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Mommafirst

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Since I was in your shoes only one year ago, I'm going to tell you things I continue to tell myself to have something to hold onto....

1. In the last 30 years, the median age for a CF lifespan has increased 30 years. 30 years in 30 years!!!!! That is progress!!!! There is nothing to say that when our kids reach their 30's that their life expectancy won't have reached that equal to the life expectancy of any other person in our society!

2. Pancreatic sufficiency is a good thing (my daughter is as well we think). Because there is a correlation between Body Mass Index and Lung Functioning, it is best to keep CF kids weight in the 50th percentile or better. Not that this isn't possible for those that are pancreatic insufficient, especially with the use of enzymes, but for those who are sufficient, it will be easier to stay at a healthy weight.

3. All kinds of drugs are in the pipleline that will continue to help improve the life of a CFer. Some of them are targeting specific mutation classes in an effort to "fix" the broken proteings. I believe that this type of specific drug creation will be part of even greater breakthroughs.

4. One last thing for you to hold onto. Your daughter has one clas IV mutation that is consider mild. Good news. And her other mutation is THE most common mutation around -- you've gotta figure that the one that accounts for nearly 60% of all CF cases is going to be highly targeted in specific drug studies.

I know the despair you feel right now. I wish I could reach through the screen and help you in some way. Its all a process. You have to live it. Unfortunately you have no choice. But I promise you, one year ahead of you in the process, it does get easier.
 
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Mommafirst

Guest
Since I was in your shoes only one year ago, I'm going to tell you things I continue to tell myself to have something to hold onto....

1. In the last 30 years, the median age for a CF lifespan has increased 30 years. 30 years in 30 years!!!!! That is progress!!!! There is nothing to say that when our kids reach their 30's that their life expectancy won't have reached that equal to the life expectancy of any other person in our society!

2. Pancreatic sufficiency is a good thing (my daughter is as well we think). Because there is a correlation between Body Mass Index and Lung Functioning, it is best to keep CF kids weight in the 50th percentile or better. Not that this isn't possible for those that are pancreatic insufficient, especially with the use of enzymes, but for those who are sufficient, it will be easier to stay at a healthy weight.

3. All kinds of drugs are in the pipleline that will continue to help improve the life of a CFer. Some of them are targeting specific mutation classes in an effort to "fix" the broken proteings. I believe that this type of specific drug creation will be part of even greater breakthroughs.

4. One last thing for you to hold onto. Your daughter has one clas IV mutation that is consider mild. Good news. And her other mutation is THE most common mutation around -- you've gotta figure that the one that accounts for nearly 60% of all CF cases is going to be highly targeted in specific drug studies.

I know the despair you feel right now. I wish I could reach through the screen and help you in some way. Its all a process. You have to live it. Unfortunately you have no choice. But I promise you, one year ahead of you in the process, it does get easier.
 
M

Mommafirst

Guest
Since I was in your shoes only one year ago, I'm going to tell you things I continue to tell myself to have something to hold onto....

1. In the last 30 years, the median age for a CF lifespan has increased 30 years. 30 years in 30 years!!!!! That is progress!!!! There is nothing to say that when our kids reach their 30's that their life expectancy won't have reached that equal to the life expectancy of any other person in our society!

2. Pancreatic sufficiency is a good thing (my daughter is as well we think). Because there is a correlation between Body Mass Index and Lung Functioning, it is best to keep CF kids weight in the 50th percentile or better. Not that this isn't possible for those that are pancreatic insufficient, especially with the use of enzymes, but for those who are sufficient, it will be easier to stay at a healthy weight.

3. All kinds of drugs are in the pipleline that will continue to help improve the life of a CFer. Some of them are targeting specific mutation classes in an effort to "fix" the broken proteings. I believe that this type of specific drug creation will be part of even greater breakthroughs.

4. One last thing for you to hold onto. Your daughter has one clas IV mutation that is consider mild. Good news. And her other mutation is THE most common mutation around -- you've gotta figure that the one that accounts for nearly 60% of all CF cases is going to be highly targeted in specific drug studies.

I know the despair you feel right now. I wish I could reach through the screen and help you in some way. Its all a process. You have to live it. Unfortunately you have no choice. But I promise you, one year ahead of you in the process, it does get easier.
 
M

Mommafirst

Guest
Since I was in your shoes only one year ago, I'm going to tell you things I continue to tell myself to have something to hold onto....

