I agree - don't expect things to go as planned! They tell you to develop a birth plan, but it should be more along the lines of "birth plans"! Many women think they'll have a natural childbirth experience but allow themselves the option of epidural. Don't torture yourself to prove a point that you can go without pain relief! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> I was fortunate to go through natural childbirth with both of my children. Each labor was 3 - 4 hours total with 2 pushes until they were born - an exception to most labor/delivery, especially with a first child.
I knew I didn't want any medications of any kind - as a matter of fact, the labor team laughed at me when I told them I didn't want anything. The doctor (whom I had never met before) stated "hmppff, we'll see..." That certainly wasn't very encouraging! I, myself, feared side effects of medications and slowing down the labor/delivery process...risks to the baby...prolonged numbness...difficult breathing, etc. Though I am exceedingly stubborn and have an intense "stick-to-it-tiveness", I left the option for pain relief open in the back of my mind. Perhaps that's what made it an "easier" labor experience.
I was able to psyche myself into handling the pain by telling myself that each contraction was a mere fraction of what labor pains would become...in so doing, I coped with each contraction by making myself believe it would soon be a lot worse...it never got to that "worse" status (not sure if that made any sense to you whatsoever).
After my essay of a response (grin), I absolutely loved delivering my children naturally and would do it again in a heartbeat. That's not to say that I wasn't blessed with an easier delivery than some....everybody is different...but, had I labored longer, perhaps I would have accepted medication...again, I gave myself the option, if need be.
Best of luck!
I knew I didn't want any medications of any kind - as a matter of fact, the labor team laughed at me when I told them I didn't want anything. The doctor (whom I had never met before) stated "hmppff, we'll see..." That certainly wasn't very encouraging! I, myself, feared side effects of medications and slowing down the labor/delivery process...risks to the baby...prolonged numbness...difficult breathing, etc. Though I am exceedingly stubborn and have an intense "stick-to-it-tiveness", I left the option for pain relief open in the back of my mind. Perhaps that's what made it an "easier" labor experience.
I was able to psyche myself into handling the pain by telling myself that each contraction was a mere fraction of what labor pains would become...in so doing, I coped with each contraction by making myself believe it would soon be a lot worse...it never got to that "worse" status (not sure if that made any sense to you whatsoever).
After my essay of a response (grin), I absolutely loved delivering my children naturally and would do it again in a heartbeat. That's not to say that I wasn't blessed with an easier delivery than some....everybody is different...but, had I labored longer, perhaps I would have accepted medication...again, I gave myself the option, if need be.
Best of luck!