just need to talk

[anonymous]

ok well just recently got married and my husband is in the military......he is in korea right now and i cant go with him unless he signs up for a the whole 4 years there.....but i dont want him to cause i dont want to live ther...so he will be home at the end of febuary..but when he gets home he is goin to get station some where in the states....i live in pittsburgh and i dont know ne where eles but here...is ther ne one that has moved from were they grew up,and move to a whole different state? how did u deal with it and get use to it? also i believe the military will make sure they station him somewhere that has a the best cf doctors..does ne one know ne thing about how the military works?

armywife 21w/cf

 

[anonymous]

Hi,
I was in your shoes a few years ago. i got married when I was 19 to a marine. I lived in SC and he was stationed in California. We lasted 3 years. Military life was not for me. I need roots and I did not like being uprooted every so many years. you have to look in yourself and ask yourself if you can really leave your family. When you get ill, who will be there? When you have problems or need someone to lean on, who will be there?
My family is everything to me. I have since re-married and I live about 2 hours from my entire family. My hospital is in the middle so whenever I need to go in, they are still there for me. Without them, I don't know what I would do.