do.
taking care of my health needs to be #1 priority right now.
i know i dont want kids for a couple years but i want to know that i can make it possible.
my biggest dream is probably to become a mother one day.

haha yeah i know what you mean.
haha thanks mellissa and loulou.

 

[falloutboygurl16]

thanks for the advice.
<br />thats pretty much what i thought i would do.
<br />taking care of my health needs to be #1 priority right now.
<br />i know i dont want kids for a couple years but i want to know that i can make it possible.
<br />my biggest dream is probably to become a mother one day.
<br />
<br />haha yeah i know what you mean.
<br />haha thanks mellissa and loulou.