My son is still little and though he started life off with some major bumps, we are doing well with it as a family now. We have spent time grieving the idea of health we always imagined for our little one. We have spent time feeling guilty that though we conceived him in love, ultimately our genes gave him this thing called CF. We have also spent alot of time realizing what is truly important in life. We are finally makign our way to a place of hope...hope that with love, nutrition, therapy, and lots of freedom to explore life as a family, he will fulfil his destiny, whatever that is and in whatever time he has here on the earth. Each day I also feel I realize their is as much possibility for CF not affecting our lives much. I'd like to say we feel it is in the background until it isn't.
We try very hard to make CF only one very small word used to talk about who our son is...he is BEN first and foremost and always will be. We go to clinic every 3 months. He takes enzymes with every meal to help him digest his food...without them he can't take in the nutrients from his food. He will be starting chest physiotherapy with a vest (compressed air vibrates a vest they wear to help keep lungs free of mucus).
We are reminded daily how precious life and breathe really are and we choose to use this reminder to go after life as we never have before. I believe attitude is everything in this life, CF or another challenge. I practice letting go of fear and holding onto hope each time I catch myself worrying about the future. It helps me come back to the present moment and realize he is healthy and vibrant and going strong.
This is our perspective from a parents view. Good luck with your project.