Letters to the Today Show

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jennylivingston

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I posted this in the adult section a while back, but haven't received much response. Hoping some of you will see it here and want to help out. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">

There is a big push right now for anyone touched by Conner's story to write a letter to the TODAY SHOW. Let's KEEP HIS STORY GOING and CONTINUE SPREADING CF AWARENESS! This is the address I have been given to send letters:

Noah Kotch
Senior Producer
379 E-1
30 Rockefeller Plaza
New York, NY 10122
--------------------

(My letter)

Dear Today Show,
By now, I'm sure you've heard the heartbreaking story of the Jones family, the little family from Washington who recently lost their son, Conner, to Cystic Fibrosis. (notsobrightandshiny.blogspot.com)

Several days after the passing of little Conner Jones, I'm still struggling to pick up the pieces of my broken heart. I never knew Conner. I've never met his mom, Sarah. In fact, I can almost certainly tell you that I'll NEVER meet her. But I can also tell you that I love her. I'll say it again: I truly love Sarah and Conner Jones.

And I love the single mother who has dedicated every day of her life to making sure her daughter with CF is as happy and healthy as possible. I love the newlyweds who have made it their mission to spread awareness about this disease. I love the 28 year old who just recieved new, mucus free lungs. I love the mother who teaches her CF sons how to be healthy and love Jesus. I love the little CF boy who plays baseball better than I could ever hope to. I love all the parents who are a voice, an advocate, for their children. I love all the moms and dads who somehow balance the consuming task of maintaining their own health issues and taking care of their children's needs. I love the parents trying to come to terms with the diagnosis of their newborn. I love the woman struggling with infertility due to CF.

I love all these people and I'VE NEVER MET A SINGLE ONE OF THEM.

You see, my two older sisters and I were born with CF as well, and because people with CF are encouraged not to mingle with each other due to the risk of spreading potentially fatal bacteria back and forth, the only way I will ever know these wonderful people is through the internet; through blogs and forums and social networking sites like Facebook.

But these people are more than online friends, they have become my family. Through the internet, we share stories and pictures; we swap advice and health tips; we laugh and cry together; we hold (virtual) hands through trials and we celebrate triumphs; we pray with and for one another; we love each other and sometimes...we lose each other. So it is with Conner Jones.

Conner was seven... SEVEN! That is the horror and the truth of this disease. It is slowly, painfully and relentlessly stealing the lives of people--children--every single day!

I was there, reading about and praying for this sweet boy, along with literally thousands of other people across the globe. Because his courageous mother was willing to share all the bitter, difficult, painful details, Conner was able to touch the lives of countless people. I, for one, will forever be influenced by him.

There are several schools of thought among the CF community, and we all stand on a different rung on the positivity ladder, ranging from Sarah's "Not So Bright And Shiny" to another CF'ers "I Have CF, So What?". I suppose I fall somewhere in between. I honestly don't know that a cure will be found in my lifetime, but I do believe it's a cause worth fighting for. Not just for myself, but for all the children fighting this disease, dealing with the physical and emotional pain this illness invariably causes; for the children, like my own daughter and my niece, who will spend a significant portion of their lives without a mother at home because "mommy's in the hospital again"; for the husbands and wives of CF'ers everywhere; for their mothers and fathers, grandparents, aunts and uncles, and their brothers and sisters; for my own mother who cradled her daughter in her arms as she took her very last breath at the age of 14; and for mothers like Sarah who struggle to find an answer as their dying child asks, through anguished tears, "Why?".

We aren't asking for pity, we are asking--PLEADING--for help! Because as grateful as we are for this online community, it's a crying shame that any of us have to be a part of it in the first place. Red was Conner's favorite color and in the days since his death, the CF world has been painted red in a display of support for the Jones family.

As I sit here typing this in my red T-shirt, I ask you to join our cause. By spreading CF awareness and showing support for sweet little Conner, you will be helping each and every person out there whose life has ever been affected by this terrible disease.

Let's come together and give all the Conner Jones' out there a fighting chance!

