HI EVERYONE I HAVE MISSED YOU ALL!!!!!!

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karismom

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<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0"> Hi guys!

I just wanted to say that I have missed you all alot...... I have been going through alot of HEAVY S***, both w/ my husband and with Kari.... She is hangin in there, she has been battling the hospital, they are treating her poorly (never thought that would happen!) due to the fact that she is in alot of pain and the ONLY thing that takes her pain away and she can 1/2 way be herself on is IV Dilaudid. She had a problem w/ meth YEARS ago, and so now they are trying to go there with "she just wants to go to the hospital to get HIGH!!!! HELLO!!! lets see.......meth is an UPPER, and Dilaudid is a PAIN med!!! If she wanted to get HIGH she wouldn't have to resort to going to the hospital!!! Ya know what I mean? She has 18% lung function and is miserable!!! Her second tx they went in through her side instead of the clamshell incision and docs have even said that alot of folks have pain after that due to nerves that get cut... so they are treating her like a criminal and I am FURIOUS!!!!!!!!! We are looking into AIM. It is a hospice program NOT like the old days at all. ANY suggestions on how I should handle this anyone????/

I DON"T want to reinact the scene in TERMS of ENDEARMENT you know banging on the nurses station counter and SCREAMING but I WILL! Anyway, I have to get to bed will write again soon.

peace. <img src="i/expressions/rose.gif" border="0">

lisa
 
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karismom

New member
<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0"> Hi guys!

I just wanted to say that I have missed you all alot...... I have been going through alot of HEAVY S***, both w/ my husband and with Kari.... She is hangin in there, she has been battling the hospital, they are treating her poorly (never thought that would happen!) due to the fact that she is in alot of pain and the ONLY thing that takes her pain away and she can 1/2 way be herself on is IV Dilaudid. She had a problem w/ meth YEARS ago, and so now they are trying to go there with "she just wants to go to the hospital to get HIGH!!!! HELLO!!! lets see.......meth is an UPPER, and Dilaudid is a PAIN med!!! If she wanted to get HIGH she wouldn't have to resort to going to the hospital!!! Ya know what I mean? She has 18% lung function and is miserable!!! Her second tx they went in through her side instead of the clamshell incision and docs have even said that alot of folks have pain after that due to nerves that get cut... so they are treating her like a criminal and I am FURIOUS!!!!!!!!! We are looking into AIM. It is a hospice program NOT like the old days at all. ANY suggestions on how I should handle this anyone????/

I DON"T want to reinact the scene in TERMS of ENDEARMENT you know banging on the nurses station counter and SCREAMING but I WILL! Anyway, I have to get to bed will write again soon.

peace. <img src="i/expressions/rose.gif" border="0">

lisa
 
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karismom

New member
<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0"> Hi guys!

I just wanted to say that I have missed you all alot...... I have been going through alot of HEAVY S***, both w/ my husband and with Kari.... She is hangin in there, she has been battling the hospital, they are treating her poorly (never thought that would happen!) due to the fact that she is in alot of pain and the ONLY thing that takes her pain away and she can 1/2 way be herself on is IV Dilaudid. She had a problem w/ meth YEARS ago, and so now they are trying to go there with "she just wants to go to the hospital to get HIGH!!!! HELLO!!! lets see.......meth is an UPPER, and Dilaudid is a PAIN med!!! If she wanted to get HIGH she wouldn't have to resort to going to the hospital!!! Ya know what I mean? She has 18% lung function and is miserable!!! Her second tx they went in through her side instead of the clamshell incision and docs have even said that alot of folks have pain after that due to nerves that get cut... so they are treating her like a criminal and I am FURIOUS!!!!!!!!! We are looking into AIM. It is a hospice program NOT like the old days at all. ANY suggestions on how I should handle this anyone????/

I DON"T want to reinact the scene in TERMS of ENDEARMENT you know banging on the nurses station counter and SCREAMING but I WILL! Anyway, I have to get to bed will write again soon.

peace. <img src="i/expressions/rose.gif" border="0">

lisa
 
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karismom

New member
<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0"> Hi guys!

