How do you deal with bad news

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jacksmom

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Thankyou everyone for your replies.
I'm glad I'm not the only one having problems sharing our struggles with the world.
We had a website for my son when he was born due to the fact he was born with MI and in the hospital for over four months but lately I just don't have the heart to keep it going.
My husband is busy with work and school or I would make him do it.
For some reason I haven't been able to just let go and have a good cry. I get on the verg and then something holds me back.
We only found out on Wednesday and had it confirmed on Thursday so the information is still very new.
I am glad this forum is here for all of us.
Thanks again
Carey
 
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jacksmom

New member
Thankyou everyone for your replies.
I'm glad I'm not the only one having problems sharing our struggles with the world.
We had a website for my son when he was born due to the fact he was born with MI and in the hospital for over four months but lately I just don't have the heart to keep it going.
My husband is busy with work and school or I would make him do it.
For some reason I haven't been able to just let go and have a good cry. I get on the verg and then something holds me back.
We only found out on Wednesday and had it confirmed on Thursday so the information is still very new.
I am glad this forum is here for all of us.
Thanks again
Carey
 
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jacksmom

New member
Thankyou everyone for your replies.
I'm glad I'm not the only one having problems sharing our struggles with the world.
We had a website for my son when he was born due to the fact he was born with MI and in the hospital for over four months but lately I just don't have the heart to keep it going.
My husband is busy with work and school or I would make him do it.
For some reason I haven't been able to just let go and have a good cry. I get on the verg and then something holds me back.
We only found out on Wednesday and had it confirmed on Thursday so the information is still very new.
I am glad this forum is here for all of us.
Thanks again
Carey
 
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jacksmom

New member
Thankyou everyone for your replies.
I'm glad I'm not the only one having problems sharing our struggles with the world.
We had a website for my son when he was born due to the fact he was born with MI and in the hospital for over four months but lately I just don't have the heart to keep it going.
My husband is busy with work and school or I would make him do it.
For some reason I haven't been able to just let go and have a good cry. I get on the verg and then something holds me back.
We only found out on Wednesday and had it confirmed on Thursday so the information is still very new.
I am glad this forum is here for all of us.
Thanks again
Carey
 
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jacksmom

New member
Thankyou everyone for your replies.
<br />I'm glad I'm not the only one having problems sharing our struggles with the world.
<br />We had a website for my son when he was born due to the fact he was born with MI and in the hospital for over four months but lately I just don't have the heart to keep it going.
<br />My husband is busy with work and school or I would make him do it.
<br />For some reason I haven't been able to just let go and have a good cry. I get on the verg and then something holds me back.
<br />We only found out on Wednesday and had it confirmed on Thursday so the information is still very new.
<br />I am glad this forum is here for all of us.
<br />Thanks again
<br />Carey
 
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BabyBeauty

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Carey,

I am sorry to hear about the news. It is good you are talking about it somewhere. I agree that bottling it up will only make it worse. You need an outlet. When you want to tell your family you will. Just take some time with your son and give him lots of hugs and kisses!
 
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BabyBeauty

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Carey,

I am sorry to hear about the news. It is good you are talking about it somewhere. I agree that bottling it up will only make it worse. You need an outlet. When you want to tell your family you will. Just take some time with your son and give him lots of hugs and kisses!
 
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BabyBeauty

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Carey,

I am sorry to hear about the news. It is good you are talking about it somewhere. I agree that bottling it up will only make it worse. You need an outlet. When you want to tell your family you will. Just take some time with your son and give him lots of hugs and kisses!
 
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BabyBeauty

New member
Carey,

I am sorry to hear about the news. It is good you are talking about it somewhere. I agree that bottling it up will only make it worse. You need an outlet. When you want to tell your family you will. Just take some time with your son and give him lots of hugs and kisses!
 
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BabyBeauty

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Carey,
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<br />I am sorry to hear about the news. It is good you are talking about it somewhere. I agree that bottling it up will only make it worse. You need an outlet. When you want to tell your family you will. Just take some time with your son and give him lots of hugs and kisses!
 
