Oh Lisa I feel so bad for her & you!! I agree with everyone else here. I work for a Home Care/Hospice agency. If I was you I would definetly get her on hospice. Our Hospice program is absolutly wonderful - pain control is there main job to get under control. They will give her better one on one care and also help the family get thru this rough time. They deal with the doctor and getting orders etc - so you don't have to. I would think every hospice program is alike. Usually they can keep them in their own home if they prefer. Let us know how things go - I send alot of prayers for all of you!!!