From one CF crusader,
Jenny Livingston
 
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jennylivingston

Guest
I posted this in the adult section a while back, but haven't received much response. Hoping some of you will see it here and want to help out. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">

There is a big push right now for anyone touched by Conner's story to write a letter to the TODAY SHOW. Let's KEEP HIS STORY GOING and CONTINUE SPREADING CF AWARENESS! This is the address I have been given to send letters:

Noah Kotch
Senior Producer
379 E-1
30 Rockefeller Plaza
New York, NY 10122
--------------------

(My letter)

Dear Today Show,
By now, I'm sure you've heard the heartbreaking story of the Jones family, the little family from Washington who recently lost their son, Conner, to Cystic Fibrosis. (notsobrightandshiny.blogspot.com)

Several days after the passing of little Conner Jones, I'm still struggling to pick up the pieces of my broken heart. I never knew Conner. I've never met his mom, Sarah. In fact, I can almost certainly tell you that I'll NEVER meet her. But I can also tell you that I love her. I'll say it again: I truly love Sarah and Conner Jones.

And I love the single mother who has dedicated every day of her life to making sure her daughter with CF is as happy and healthy as possible. I love the newlyweds who have made it their mission to spread awareness about this disease. I love the 28 year old who just recieved new, mucus free lungs. I love the mother who teaches her CF sons how to be healthy and love Jesus. I love the little CF boy who plays baseball better than I could ever hope to. I love all the parents who are a voice, an advocate, for their children. I love all the moms and dads who somehow balance the consuming task of maintaining their own health issues and taking care of their children's needs. I love the parents trying to come to terms with the diagnosis of their newborn. I love the woman struggling with infertility due to CF.

I love all these people and I'VE NEVER MET A SINGLE ONE OF THEM.

You see, my two older sisters and I were born with CF as well, and because people with CF are encouraged not to mingle with each other due to the risk of spreading potentially fatal bacteria back and forth, the only way I will ever know these wonderful people is through the internet; through blogs and forums and social networking sites like Facebook.

But these people are more than online friends, they have become my family. Through the internet, we share stories and pictures; we swap advice and health tips; we laugh and cry together; we hold (virtual) hands through trials and we celebrate triumphs; we pray with and for one another; we love each other and sometimes...we lose each other. So it is with Conner Jones.

Conner was seven... SEVEN! That is the horror and the truth of this disease. It is slowly, painfully and relentlessly stealing the lives of people--children--every single day!

I was there, reading about and praying for this sweet boy, along with literally thousands of other people across the globe. Because his courageous mother was willing to share all the bitter, difficult, painful details, Conner was able to touch the lives of countless people. I, for one, will forever be influenced by him.

There are several schools of thought among the CF community, and we all stand on a different rung on the positivity ladder, ranging from Sarah's "Not So Bright And Shiny" to another CF'ers "I Have CF, So What?". I suppose I fall somewhere in between. I honestly don't know that a cure will be found in my lifetime, but I do believe it's a cause worth fighting for. Not just for myself, but for all the children fighting this disease, dealing with the physical and emotional pain this illness invariably causes; for the children, like my own daughter and my niece, who will spend a significant portion of their lives without a mother at home because "mommy's in the hospital again"; for the husbands and wives of CF'ers everywhere; for their mothers and fathers, grandparents, aunts and uncles, and their brothers and sisters; for my own mother who cradled her daughter in her arms as she took her very last breath at the age of 14; and for mothers like Sarah who struggle to find an answer as their dying child asks, through anguished tears, "Why?".

We aren't asking for pity, we are asking--PLEADING--for help! Because as grateful as we are for this online community, it's a crying shame that any of us have to be a part of it in the first place. Red was Conner's favorite color and in the days since his death, the CF world has been painted red in a display of support for the Jones family.

As I sit here typing this in my red T-shirt, I ask you to join our cause. By spreading CF awareness and showing support for sweet little Conner, you will be helping each and every person out there whose life has ever been affected by this terrible disease.

Let's come together and give all the Conner Jones' out there a fighting chance!