I just wanted to say that I have missed you all alot...... I have been going through alot of HEAVY S***, both w/ my husband and with Kari.... She is hangin in there, she has been battling the hospital, they are treating her poorly (never thought that would happen!) due to the fact that she is in alot of pain and the ONLY thing that takes her pain away and she can 1/2 way be herself on is IV Dilaudid. She had a problem w/ meth YEARS ago, and so now they are trying to go there with "she just wants to go to the hospital to get HIGH!!!! HELLO!!! lets see.......meth is an UPPER, and Dilaudid is a PAIN med!!! If she wanted to get HIGH she wouldn't have to resort to going to the hospital!!! Ya know what I mean? She has 18% lung function and is miserable!!! Her second tx they went in through her side instead of the clamshell incision and docs have even said that alot of folks have pain after that due to nerves that get cut... so they are treating her like a criminal and I am FURIOUS!!!!!!!!! We are looking into AIM. It is a hospice program NOT like the old days at all. ANY suggestions on how I should handle this anyone????/

I DON"T want to reinact the scene in TERMS of ENDEARMENT you know banging on the nurses station counter and SCREAMING but I WILL! Anyway, I have to get to bed will write again soon.

peace. <img src="i/expressions/rose.gif" border="0">

lisa
 
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karismom

New member
<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0"> Hi guys!

I just wanted to say that I have missed you all alot...... I have been going through alot of HEAVY S***, both w/ my husband and with Kari.... She is hangin in there, she has been battling the hospital, they are treating her poorly (never thought that would happen!) due to the fact that she is in alot of pain and the ONLY thing that takes her pain away and she can 1/2 way be herself on is IV Dilaudid. She had a problem w/ meth YEARS ago, and so now they are trying to go there with "she just wants to go to the hospital to get HIGH!!!! HELLO!!! lets see.......meth is an UPPER, and Dilaudid is a PAIN med!!! If she wanted to get HIGH she wouldn't have to resort to going to the hospital!!! Ya know what I mean? She has 18% lung function and is miserable!!! Her second tx they went in through her side instead of the clamshell incision and docs have even said that alot of folks have pain after that due to nerves that get cut... so they are treating her like a criminal and I am FURIOUS!!!!!!!!! We are looking into AIM. It is a hospice program NOT like the old days at all. ANY suggestions on how I should handle this anyone????/

I DON"T want to reinact the scene in TERMS of ENDEARMENT you know banging on the nurses station counter and SCREAMING but I WILL! Anyway, I have to get to bed will write again soon.

peace. <img src="i/expressions/rose.gif" border="0">

lisa
 
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bittyhorse23

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Hi Lisa!!

I was just asking Terri about you last week!!!!

I am so sorry to hear about Kari <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> I hope this new hospice service treats her much better. That is such a shame.

Hang in there we are all thinking about you and your family <img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
 
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bittyhorse23

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Hi Lisa!!

I was just asking Terri about you last week!!!!

I am so sorry to hear about Kari <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> I hope this new hospice service treats her much better. That is such a shame.

Hang in there we are all thinking about you and your family <img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
 
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bittyhorse23

New member
Hi Lisa!!

I was just asking Terri about you last week!!!!

I am so sorry to hear about Kari <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> I hope this new hospice service treats her much better. That is such a shame.

Hang in there we are all thinking about you and your family <img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
 
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bittyhorse23

New member
Hi Lisa!!

I was just asking Terri about you last week!!!!

I am so sorry to hear about Kari <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> I hope this new hospice service treats her much better. That is such a shame.

Hang in there we are all thinking about you and your family <img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
 
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bittyhorse23

New member
Hi Lisa!!

I was just asking Terri about you last week!!!!

I am so sorry to hear about Kari <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> I hope this new hospice service treats her much better. That is such a shame.

Hang in there we are all thinking about you and your family <img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
 
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kayleesgrandma

New member
Kari, IT IS A LAW that a patient is to have proper pain medication. a patient is NOT to be in pain! Talk to the doctor, have him order something better or more frequently...the nurses HAVE to give pain medication as ordered. This is an "end of life" issue and therefore she should be kept comfortable! GO ahead be the mom from terms of endearment!!! If it was their daughter what would they do?

I thought she was in hospice already--wasn't that what we talked about? Though we didn't get to talk long enough last Sat. I tried to call you on that Sunday, but you were gone. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-frown.gif" border="0"> I thought you were probably visiting Kari...

I'm glad you touched base with us...we have been missing you, and wondering about Kari. You have our prayers...
 
