How do you feel when SOME ONE else tells others you have CF?

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Kelli

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I think Mel hit the nail on the head. Maybe I wouldn't care so much but it's just the person he told. That TYPE of person. I cannot stand her!!

My husband has told others (associates) and yes, I don't mind that, but they are people I know well. And those are GREAT people who pray for me when I'm sick & truly care, where as, this woman, is 1/2 evil and just wants to gossip.

I understand that I cannot control what others say behind my back (especially being the bosses wife and working there, etc) I'm an easy target for gossip, I understand that. I just can't stand the woman he told (and she's not a temp, she is in charge of the temps at the temp agency). So she doesn't work for us, we just do business with the company she works at.

She just drives me nuts because I catch her looking at me out of the corner of her eye, and when she comes to my work, she barges in like she owns the place. UGH. I cannot stand her, her personality is pushy, bossy, etc..

So I just wish he'd keep his mouth shut around her. I don't WANT her knowing anything about me. Personal or otherwise, basically.

Thanks for listening to me vent. I appreciate it. And Mel, I'm happy to see you on here. Rubyroselee, I think you are adorable! And Emily, you know a lot. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

On that note, have a great night!

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KELLI
 
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Kelli

New member
I think Mel hit the nail on the head. Maybe I wouldn't care so much but it's just the person he told. That TYPE of person. I cannot stand her!!

My husband has told others (associates) and yes, I don't mind that, but they are people I know well. And those are GREAT people who pray for me when I'm sick & truly care, where as, this woman, is 1/2 evil and just wants to gossip.

I understand that I cannot control what others say behind my back (especially being the bosses wife and working there, etc) I'm an easy target for gossip, I understand that. I just can't stand the woman he told (and she's not a temp, she is in charge of the temps at the temp agency). So she doesn't work for us, we just do business with the company she works at.

She just drives me nuts because I catch her looking at me out of the corner of her eye, and when she comes to my work, she barges in like she owns the place. UGH. I cannot stand her, her personality is pushy, bossy, etc..

So I just wish he'd keep his mouth shut around her. I don't WANT her knowing anything about me. Personal or otherwise, basically.

Thanks for listening to me vent. I appreciate it. And Mel, I'm happy to see you on here. Rubyroselee, I think you are adorable! And Emily, you know a lot. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

On that note, have a great night!

<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
KELLI
 
K

Kelli

New member
I think Mel hit the nail on the head. Maybe I wouldn't care so much but it's just the person he told. That TYPE of person. I cannot stand her!!

My husband has told others (associates) and yes, I don't mind that, but they are people I know well. And those are GREAT people who pray for me when I'm sick & truly care, where as, this woman, is 1/2 evil and just wants to gossip.

I understand that I cannot control what others say behind my back (especially being the bosses wife and working there, etc) I'm an easy target for gossip, I understand that. I just can't stand the woman he told (and she's not a temp, she is in charge of the temps at the temp agency). So she doesn't work for us, we just do business with the company she works at.

She just drives me nuts because I catch her looking at me out of the corner of her eye, and when she comes to my work, she barges in like she owns the place. UGH. I cannot stand her, her personality is pushy, bossy, etc..

So I just wish he'd keep his mouth shut around her. I don't WANT her knowing anything about me. Personal or otherwise, basically.

Thanks for listening to me vent. I appreciate it. And Mel, I'm happy to see you on here. Rubyroselee, I think you are adorable! And Emily, you know a lot. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

On that note, have a great night!

<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
KELLI
 
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Kelli

New member
I think Mel hit the nail on the head. Maybe I wouldn't care so much but it's just the person he told. That TYPE of person. I cannot stand her!!

My husband has told others (associates) and yes, I don't mind that, but they are people I know well. And those are GREAT people who pray for me when I'm sick & truly care, where as, this woman, is 1/2 evil and just wants to gossip.

I understand that I cannot control what others say behind my back (especially being the bosses wife and working there, etc) I'm an easy target for gossip, I understand that. I just can't stand the woman he told (and she's not a temp, she is in charge of the temps at the temp agency). So she doesn't work for us, we just do business with the company she works at.

She just drives me nuts because I catch her looking at me out of the corner of her eye, and when she comes to my work, she barges in like she owns the place. UGH. I cannot stand her, her personality is pushy, bossy, etc..

So I just wish he'd keep his mouth shut around her. I don't WANT her knowing anything about me. Personal or otherwise, basically.

Thanks for listening to me vent. I appreciate it. And Mel, I'm happy to see you on here. Rubyroselee, I think you are adorable! And Emily, you know a lot. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

On that note, have a great night!

<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
KELLI
 
K

Kelli

New member
I think Mel hit the nail on the head. Maybe I wouldn't care so much but it's just the person he told. That TYPE of person. I cannot stand her!!

My husband has told others (associates) and yes, I don't mind that, but they are people I know well. And those are GREAT people who pray for me when I'm sick & truly care, where as, this woman, is 1/2 evil and just wants to gossip.

I understand that I cannot control what others say behind my back (especially being the bosses wife and working there, etc) I'm an easy target for gossip, I understand that. I just can't stand the woman he told (and she's not a temp, she is in charge of the temps at the temp agency). So she doesn't work for us, we just do business with the company she works at.

