How to tell girlfriend about CF?

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mattemo

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hi everyone...completely new here. anyway, i'm looking for any advice -

I just started dating this girl (I'm 31, she's 22), and we're both really into each other. I'm wondering when and how the best time to tell her i have CF would be? In past relationships, the girls have either known ahead of time, or I never told them because it wasn't going to last anyway. I'm planning on just bringing it up casually somehow and pretending it's not a big deal.

i'm sure there are similar threads, but i couldn't find any...so sorry for the possible repetition.

THANKS!
 
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mattemo

New member
hi everyone...completely new here. anyway, i'm looking for any advice -

I just started dating this girl (I'm 31, she's 22), and we're both really into each other. I'm wondering when and how the best time to tell her i have CF would be? In past relationships, the girls have either known ahead of time, or I never told them because it wasn't going to last anyway. I'm planning on just bringing it up casually somehow and pretending it's not a big deal.

i'm sure there are similar threads, but i couldn't find any...so sorry for the possible repetition.

THANKS!
 
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mattemo

New member
hi everyone...completely new here. anyway, i'm looking for any advice -

I just started dating this girl (I'm 31, she's 22), and we're both really into each other. I'm wondering when and how the best time to tell her i have CF would be? In past relationships, the girls have either known ahead of time, or I never told them because it wasn't going to last anyway. I'm planning on just bringing it up casually somehow and pretending it's not a big deal.

i'm sure there are similar threads, but i couldn't find any...so sorry for the possible repetition.

THANKS!
 
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mattemo

New member
hi everyone...completely new here. anyway, i'm looking for any advice -

I just started dating this girl (I'm 31, she's 22), and we're both really into each other. I'm wondering when and how the best time to tell her i have CF would be? In past relationships, the girls have either known ahead of time, or I never told them because it wasn't going to last anyway. I'm planning on just bringing it up casually somehow and pretending it's not a big deal.

i'm sure there are similar threads, but i couldn't find any...so sorry for the possible repetition.

THANKS!
 
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mattemo

New member
hi everyone...completely new here. anyway, i'm looking for any advice -
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<br />I just started dating this girl (I'm 31, she's 22), and we're both really into each other. I'm wondering when and how the best time to tell her i have CF would be? In past relationships, the girls have either known ahead of time, or I never told them because it wasn't going to last anyway. I'm planning on just bringing it up casually somehow and pretending it's not a big deal.
<br />
<br />i'm sure there are similar threads, but i couldn't find any...so sorry for the possible repetition.
<br />
<br />THANKS!
 
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JasonDBrown

Guest
Hello, I am 34 and my wife is 22... My friends told her when we first met... but I explained the disease to her. She has always been supportive. How to bring it up? I really don't know. I had never met anyone before her that I really wanted to stay with long enough to tell, and the ones that I did date, knew prior, it came up in conversation in the pre-dating period. Every woman I have ever met was understanding, with the exception of one... and I told her to hit the bricks, so... I am really not good at giving advice, but this is my experience... and the age differences are pretty close.

-Jason 34 w/CF
 
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JasonDBrown

Guest
Hello, I am 34 and my wife is 22... My friends told her when we first met... but I explained the disease to her. She has always been supportive. How to bring it up? I really don't know. I had never met anyone before her that I really wanted to stay with long enough to tell, and the ones that I did date, knew prior, it came up in conversation in the pre-dating period. Every woman I have ever met was understanding, with the exception of one... and I told her to hit the bricks, so... I am really not good at giving advice, but this is my experience... and the age differences are pretty close.

-Jason 34 w/CF
 
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JasonDBrown

Guest
Hello, I am 34 and my wife is 22... My friends told her when we first met... but I explained the disease to her. She has always been supportive. How to bring it up? I really don't know. I had never met anyone before her that I really wanted to stay with long enough to tell, and the ones that I did date, knew prior, it came up in conversation in the pre-dating period. Every woman I have ever met was understanding, with the exception of one... and I told her to hit the bricks, so... I am really not good at giving advice, but this is my experience... and the age differences are pretty close.

