HELP! Have you ever been called an AIDS INFECTED RETARD for having CF ?

[Paula10]

Hello Everyone,

Twelve years ago I found my soulmate and fell in love with him in Sweden.
However as much love as we found he had a daughter who turned out psychotic borderline and although I've never met her she has come online to stalk me harras me and sent death threats to me in a way that has affected my health to the worst. I have lost fifteen pounds weight and I am in deplorable shape from this.

I am setting up a blog on my CF and my life and one on this person stalking me.

I would appreciate some support as you read what is going on in my life that has made me now walk between life and death.

Not only am I devastated by much which happened to me because of 'love' BUT my CF has gotten a hold of me from my body not withstanding the brutal attacks I am getting.

the emotional damage this person has brought me along with witchcraft and very bizarre behavior thrown at me,
has made me so that I cannot control my body now. And I don't have insurance right now. I am so alone. I lost my parents and uncles and auntss all who used to care for me. they are dead now. I lasted fifty years and today I am so alone I decided to come to a CF support group and get some help coz frankly I am starting to wish to die now.

If you decide to post on my blog just please do not refer this Cf site coz I don't want the stalker to know where I go online.
thank you all fo ryor support.
tears.

I miss my parents so much.

M. (my real name is not Paula, it is in on the blog ...M....i....N.............a)
http://mycysticfibrosislifestory.blogspot.com/2013/02/when-cfer-gets-attacked-by-insanity.html

http://mycysticfibrosislifestory.blogspot.com/2013/02/january-26-2013-my-name-is-mina-i-am.html

 

[occupyjapan]

Get a restraining order or whatever the Swedish equivalent is. If she continues to contact you, she'll land herself in jail (or a psych ward if she's truly unhinged).

Are you implying this person is trying to... use magic on you? Because witchcraft doesn't exist. I'm sorry, but much as I'm prone to believe that this person is nutty for harassing you, I find it also quite nutty for you to think she was casting spells on you or whatever. It's possible that she's stressed you out with her attacks, but unless I'm reading this incorrectly, you also need to realize that witchcraft isn't a thing that actually exists and this person can't use magic to make you sick.

As for the question in the threat title, I've been called a lot of things by a lot of people. Some of it directed at my health, some of it directed at me as a person, etc. None of it bothers me. The way I look at it, if someone called me an "AIDS-infected retard), I'd go right on not having AIDS and not being retarded and they'd be wrong and look like an asshole to the casual observer to boot.

 

[CyrilCrodius]

Wow.......
I have dealt with something... eerily similar... that had a very similar toll on my health.

First, I have to ask... why the hell are you still giving out your real name?! Stop that RIGHT NOW.

Second, occupyjapan is right, restraining order because that bitch isn't about to be done. However, you have to do it through your local police. It will be transmitted through Interpol when you get it.

Third : Never, ever use the same username on different websites. By that I mean that you should use totally different nicknames, not just variations of the same nickname. Try to use things that will bring up a lot of results if you Google it, like say, common object names or things like that. You have to completely give up on having an online identity. It's hard to get used to, your ego will want to get in the way, want the recognition, but you have to give up on it. I know the kind of person you are dealing with and they are batshit insane as well as dangerous, as we can see from the toll it took on your health. If you try to rebuild another identity, you will sooner or later make a mistake, link a piece of your old e-identity to your new e-identity, she WILL find you and it will start all over again.

Fourth : Google your first and last name in quotes, like : "Firstname Lastname". Any result that comes up, try to have that information off the Internet by logging in to those websites and erasing/replacing your info. Of course, never ever use your real name. God, this can't be stressed enough. People are so careless, thinking the Internet is safe... it's NOT. Anyone else reading this, this applies to you TOO. What has happened to OP has happened to me, has happened to a friend of mine (who had to deal with "real life" trouble caused by those people!) and could happen to you too. It DOES happen. People are fucking sick in the head, okay? Especially on the Internet.

Fifth : Google your email address in quotes, like : "your@email.com". Erase/hide everything you can. Don't hesitate to contact website administrators to ask for assistance in deleting your information if you cannot do it by yourself. Explain your situation to them and those who do read their emails will likely be glad to assist you.

Sixth : Tell your lover to go smack that bitch daughter of his behind the head and do threaten him with a restraining order against his daughter. And MEAN IT. If he does love you, he won't take what she has done to you lightly. It's really fucking SERIOUS. You're sick and she IS making you much MUCH sicker. It will undoubtedly leave PERMANENT damage.

Seventh : Hope she isn't a good Googler.

Eighth : If you are worried about "witchcraft", get a piece of black tourmaline and wear it on you at all times. Check eBay, find one that appeals to you and buy it. You can look for a pendant too, in which case I suggest that you look for a piece that is wire-wrapped like this one. What's important is that you choose one that appeals to you. It should be fairly cheap. It does not need to be large.

 

[occupyjapan]

Eighth : If you are worried about "witchcraft", get a piece of black tourmaline and wear it on you at all times. Check eBay, find one that appeals to you and buy it. You can look for a pendant too, in which case I suggest that you look for a piece that is wire-wrapped like this one. What's important is that you choose one that appeals to you. It should be fairly cheap. It does not need to be large.

Or just do absolutely nothing since witchcraft, magic, voodoo and other silly hokum like that doesn't exist.

 

[CyrilCrodius]

Or just do absolutely nothing since witchcraft, magic, voodoo and other silly hokum like that doesn't exist.

Or just do it because it will cost you less than 10 bucks to have a complete peace of mind in that aspect.

occupyjapan, when people believe something is being done to them through witchcraft or other such means, there is nothing you can do about it. To them, your naysaying is only caused by you not having the eyes to see what they see. So your advice isn't helping her at all getting less stressed or scared, which is the goal here. As far as she's concerned, those things exist and the only reason you think they don't is because you've never experienced them/never seen them. So to her, it would be like saying "you're not being stalked, you're imagining things", which is not helpful AT ALL.

So yeah. 10 bucks and feel better, or do nothing and still be scared shitless because the bigger part of her is still afraid that something witchcrafty is being down to her in spite of what you say?
10 bucks.