From one CF crusader,
Jenny Livingston
 
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jennylivingston

Guest
I posted this in the adult section a while back, but haven't received much response. Hoping some of you will see it here and want to help out. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">
<br />
<br />There is a big push right now for anyone touched by Conner's story to write a letter to the TODAY SHOW. Let's KEEP HIS STORY GOING and CONTINUE SPREADING CF AWARENESS! This is the address I have been given to send letters:
<br />
<br />Noah Kotch
<br />Senior Producer
<br />379 E-1
<br />30 Rockefeller Plaza
<br />New York, NY 10122
<br />--------------------
<br />
<br />(My letter)
<br />
<br />Dear Today Show,
<br />By now, I'm sure you've heard the heartbreaking story of the Jones family, the little family from Washington who recently lost their son, Conner, to Cystic Fibrosis. (notsobrightandshiny.blogspot.com)
<br />
<br />Several days after the passing of little Conner Jones, I'm still struggling to pick up the pieces of my broken heart. I never knew Conner. I've never met his mom, Sarah. In fact, I can almost certainly tell you that I'll NEVER meet her. But I can also tell you that I love her. I'll say it again: I truly love Sarah and Conner Jones.
<br />
<br />And I love the single mother who has dedicated every day of her life to making sure her daughter with CF is as happy and healthy as possible. I love the newlyweds who have made it their mission to spread awareness about this disease. I love the 28 year old who just recieved new, mucus free lungs. I love the mother who teaches her CF sons how to be healthy and love Jesus. I love the little CF boy who plays baseball better than I could ever hope to. I love all the parents who are a voice, an advocate, for their children. I love all the moms and dads who somehow balance the consuming task of maintaining their own health issues and taking care of their children's needs. I love the parents trying to come to terms with the diagnosis of their newborn. I love the woman struggling with infertility due to CF.
<br />
<br />I love all these people and I'VE NEVER MET A SINGLE ONE OF THEM.
<br />
<br />You see, my two older sisters and I were born with CF as well, and because people with CF are encouraged not to mingle with each other due to the risk of spreading potentially fatal bacteria back and forth, the only way I will ever know these wonderful people is through the internet; through blogs and forums and social networking sites like Facebook.
<br />
<br />But these people are more than online friends, they have become my family. Through the internet, we share stories and pictures; we swap advice and health tips; we laugh and cry together; we hold (virtual) hands through trials and we celebrate triumphs; we pray with and for one another; we love each other and sometimes...we lose each other. So it is with Conner Jones.
<br />
<br />Conner was seven... SEVEN! That is the horror and the truth of this disease. It is slowly, painfully and relentlessly stealing the lives of people--children--every single day!
<br />
<br />I was there, reading about and praying for this sweet boy, along with literally thousands of other people across the globe. Because his courageous mother was willing to share all the bitter, difficult, painful details, Conner was able to touch the lives of countless people. I, for one, will forever be influenced by him.
<br />
<br />There are several schools of thought among the CF community, and we all stand on a different rung on the positivity ladder, ranging from Sarah's "Not So Bright And Shiny" to another CF'ers "I Have CF, So What?". I suppose I fall somewhere in between. I honestly don't know that a cure will be found in my lifetime, but I do believe it's a cause worth fighting for. Not just for myself, but for all the children fighting this disease, dealing with the physical and emotional pain this illness invariably causes; for the children, like my own daughter and my niece, who will spend a significant portion of their lives without a mother at home because "mommy's in the hospital again"; for the husbands and wives of CF'ers everywhere; for their mothers and fathers, grandparents, aunts and uncles, and their brothers and sisters; for my own mother who cradled her daughter in her arms as she took her very last breath at the age of 14; and for mothers like Sarah who struggle to find an answer as their dying child asks, through anguished tears, "Why?".
<br />
<br />We aren't asking for pity, we are asking--PLEADING--for help! Because as grateful as we are for this online community, it's a crying shame that any of us have to be a part of it in the first place. Red was Conner's favorite color and in the days since his death, the CF world has been painted red in a display of support for the Jones family.
<br />
<br />As I sit here typing this in my red T-shirt, I ask you to join our cause. By spreading CF awareness and showing support for sweet little Conner, you will be helping each and every person out there whose life has ever been affected by this terrible disease.
<br />
<br />Let's come together and give all the Conner Jones' out there a fighting chance!
<br />
<br />From one CF crusader,
<br />Jenny Livingston
<br />
 

MaksNana

New member
Hi Jenny,
I think this is a wonderful idea. I wish people would respond in one way or another. I can't imagine that people here on this site do not know about the Sarah and Conner story.
It seems everyone wants awareness, and here's another chance to do something to get awareness of this monster disease.