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kayleesgrandma

New member
Kari, IT IS A LAW that a patient is to have proper pain medication. a patient is NOT to be in pain! Talk to the doctor, have him order something better or more frequently...the nurses HAVE to give pain medication as ordered. This is an "end of life" issue and therefore she should be kept comfortable! GO ahead be the mom from terms of endearment!!! If it was their daughter what would they do?

I thought she was in hospice already--wasn't that what we talked about? Though we didn't get to talk long enough last Sat. I tried to call you on that Sunday, but you were gone. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-frown.gif" border="0"> I thought you were probably visiting Kari...

I'm glad you touched base with us...we have been missing you, and wondering about Kari. You have our prayers...
 
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kayleesgrandma

New member
Kari, IT IS A LAW that a patient is to have proper pain medication. a patient is NOT to be in pain! Talk to the doctor, have him order something better or more frequently...the nurses HAVE to give pain medication as ordered. This is an "end of life" issue and therefore she should be kept comfortable! GO ahead be the mom from terms of endearment!!! If it was their daughter what would they do?

I thought she was in hospice already--wasn't that what we talked about? Though we didn't get to talk long enough last Sat. I tried to call you on that Sunday, but you were gone. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-frown.gif" border="0"> I thought you were probably visiting Kari...

I'm glad you touched base with us...we have been missing you, and wondering about Kari. You have our prayers...
 
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kayleesgrandma

New member
Kari, IT IS A LAW that a patient is to have proper pain medication. a patient is NOT to be in pain! Talk to the doctor, have him order something better or more frequently...the nurses HAVE to give pain medication as ordered. This is an "end of life" issue and therefore she should be kept comfortable! GO ahead be the mom from terms of endearment!!! If it was their daughter what would they do?

I thought she was in hospice already--wasn't that what we talked about? Though we didn't get to talk long enough last Sat. I tried to call you on that Sunday, but you were gone. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-frown.gif" border="0"> I thought you were probably visiting Kari...

I'm glad you touched base with us...we have been missing you, and wondering about Kari. You have our prayers...
 
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kayleesgrandma

New member
Kari, IT IS A LAW that a patient is to have proper pain medication. a patient is NOT to be in pain! Talk to the doctor, have him order something better or more frequently...the nurses HAVE to give pain medication as ordered. This is an "end of life" issue and therefore she should be kept comfortable! GO ahead be the mom from terms of endearment!!! If it was their daughter what would they do?

I thought she was in hospice already--wasn't that what we talked about? Though we didn't get to talk long enough last Sat. I tried to call you on that Sunday, but you were gone. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-frown.gif" border="0"> I thought you were probably visiting Kari...

I'm glad you touched base with us...we have been missing you, and wondering about Kari. You have our prayers...
 
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JazzysMom

New member
I am livid about this. Who cares what happened earlier in her life. Circumstances now should definitely dictate the need. It doesnt take a rocket scientist, but it does take a compassionate one.

I am assuming all states are the same with what Terri is talking about. My heart aches for you.

HUGS HUGS HUGS & thanks for checking. You might be out of sight at times, but never far from our hearts!
 
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JazzysMom

New member
I am livid about this. Who cares what happened earlier in her life. Circumstances now should definitely dictate the need. It doesnt take a rocket scientist, but it does take a compassionate one.

I am assuming all states are the same with what Terri is talking about. My heart aches for you.

HUGS HUGS HUGS & thanks for checking. You might be out of sight at times, but never far from our hearts!
 
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JazzysMom

New member
I am livid about this. Who cares what happened earlier in her life. Circumstances now should definitely dictate the need. It doesnt take a rocket scientist, but it does take a compassionate one.

I am assuming all states are the same with what Terri is talking about. My heart aches for you.

HUGS HUGS HUGS & thanks for checking. You might be out of sight at times, but never far from our hearts!
 
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JazzysMom

New member
I am livid about this. Who cares what happened earlier in her life. Circumstances now should definitely dictate the need. It doesnt take a rocket scientist, but it does take a compassionate one.

I am assuming all states are the same with what Terri is talking about. My heart aches for you.

HUGS HUGS HUGS & thanks for checking. You might be out of sight at times, but never far from our hearts!
 
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JazzysMom

New member
I am livid about this. Who cares what happened earlier in her life. Circumstances now should definitely dictate the need. It doesnt take a rocket scientist, but it does take a compassionate one.

I am assuming all states are the same with what Terri is talking about. My heart aches for you.

HUGS HUGS HUGS & thanks for checking. You might be out of sight at times, but never far from our hearts!
 
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