Hi there everyone. First off I would like to send my thoughts and prayers out to everyone diagnosed with/ has loved ones with CF. I have watched the recent Real World and have never heard of CF before but honestly after hearing Frankie's description, and even after that other girl said thay her mom's brother died of it , i didn't think it was THAT serious, just maybe that he was a rare case of CF and it got severe. I was born with asthma and as many know asthma CAN be fatal, but like I, there are several people who living with it without too much trouble. Thats how I percieved the situation might have been similar to after watching the Real World. After seeing the show I was interested in learning more about it but hadn't gotten the chance. However, this afternoon (Thurs. 15), i was watching one of my favorite shows, "A Wedding Story" and saw a couple on there who was my age and thought wow, thats so great that they found each other's soul mate already but they are so young. I could personally never see myself getting married right now but It didnt bother me, I was happily surprised to have them show that love has no age.
Anyway, they went on with the show and then the bride mentioned that she has CF, and then the camera pans down to her and her mom sorting out all of these pills and organizing them in those plastic containers that label Mon.-Sun. (i'm sure u guys know what i'm talking about. I apologize for not being able to give a great explanation). Then they also showed the groom explaining how he helps her prepare her med's (the one he was talking about in specific was a combination of liquids) he said he had to mix them together and he then poured them into this clear plastic looking mouth piece. After seeing all these med's she had to take daily, my heart dropped. I didnt realize how severe it can be especially since this girl looked perfectly healthy to anyone who didnt know and then it may me think back to Frankie. Back to "A wedding story", the wedding was goregous and she seemed glowing with happiness, i just couldnt stop smiling because she just seemed so happy. Well at the end of the show the screen went black and it had "In memory of..(her name) 1982-2002." I was so sad and shocked at the same time. I wanted to cry but was so overwhelmed with emotions of sadness and confusion that I thought I really have to learn more about this now. Although its now been several hours since i saw the show, it is the sole reason i am here now researching about it. I don't blame Frankie for downplaying the reality of the disease, I can understand it totally. I mean yes she volunteered herself for the show but she did just move into a strange area to her with 7 strangers. Maybe it's just me but I dont like sharing several things about myself with people i just met eventhough i know i'd be living with them, i'd like to take a lil' time into telling them (maybe a week or so). Just so i have a chance to get to know them first and especially on your first night there, with all of the adrenaline rush of being there and everything i'd feel that sharing that side of me wouldn't be the best time. Maybe some of you are upset, or wondering how i can say this when i have no idea what's like to live with it daily but you're right. I don't know and as mentioned that is why I am here, i want to learn more about it and who else to learn from other than from those first hand. The reason why i feel that i wouldnt share that info. right away is that about a month ago i was diagnosed with Cervical Cancer. I am a 20 yr. old college student living 3 hours away from home to go to school so when i first found out, my roommates were those i came "home" to. I had to think about everything in my head myself before thinking about if/when i'd tell my parents (b/c at that point nothing was definite yet) and so i spoke to one of my friends about it ,who also happen to be one of my roommates. She was supportive but i now wish i hadnt mentioned it to her at the time b/c everything is now different between us. I think maybe Frankie wanted to inform her roommates so they were aware in case of anything, but that it was "no big deal" so they didn't worry and/or didnt treat her differently and got to know her for the real person she is instead of for having CF. I hope this novel of an entry makes some sense as to where i'm coming from. Luckily, my health is currently fine but i can somewhat relate to that situation. So with Frankie, I'd say to give it some time and i'm sure she'll come around more with it. Real World is a reality show but MTV likes to educate young people on anything and everything so I'm sure they will go into it further in some way, down the road. ~Now it's time to rest your eyes after reading my new "book"
If you would like to contact me , my email address is Sweetybeat@aol.com and just write something about CF in the subject. Thanks.
Take care all and God Bless, Gina -20 yr old w/o CF (open minded and very willing to learn)