I asked in the Adult post , even if someone would write a couple of sentences would be great, more than great. And just leave a note on the site here that they did.

Bless all, karla<img src="i/expressions/brokenheart.gif" border="0">
 

MaksNana

New member
Hi Jenny,
I think this is a wonderful idea. I wish people would respond in one way or another. I can't imagine that people here on this site do not know about the Sarah and Conner story.
It seems everyone wants awareness, and here's another chance to do something to get awareness of this monster disease.

I asked in the Adult post , even if someone would write a couple of sentences would be great, more than great. And just leave a note on the site here that they did.

Bless all, karla<img src="i/expressions/brokenheart.gif" border="0">
 

MaksNana

New member
Hi Jenny,
<br />I think this is a wonderful idea. I wish people would respond in one way or another. I can't imagine that people here on this site do not know about the Sarah and Conner story.
<br />It seems everyone wants awareness, and here's another chance to do something to get awareness of this monster disease.
<br />
<br />I asked in the Adult post , even if someone would write a couple of sentences would be great, more than great. And just leave a note on the site here that they did.
<br />
<br />Bless all, karla<img src="i/expressions/brokenheart.gif" border="0">
 

just1more

New member
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>MaksNana</b></i>
I can't imagine that people here on this site do not know about the Sarah and Conner story.
</end quote></div>

Karla, just to clarify that most people on this site have NOT heard of Connor.

While Sarah developed a large following on FB near the end of his life, for the 7 yrs that proceeded she has had little visible presence in the online CF community (most of her interactions I have seen were related to prune-belly which he also had). I don't know why and definitely don't judge her decisions, but at this point she is just not that well known.

I follow and pray for their family regularly, but please understand that the lack of response may be a reflection of a lack of knowledge, not something personal against Sarah.
 

just1more

New member
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>MaksNana</b></i>
I can't imagine that people here on this site do not know about the Sarah and Conner story.
</end quote>

Karla, just to clarify that most people on this site have NOT heard of Connor.

While Sarah developed a large following on FB near the end of his life, for the 7 yrs that proceeded she has had little visible presence in the online CF community (most of her interactions I have seen were related to prune-belly which he also had). I don't know why and definitely don't judge her decisions, but at this point she is just not that well known.

I follow and pray for their family regularly, but please understand that the lack of response may be a reflection of a lack of knowledge, not something personal against Sarah.
 

just1more

New member
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>MaksNana</b></i>
<br />I can't imagine that people here on this site do not know about the Sarah and Conner story.
<br /></end quote>
<br />
<br />Karla, just to clarify that most people on this site have NOT heard of Connor.
<br />
<br />While Sarah developed a large following on FB near the end of his life, for the 7 yrs that proceeded she has had little visible presence in the online CF community (most of her interactions I have seen were related to prune-belly which he also had). I don't know why and definitely don't judge her decisions, but at this point she is just not that well known.
<br />
<br />I follow and pray for their family regularly, but please understand that the lack of response may be a reflection of a lack of knowledge, not something personal against Sarah.
<br />
 

hmw

New member
I would assume she is not well known here and/or even when people know who they are they may not always know what to say simply because she has not chosen to be a part of this community. (Absolutely no judgment there one way or the other, but just making the point.) She has FB friends that are frequent contributors to this website, but she has not chosen to become a member here. She has her blog (which has a large following), a facebook page, as well as a caringbridge page for him, community related to his other health condition- other avenues of her choice on the web to turn to for support, etc.