-Jason 34 w/CF
 
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JasonDBrown

Guest
Hello, I am 34 and my wife is 22... My friends told her when we first met... but I explained the disease to her. She has always been supportive. How to bring it up? I really don't know. I had never met anyone before her that I really wanted to stay with long enough to tell, and the ones that I did date, knew prior, it came up in conversation in the pre-dating period. Every woman I have ever met was understanding, with the exception of one... and I told her to hit the bricks, so... I am really not good at giving advice, but this is my experience... and the age differences are pretty close.

-Jason 34 w/CF
 
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JasonDBrown

Guest
Hello, I am 34 and my wife is 22... My friends told her when we first met... but I explained the disease to her. She has always been supportive. How to bring it up? I really don't know. I had never met anyone before her that I really wanted to stay with long enough to tell, and the ones that I did date, knew prior, it came up in conversation in the pre-dating period. Every woman I have ever met was understanding, with the exception of one... and I told her to hit the bricks, so... I am really not good at giving advice, but this is my experience... and the age differences are pretty close.
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<br />-Jason 34 w/CF
 
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saveferris2009

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I have a few tips for you (they come from me):


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Fight On
 
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saveferris2009

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I have a few tips for you (they come from me):


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">http://www.cfvoice.com/info/te...mentor/disclosure.jsp
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">http://www.cfvoice.com/info/adults/podcasts/amy-4.jsp
</a>


Fight On
 
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saveferris2009

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I have a few tips for you (they come from me):


<a target=_blank class=ftalternatingbarlinklarge href="http://www.cfvoice.com/info/teens/mentor/disclosure.jsp
">http://www.cfvoice.com/info/te...mentor/disclosure.jsp
</a>
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">http://www.cfvoice.com/info/adults/podcasts/amy-4.jsp
</a>


Fight On
 
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saveferris2009

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I have a few tips for you (they come from me):


<a target=_blank class=ftalternatingbarlinklarge href="http://www.cfvoice.com/info/teens/mentor/disclosure.jsp
">http://www.cfvoice.com/info/te...mentor/disclosure.jsp
</a>
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">http://www.cfvoice.com/info/adults/podcasts/amy-4.jsp
</a>


Fight On
 
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saveferris2009

New member
I have a few tips for you (they come from me):
<br />
<br />
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">http://www.cfvoice.com/info/te...mentor/disclosure.jsp
</a><br />
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">http://www.cfvoice.com/info/adults/podcasts/amy-4.jsp
</a><br />
<br />
<br />
<br />Fight On
 
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jbrandonAW

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FROM a girl, just sit her down at a dinner -AT HOME would be better. And just break it to her. Make sure you have some great info handy so that you can really explain it to her. Give her time to process it. If she cares she'll stick around.

Good Luck and keep us updated!
 
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jbrandonAW

New member
FROM a girl, just sit her down at a dinner -AT HOME would be better. And just break it to her. Make sure you have some great info handy so that you can really explain it to her. Give her time to process it. If she cares she'll stick around.

Good Luck and keep us updated!
 
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jbrandonAW

New member
FROM a girl, just sit her down at a dinner -AT HOME would be better. And just break it to her. Make sure you have some great info handy so that you can really explain it to her. Give her time to process it. If she cares she'll stick around.

Good Luck and keep us updated!
 
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jbrandonAW

New member
FROM a girl, just sit her down at a dinner -AT HOME would be better. And just break it to her. Make sure you have some great info handy so that you can really explain it to her. Give her time to process it. If she cares she'll stick around.

Good Luck and keep us updated!
 
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jbrandonAW

New member
FROM a girl, just sit her down at a dinner -AT HOME would be better. And just break it to her. Make sure you have some great info handy so that you can really explain it to her. Give her time to process it. If she cares she'll stick around.
<br />
<br />Good Luck and keep us updated!
 
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