i'm definitely going to make the hospital play the bad guys. i don't want a ton of people at the hospital after the baby is born. they can wait a few days or a week to come see her at home. i'm not a big fan of a lot of people at the hospital. and i am a very modest person and i want to breastfeed so i really don't want people all up in my business. maybe the mosdesty will die down after a few weeks.