She just drives me nuts because I catch her looking at me out of the corner of her eye, and when she comes to my work, she barges in like she owns the place. UGH. I cannot stand her, her personality is pushy, bossy, etc..

So I just wish he'd keep his mouth shut around her. I don't WANT her knowing anything about me. Personal or otherwise, basically.

Thanks for listening to me vent. I appreciate it. And Mel, I'm happy to see you on here. Rubyroselee, I think you are adorable! And Emily, you know a lot. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

On that note, have a great night!

<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
KELLI
 
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Kelli

New member
yes, you always have info on stuff or at least give your advice/opinion which is a point of view that I (typically) don't think of.

it's a compliment. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
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Kelli

New member
yes, you always have info on stuff or at least give your advice/opinion which is a point of view that I (typically) don't think of.

it's a compliment. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
K

Kelli

New member
yes, you always have info on stuff or at least give your advice/opinion which is a point of view that I (typically) don't think of.

it's a compliment. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
K

Kelli

New member
yes, you always have info on stuff or at least give your advice/opinion which is a point of view that I (typically) don't think of.

it's a compliment. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
K

Kelli

New member
yes, you always have info on stuff or at least give your advice/opinion which is a point of view that I (typically) don't think of.

it's a compliment. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
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bittyhorse23

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I agree with Mel. Just tell her that you don't want to discuss your presonal affairs and health with her. Hopefully she will take the hint.

I am like you in that I like to tell people and that doesn't happen often. I have become much more open about telling people but I don't like the world knowing. I will give people permission to tell others but I need to know the person before they know about my CF. I also like when people tell someone for me because it takes the pressure off of me but I want them to clear it with me first - if that makes sense?

I may have it plastered all over my jeep (stickers and magnets about CF) and my myspace page, but I don't like total strangers hearing someone say "yeah Amy has cystic fibrosis". And to add to that I HATE saying "I have cystic fibrosis". I would much rather say "I have CF" <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

If your hubby knows you like to tell others than shame on him. Just be honest with him. Tell him you were hurt that he told.

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bittyhorse23

New member
I agree with Mel. Just tell her that you don't want to discuss your presonal affairs and health with her. Hopefully she will take the hint.

I am like you in that I like to tell people and that doesn't happen often. I have become much more open about telling people but I don't like the world knowing. I will give people permission to tell others but I need to know the person before they know about my CF. I also like when people tell someone for me because it takes the pressure off of me but I want them to clear it with me first - if that makes sense?

I may have it plastered all over my jeep (stickers and magnets about CF) and my myspace page, but I don't like total strangers hearing someone say "yeah Amy has cystic fibrosis". And to add to that I HATE saying "I have cystic fibrosis". I would much rather say "I have CF" <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

If your hubby knows you like to tell others than shame on him. Just be honest with him. Tell him you were hurt that he told.

<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
 
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bittyhorse23

New member
I agree with Mel. Just tell her that you don't want to discuss your presonal affairs and health with her. Hopefully she will take the hint.

I am like you in that I like to tell people and that doesn't happen often. I have become much more open about telling people but I don't like the world knowing. I will give people permission to tell others but I need to know the person before they know about my CF. I also like when people tell someone for me because it takes the pressure off of me but I want them to clear it with me first - if that makes sense?

I may have it plastered all over my jeep (stickers and magnets about CF) and my myspace page, but I don't like total strangers hearing someone say "yeah Amy has cystic fibrosis". And to add to that I HATE saying "I have cystic fibrosis". I would much rather say "I have CF" <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

If your hubby knows you like to tell others than shame on him. Just be honest with him. Tell him you were hurt that he told.

<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
 
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bittyhorse23

New member
I agree with Mel. Just tell her that you don't want to discuss your presonal affairs and health with her. Hopefully she will take the hint.

I am like you in that I like to tell people and that doesn't happen often. I have become much more open about telling people but I don't like the world knowing. I will give people permission to tell others but I need to know the person before they know about my CF. I also like when people tell someone for me because it takes the pressure off of me but I want them to clear it with me first - if that makes sense?

I may have it plastered all over my jeep (stickers and magnets about CF) and my myspace page, but I don't like total strangers hearing someone say "yeah Amy has cystic fibrosis". And to add to that I HATE saying "I have cystic fibrosis". I would much rather say "I have CF" <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

If your hubby knows you like to tell others than shame on him. Just be honest with him. Tell him you were hurt that he told.

<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
 
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bittyhorse23

New member
I agree with Mel. Just tell her that you don't want to discuss your presonal affairs and health with her. Hopefully she will take the hint.

I am like you in that I like to tell people and that doesn't happen often. I have become much more open about telling people but I don't like the world knowing. I will give people permission to tell others but I need to know the person before they know about my CF. I also like when people tell someone for me because it takes the pressure off of me but I want them to clear it with me first - if that makes sense?

I may have it plastered all over my jeep (stickers and magnets about CF) and my myspace page, but I don't like total strangers hearing someone say "yeah Amy has cystic fibrosis". And to add to that I HATE saying "I have cystic fibrosis". I would much rather say "I have CF" <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

If your hubby knows you like to tell others than shame on him. Just be honest with him. Tell him you were hurt that he told.

<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
 
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