lifehappens
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I was just browsing through real quick looking for answers with no luck yet, I don't stop to reply often but thought maybe I could help a little. My daughter has a very severe case of cf she is five I have devoted these past five years to learning anthing I could to help her along my way I thought that I might be a nurse so I went to college for awhile until I took another route in my life stopping to check out schooling for respitory theoripist (sorry for any spelling mistakes, I never have been a great speller) In 2002 when I was in school I know that it was going to take about four years craming 1/2 days in all wk. 2years community and 2years special, don't qoute my words but I think this i right. half of those classes would have been on line and some of them would be items I could complete at home. I really hope that everything goes well with you I hope all your dreams come true. When I relized just how sick my daughter had become I quit working 80 hrs a wk. got poor really quick after wanting everything for my children now I struggle to make ends meet. I wish that there was an easy answer. I started to stress about everything even more since I had left everything I owned with my first husband and most of everything I had since worked for, with my second husband, anything that was possibly left my last boyfriend took when he left about three months ago. I have not been able to work due to my health and have been thinking about what I could due to better our situation without school. I have been a secret nerd probably all of my life, I have toyed with many job ideas and read many things and learned some things along the way, the thing that I would like to due most of all I guess would be to help everyone find their happiness it took me 26 years to start to understand what I wanted and find out who I was. I know that money is needed to survive but does not make a person happy and the tine that we have to waste away from our children is unbarable, and that to almost every average persons life feels like a race that we are all in a struggle to win. I tried to keep this message short so I am sure what i ave wroe makes no sense but if you get anything out of this please take this: Remember life is so short it is gone in the blink of the eye take each moment as if it was th last you were given, love to the end of time, wait for the moments in time the brightest points in your life is the time in which your child smiles to you stopping the time flying past and remember these moments, above all for eternity. take care of yourself and keep your baby close to your heart always. I'll pray for you to whom ever is up there guiding us along. They say God never gives us more than we can handle I sure have doubted a lot of things along the way and made many mistakes but I keep thinking that maybe just maybe Igot a glimpse of the light at the end of the tunnle, being a woman of today in her mid twenties I think we have a lot to offer if we strive for happiness and strength. It's tough to figure out that one thing that we want to do with our lives, I think it was one of the hardest things I ever had to do. I really truely hope that you find what you are looking for and that it's an easy road for you. If you continue school good luck this country needs strong intelegent woman.