1. In the last 30 years, the median age for a CF lifespan has increased 30 years. 30 years in 30 years!!!!! That is progress!!!! There is nothing to say that when our kids reach their 30's that their life expectancy won't have reached that equal to the life expectancy of any other person in our society!

2. Pancreatic sufficiency is a good thing (my daughter is as well we think). Because there is a correlation between Body Mass Index and Lung Functioning, it is best to keep CF kids weight in the 50th percentile or better. Not that this isn't possible for those that are pancreatic insufficient, especially with the use of enzymes, but for those who are sufficient, it will be easier to stay at a healthy weight.

3. All kinds of drugs are in the pipleline that will continue to help improve the life of a CFer. Some of them are targeting specific mutation classes in an effort to "fix" the broken proteings. I believe that this type of specific drug creation will be part of even greater breakthroughs.

4. One last thing for you to hold onto. Your daughter has one clas IV mutation that is consider mild. Good news. And her other mutation is THE most common mutation around -- you've gotta figure that the one that accounts for nearly 60% of all CF cases is going to be highly targeted in specific drug studies.

I know the despair you feel right now. I wish I could reach through the screen and help you in some way. Its all a process. You have to live it. Unfortunately you have no choice. But I promise you, one year ahead of you in the process, it does get easier.
 
M

Mommafirst

Guest
Since I was in your shoes only one year ago, I'm going to tell you things I continue to tell myself to have something to hold onto....

1. In the last 30 years, the median age for a CF lifespan has increased 30 years. 30 years in 30 years!!!!! That is progress!!!! There is nothing to say that when our kids reach their 30's that their life expectancy won't have reached that equal to the life expectancy of any other person in our society!

2. Pancreatic sufficiency is a good thing (my daughter is as well we think). Because there is a correlation between Body Mass Index and Lung Functioning, it is best to keep CF kids weight in the 50th percentile or better. Not that this isn't possible for those that are pancreatic insufficient, especially with the use of enzymes, but for those who are sufficient, it will be easier to stay at a healthy weight.

3. All kinds of drugs are in the pipleline that will continue to help improve the life of a CFer. Some of them are targeting specific mutation classes in an effort to "fix" the broken proteings. I believe that this type of specific drug creation will be part of even greater breakthroughs.

4. One last thing for you to hold onto. Your daughter has one clas IV mutation that is consider mild. Good news. And her other mutation is THE most common mutation around -- you've gotta figure that the one that accounts for nearly 60% of all CF cases is going to be highly targeted in specific drug studies.

I know the despair you feel right now. I wish I could reach through the screen and help you in some way. Its all a process. You have to live it. Unfortunately you have no choice. But I promise you, one year ahead of you in the process, it does get easier.
 

BigBee

New member
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>nlwlrandall</b></i>


So my question is... if one were to have a less severe case with not many symptoms or infections would that add years to one's life? Is it possible or even concieveable to live a full life and grow old with this disease?</end quote></div>

Laura,

Since you asked if it was conceivable, I can tell you that it most certainly is. My Dad had CF, I don't know his mutations, but he was pancreatic sufficient. He didn't have the benefits of meds, chest pt, vest, etc that are available now. He was 68 when he died. He worked for 40 years, had a long happy marriage, two kids (adopted) and grandkids he adored.

I'm not in any way trying to give anyone "false hope" but simply answering your question if it is possible.

This is a wonderful site with tons of information and support.
 

BigBee

New member
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>nlwlrandall</b></i>


So my question is... if one were to have a less severe case with not many symptoms or infections would that add years to one's life? Is it possible or even concieveable to live a full life and grow old with this disease?</end quote></div>

Laura,

Since you asked if it was conceivable, I can tell you that it most certainly is. My Dad had CF, I don't know his mutations, but he was pancreatic sufficient. He didn't have the benefits of meds, chest pt, vest, etc that are available now. He was 68 when he died. He worked for 40 years, had a long happy marriage, two kids (adopted) and grandkids he adored.

I'm not in any way trying to give anyone "false hope" but simply answering your question if it is possible.

This is a wonderful site with tons of information and support.
 

BigBee

New member
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>nlwlrandall</b></i>


So my question is... if one were to have a less severe case with not many symptoms or infections would that add years to one's life? Is it possible or even concieveable to live a full life and grow old with this disease?</end quote></div>

Laura,

Since you asked if it was conceivable, I can tell you that it most certainly is. My Dad had CF, I don't know his mutations, but he was pancreatic sufficient. He didn't have the benefits of meds, chest pt, vest, etc that are available now. He was 68 when he died. He worked for 40 years, had a long happy marriage, two kids (adopted) and grandkids he adored.

