Thanks for all your caring replies. I'll try to answer all the questions in turn.
First -- he felt somewhat improved today so I did not take him to the ER. He is taking Musinex and Cipro, and of course Pulmicort. The head CF doc at his center has seen him since he was 18 (prior to that he was at the child center). The doc prescribed the Cipro, and left it at our discretion whether he was sick enough he had to go to the ER. That was the motivation for my post -- I wasn't sure what "sick enough" looked like. I have CFRM and when I was his age I would get sick frequently and go to the ER. They would always just give me IV fluids and send me home. Now I have a *serious* phobia to IVs after all those incidents. I was also on antibiotics for a lot of my childhood and on prednisone frequently in my 20's. Furthermore both my children have CF so I just don't know what normal sick looks like. My older son had a cough for years and I took him to every type of doctor, only to be told in the end that the cough was "behavioral". (He has a history of autism as well as the CF).
Thank you all for your concern about the Pseudomonas. i am very concerned also, and shocked that we were not told about it. I can't help but think that there may be some downplaying of his CF because only one gene has been found despite sweat chloride levels in the 60's-70's.. I have not been going to his CF appointments but will go to the next one to advocate for better care. He can have trouble navigating some social situations, and I think this shows he needs me there.
Aboveall -- The doctor did not give him the choice of going into the center to admit through the center. That is because it is a holiday. Last time DS was this sick they saw him at the CF center and they gave him the Cipro. Then I had him move back into my house for a month so I could monitor. Now he is back living on his own.
Windex -- he can't take Bactrim. Last year he developed a serious adverse reaction to Sulfa (face and mouth puffed up like a balloon.)
Hey there again Fel,
I'm so glad he is feeling a bit better, hoping it continues! Hey this post brought up a big question for me...... am I understanding correctly that the only med he is nebbing is Pulmicort?? If so, I would REALLY question the reason behind that given the diagnosis, and especially with this cough he's got. If he's not already, I feel like he should really really be on hypertonic saline, and maybe even considering Pulmozyme. Can I ask what his baseline is? Does he always cough? I think at this point if he's not on anything other than pulmicort it's time to push for hyper-sal, or even 3% saline at the least. Something else to moisten up his lungs and help him cough stuff out while he's vesting. I think that could help A LOT. I don't mean to be pushy, but I'd ask the doc if he could start saline ASAP! Again, all of this is if he's not already using it.
Hyper-sal, and normal saline are both VERY safe (salt water), and pretty inexpensive. So I can't think of a reason a doctor would not be on board with this.
The other thing is that I definitely used to get sick more at back to school time, and almost every October during season change... I think the back to school stuff is just catching the usual bugs that float around in the germ infested school environment. Most other kids just shake it off in a matter of days, but for us it can lead to full blown exacerbations. I agree with others who said to maybe try to time Tobi for those months, or stay on top of it and ask for an oral antibiotic at the onset of symptoms, even if it seems to "just be a cold", because for us it so often turns into something more.
Hang in there mom! Keep advocating for and taking good care of your son. Please keep us posted and let us know of more questions.
Autumn
PS. I agree with everyone that it sounds like someone dropped the ball on treating pseudo, and hitting it hard and aggressively would be the ideal approach. I'm sorry that the system failed you on that.
I hope you are able to get Tobi asap.