We are a parent of a 24yr old (father and stepmother). He has been moving from place to place (sister, friends) since he was 20. The problem we are having is that he works a full time job, and runs 24 -7 when he is not. He is not taking care of himself, not taking his meds or doing treatments, and he continues on this path until he crashes and burns. Then he is left without a job and feels sorry for himself and takes it out on everyone around him. We left him move in with us last May 2011 and he was suppose to file for disability. He never did and wanted to keep working so he would have money for a phone, gas for car, etc. We said he could move in with us if he would start saving his money.
Found out in Nov 2011 he wasnt saving, so we started charging him a small amount of rent (before he was living rent free) and told him he better start saving. Now he had a collection agency pull money from his acct ($300) for a repo car 2yrs ago and he informs us he is broke. He was feeling sorry for himself and said he wasnt feeling well after running all weekend long and now he is in the hospital for a week. He got a job per his father's recommendation at his work and we feel he just doesnt care! Still hasnt saved a dime in 16months. What would you do to make him more responsible and start taking care of himself now that he is over 18? We are at the point of making him move out! Help pls!
Found out in Nov 2011 he wasnt saving, so we started charging him a small amount of rent (before he was living rent free) and told him he better start saving. Now he had a collection agency pull money from his acct ($300) for a repo car 2yrs ago and he informs us he is broke. He was feeling sorry for himself and said he wasnt feeling well after running all weekend long and now he is in the hospital for a week. He got a job per his father's recommendation at his work and we feel he just doesnt care! Still hasnt saved a dime in 16months. What would you do to make him more responsible and start taking care of himself now that he is over 18? We are at the point of making him move out! Help pls!