I'm not in any way trying to give anyone "false hope" but simply answering your question if it is possible.

This is a wonderful site with tons of information and support.
 

BigBee

New member
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>nlwlrandall</b></i>


So my question is... if one were to have a less severe case with not many symptoms or infections would that add years to one's life? Is it possible or even concieveable to live a full life and grow old with this disease?</end quote>

Laura,

Since you asked if it was conceivable, I can tell you that it most certainly is. My Dad had CF, I don't know his mutations, but he was pancreatic sufficient. He didn't have the benefits of meds, chest pt, vest, etc that are available now. He was 68 when he died. He worked for 40 years, had a long happy marriage, two kids (adopted) and grandkids he adored.

I'm not in any way trying to give anyone "false hope" but simply answering your question if it is possible.

This is a wonderful site with tons of information and support.
 

BigBee

New member
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>nlwlrandall</b></i>


So my question is... if one were to have a less severe case with not many symptoms or infections would that add years to one's life? Is it possible or even concieveable to live a full life and grow old with this disease?</end quote>

Laura,

Since you asked if it was conceivable, I can tell you that it most certainly is. My Dad had CF, I don't know his mutations, but he was pancreatic sufficient. He didn't have the benefits of meds, chest pt, vest, etc that are available now. He was 68 when he died. He worked for 40 years, had a long happy marriage, two kids (adopted) and grandkids he adored.

I'm not in any way trying to give anyone "false hope" but simply answering your question if it is possible.

This is a wonderful site with tons of information and support.
 

megan1234

New member
ok first of all if your case is less severe you are expected to live a longer life and i read something on the internet that a child with cf now is expected to live to their mid 30s early 40s
 

megan1234

New member
ok first of all if your case is less severe you are expected to live a longer life and i read something on the internet that a child with cf now is expected to live to their mid 30s early 40s
 

megan1234

New member
ok first of all if your case is less severe you are expected to live a longer life and i read something on the internet that a child with cf now is expected to live to their mid 30s early 40s
 

megan1234

New member
ok first of all if your case is less severe you are expected to live a longer life and i read something on the internet that a child with cf now is expected to live to their mid 30s early 40s
 

megan1234

New member
ok first of all if your case is less severe you are expected to live a longer life and i read something on the internet that a child with cf now is expected to live to their mid 30s early 40s
 

Ratatosk

Administrator
Staff member
When DS was diagnosed, we went thru the same fears, range of emotions. Fear of the unknown, the what-ifs. One of the doctors did have one of his teenage patients come down to meet us. Basically, we just plug away at trying to keep DS healthy -- CPT treatments, meds, handwashing... We just try to take it day by day. I still get worried sick -- feelings of complete helplessness. But what are our choices?
 

Ratatosk

Administrator
Staff member
When DS was diagnosed, we went thru the same fears, range of emotions. Fear of the unknown, the what-ifs. One of the doctors did have one of his teenage patients come down to meet us. Basically, we just plug away at trying to keep DS healthy -- CPT treatments, meds, handwashing... We just try to take it day by day. I still get worried sick -- feelings of complete helplessness. But what are our choices?
 

Ratatosk

Administrator
Staff member
When DS was diagnosed, we went thru the same fears, range of emotions. Fear of the unknown, the what-ifs. One of the doctors did have one of his teenage patients come down to meet us. Basically, we just plug away at trying to keep DS healthy -- CPT treatments, meds, handwashing... We just try to take it day by day. I still get worried sick -- feelings of complete helplessness. But what are our choices?
 

Ratatosk

Administrator
Staff member
When DS was diagnosed, we went thru the same fears, range of emotions. Fear of the unknown, the what-ifs. One of the doctors did have one of his teenage patients come down to meet us. Basically, we just plug away at trying to keep DS healthy -- CPT treatments, meds, handwashing... We just try to take it day by day. I still get worried sick -- feelings of complete helplessness. But what are our choices?
 

Ratatosk

Administrator
Staff member
When DS was diagnosed, we went thru the same fears, range of emotions. Fear of the unknown, the what-ifs. One of the doctors did have one of his teenage patients come down to meet us. Basically, we just plug away at trying to keep DS healthy -- CPT treatments, meds, handwashing... We just try to take it day by day. I still get worried sick -- feelings of complete helplessness. But what are our choices?
 
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