Julie,
Don't really know what to tell you. I'm sorry you are having so much trouble. I will suggest that leasing is not a good idea if you drive a lot. They usually allow 12,000 miles a year. If you go over that you have to pay a certain amount per mile. I leased my first car but I didn't drive much (I had a total of 10,000 miles at turn in) . I had to turn it in when the 36 months was up or I could buy it...I opted for turn in and get a new one. Also when you lease, you are basically throwing money away. My second car that I leased at first and then bought. I hear Dodge Neons have good gas mileage, but not sure since I havent ever driven one. You can go to MSN and look under Autos, and do a seach on different one to see what is best for you. They usually tell a general price for something new, warrenties, built, gas mileage, etc. You can also look for Used ones in ur area too.