hey guys and gals! vampy here givin a lil heads up. back in college studying the culinary arts <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0"> doing extremely well just a lil prob breathing but being so busy during winter its expected. i do have a lil questions..this is rather embarrassing and its not rated pg 13 by any means. i always feel weird asking questions of these types, kinda worried kids may read them. Some of you may know i have a child. he is great btw almost 3 years old. I recently started seeing a wonderful man, his name is james and he is really great with me, hes teaching me things that no one has taught me, very useful things. like how to file taxes and stuff like this. hes also teaching me how to stay calm and breath during stressful situations. hes in college, has been for 6 years and works two jobs, hes an amazing man, always involved with my treatments and cooks me obscene amounts of food lol. breakfast in bed is a very odd thing to me but i like it lol. when i'm around him, i am extremely relaxed and in a pure state of euphoria lol and he gets along so well with my son. Plus we both are planning very carefully for the future, recently he asked me to move to california with him which i said i couldnt and now he doesnt want to go LOL!!
well my question is, when me and james started becoming sexually active together, he was a virgin, and we are very very careful. always using protection and one night our condom broke, james being in school and working and knowing my condition the man nearly had a panic attack. i told him that the possiblility of concieving again would be really low but if it made him feel any better we would go down in the morning and get that plan b pill which put him at ease. understandable how he got a lil freaked out, both of us are not in the position to have any kids (and me not in the position to have another one) we both are in college and trying to ensure a future. so we went and got the pill, it said if you are a week late on your period talk to your dr you could be pregnant, well as soon as i got the pill i called my dr to talk to him about birth control, i got on birth control and when it came time to have my period i was over a week late but then started a very light and brief period. i didn't worry to much about it, about 2 weeks later i started bleeding, i went to the dr and got a pregnancy test and it was negative but they said it could be to early.
lately i've been extremely tired, and i gained 4 lbs and you all knowing gaining weight with cf is difficult, i did nothing different to gain the four lbs, i didnt even know i did gain weight. but recently i havnt been able to eat, and knowing me i love food, i loooove food and i will eat anything and endless amounts, everything i eat i get so sick to my stomach and i wanna hurl. this is very much NOT like me at all. at school me and jess the girl i go to school with go to eat, i can be soooooo hungry and i would eat something and automatically feel sick to my stomach. I don't really know what is going on, if i am pregnant or not, and honestly being in school the dr never tested me before assigning me birth control pills, knowing im in school i cant just wait 4 to 6 more weeks like the dr said.
Any input anyone can put in would be greatly appreciated. any input or comments would help.
love always
ms vampy!
well my question is, when me and james started becoming sexually active together, he was a virgin, and we are very very careful. always using protection and one night our condom broke, james being in school and working and knowing my condition the man nearly had a panic attack. i told him that the possiblility of concieving again would be really low but if it made him feel any better we would go down in the morning and get that plan b pill which put him at ease. understandable how he got a lil freaked out, both of us are not in the position to have any kids (and me not in the position to have another one) we both are in college and trying to ensure a future. so we went and got the pill, it said if you are a week late on your period talk to your dr you could be pregnant, well as soon as i got the pill i called my dr to talk to him about birth control, i got on birth control and when it came time to have my period i was over a week late but then started a very light and brief period. i didn't worry to much about it, about 2 weeks later i started bleeding, i went to the dr and got a pregnancy test and it was negative but they said it could be to early.
lately i've been extremely tired, and i gained 4 lbs and you all knowing gaining weight with cf is difficult, i did nothing different to gain the four lbs, i didnt even know i did gain weight. but recently i havnt been able to eat, and knowing me i love food, i loooove food and i will eat anything and endless amounts, everything i eat i get so sick to my stomach and i wanna hurl. this is very much NOT like me at all. at school me and jess the girl i go to school with go to eat, i can be soooooo hungry and i would eat something and automatically feel sick to my stomach. I don't really know what is going on, if i am pregnant or not, and honestly being in school the dr never tested me before assigning me birth control pills, knowing im in school i cant just wait 4 to 6 more weeks like the dr said.
Any input anyone can put in would be greatly appreciated. any input or comments would help.
love always
ms vampy!