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CJsmom

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>MargaritaChic</b></i>

So I set up a caringbridge website for my daughter and I sent the link to all of my friends and family. I update it with her news. That way anyone that really cares to know how she is doing will check the site. Then they know of issues she is having and I don't have to talk about it over and over.

</end quote></div>


I do the same thing. We have so many things thrown at us all the time by the docs that sometimes its hard to talk about it and sometimes, I just get sick of repeating it over and over again. CJ has a website too. Anyone wanting to check in on him can do it that way and then I don't have to talk about it directly unless I am feeling up for it.
 
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CJsmom

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>MargaritaChic</b></i>

So I set up a caringbridge website for my daughter and I sent the link to all of my friends and family. I update it with her news. That way anyone that really cares to know how she is doing will check the site. Then they know of issues she is having and I don't have to talk about it over and over.

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I do the same thing. We have so many things thrown at us all the time by the docs that sometimes its hard to talk about it and sometimes, I just get sick of repeating it over and over again. CJ has a website too. Anyone wanting to check in on him can do it that way and then I don't have to talk about it directly unless I am feeling up for it.
 
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CJsmom

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>MargaritaChic</b></i>

So I set up a caringbridge website for my daughter and I sent the link to all of my friends and family. I update it with her news. That way anyone that really cares to know how she is doing will check the site. Then they know of issues she is having and I don't have to talk about it over and over.

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I do the same thing. We have so many things thrown at us all the time by the docs that sometimes its hard to talk about it and sometimes, I just get sick of repeating it over and over again. CJ has a website too. Anyone wanting to check in on him can do it that way and then I don't have to talk about it directly unless I am feeling up for it.
 
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CJsmom

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>MargaritaChic</b></i>

So I set up a caringbridge website for my daughter and I sent the link to all of my friends and family. I update it with her news. That way anyone that really cares to know how she is doing will check the site. Then they know of issues she is having and I don't have to talk about it over and over.

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I do the same thing. We have so many things thrown at us all the time by the docs that sometimes its hard to talk about it and sometimes, I just get sick of repeating it over and over again. CJ has a website too. Anyone wanting to check in on him can do it that way and then I don't have to talk about it directly unless I am feeling up for it.
 
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CJsmom

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>MargaritaChic</b></i>
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<br /> So I set up a caringbridge website for my daughter and I sent the link to all of my friends and family. I update it with her news. That way anyone that really cares to know how she is doing will check the site. Then they know of issues she is having and I don't have to talk about it over and over.
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<br />I do the same thing. We have so many things thrown at us all the time by the docs that sometimes its hard to talk about it and sometimes, I just get sick of repeating it over and over again. CJ has a website too. Anyone wanting to check in on him can do it that way and then I don't have to talk about it directly unless I am feeling up for it.
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thefrogprincess

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Explain to you're family that you need some time to sort out your thoughts and feelings right now. I know that when I am deeling with something big I need a few days for my scattered thoughts and emotions to settle themselves into something I CAN explain clearly.

And like everyone already, come here.
 
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thefrogprincess

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Explain to you're family that you need some time to sort out your thoughts and feelings right now. I know that when I am deeling with something big I need a few days for my scattered thoughts and emotions to settle themselves into something I CAN explain clearly.

And like everyone already, come here.
 
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thefrogprincess

New member
Explain to you're family that you need some time to sort out your thoughts and feelings right now. I know that when I am deeling with something big I need a few days for my scattered thoughts and emotions to settle themselves into something I CAN explain clearly.

And like everyone already, come here.
 
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thefrogprincess

New member
Explain to you're family that you need some time to sort out your thoughts and feelings right now. I know that when I am deeling with something big I need a few days for my scattered thoughts and emotions to settle themselves into something I CAN explain clearly.

And like everyone already, come here.
 
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thefrogprincess

New member
Explain to you're family that you need some time to sort out your thoughts and feelings right now. I know that when I am deeling with something big I need a few days for my scattered thoughts and emotions to settle themselves into something I CAN explain clearly.
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<br />And like everyone already, come here.
 
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