Lizard, if your BF isn't a carrier of any CF mutation (Quest diagnositics is the best laboratory to have the test done since your have CF, they test for ALL of the known mutations) there is no need to do PGD. You can find some information on PGD on my website: <a target=new class=ftalternatingbarlinklarge href="http://www.cysticfibrosismaleinfertility.com/ART_PDG.html">http://www.cysticfibrosismaleinfertility.com/ART_PDG.html</a> and then go further, but you shouldn't need that step unless he is a carrier.
For the female reproductive stuff, HollyCatherine's website is a great resource, <a target=new class=ftalternatingbarlinklarge href="http://www.geocities.com/murrensnaturemama/index.html">http://www.geocities.com/murrensnaturemama/index.html</a>
I don't really have any help for your other questions thought, I have always been the one who has been non-stop with CF questions for my husband, not initially but after about the first 9 months I was all questions for a while.