People also may be unsure how to proceed if they are unsure of the family's wishes in something that would shine a spotlight on them during a very difficult time for them. Would it bring awareness about cf in a very dramatic, poignant way? Absolutely. Would it also possibly be just TOO MUCH for this family, who has been through an absolutely horrifying year, to cope with right now? Quite possibly.
 

hmw

New member
I would assume she is not well known here and/or even when people know who they are they may not always know what to say simply because she has not chosen to be a part of this community. (Absolutely no judgment there one way or the other, but just making the point.) She has FB friends that are frequent contributors to this website, but she has not chosen to become a member here. She has her blog (which has a large following), a facebook page, as well as a caringbridge page for him, community related to his other health condition- other avenues of her choice on the web to turn to for support, etc.

People also may be unsure how to proceed if they are unsure of the family's wishes in something that would shine a spotlight on them during a very difficult time for them. Would it bring awareness about cf in a very dramatic, poignant way? Absolutely. Would it also possibly be just TOO MUCH for this family, who has been through an absolutely horrifying year, to cope with right now? Quite possibly.
 

hmw

New member
I would assume she is not well known here and/or even when people know who they are they may not always know what to say simply because she has not chosen to be a part of this community. (Absolutely no judgment there one way or the other, but just making the point.) She has FB friends that are frequent contributors to this website, but she has not chosen to become a member here. She has her blog (which has a large following), a facebook page, as well as a caringbridge page for him, community related to his other health condition- other avenues of her choice on the web to turn to for support, etc.
<br />
<br />People also may be unsure how to proceed if they are unsure of the family's wishes in something that would shine a spotlight on them during a very difficult time for them. Would it bring awareness about cf in a very dramatic, poignant way? Absolutely. Would it also possibly be just TOO MUCH for this family, who has been through an absolutely horrifying year, to cope with right now? Quite possibly.
 
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TonyaH

Guest
I agree with Harriet and Stacy. The Jones Family needs time for peace and healing. They have surrounded themselves with the support system they need right now.
 
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TonyaH

Guest
I agree with Harriet and Stacy. The Jones Family needs time for peace and healing. They have surrounded themselves with the support system they need right now.
 
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TonyaH

Guest
I agree with Harriet and Stacy. The Jones Family needs time for peace and healing. They have surrounded themselves with the support system they need right now.
 

MaksNana

New member
We become aware of people and their lives through others....<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

Just because she is not a MEMBER on this site,does that mean she shouldn't be noticed or loved or prayed for ?
Is this what this site is about? Is this now what awareness of CF is about???? How sad.. Do you HEAR WHAT YOU ARE SAYING? This is to those only that know who you are.<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-shocked.gif" border="0">

I do think she has been a little bit busy!And on the one month day of Conner's death, she was fundraising for Cystic Fibrosis, for our loved ones!<img src="i/expressions/light.gif" border="0">

Tonya , harriett, I know you know her story, and like I said , if you listen to her, she is crying out for HELP, PEACE, HEALING,AND MOST OF ALL "NOT TO BE LEFT ALONE".

Tom, I am surprized, most of her interactions were about His Cystic Fibrosis, he was also born with a mild case of prune belly syndrome. I don't know why you would so say so bluntly, that 'most people on this site don't know Conner'? Conner's story didn't have to take 7 yrs to be well known Tom, it only took less than a year for them to be known ALL OVER THE GLOBE !<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-shocked.gif" border="0">

He had to do every treatment possible for CF
It's like you are saying that anyone known with any other
conditions along with CF, they should be overlooked ?It
shouldn't be about CF? I'm not sure what you are trying to say.I'm just surprized you took one sentence out of something I wrote, and take a look at the ones that couldn't wait to jump on here with their words of knowledge..Should I be surprized ?


There's not 2 people with CF that are the same. Should he be overlooked because he had prune belly also?

Stacy, I won't even respond to anything you have to say, and you know why.

If you dont' know her Sarah, this is someone who needs all of OUR SUPPORT. She might not even know about this site. But, someday she might, and it would be very sad for her to think because she was on facebook and blogged, that they should be overlooked because she didn't sign in to CF.Com, or because her child had prune belly,then
his suffering with CF didn't mean anything.

I totally agree with Jenny,, I will fight this disease until I die, and will never SIT IN JUDGEMENT
bcause they havn't signed on to this site,and have 2illness's.<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0">

ESPECIALLY when what Sarah has gone through , and is still fighting for CYSTIC FIBROSIS!<img src="i/expressions/rose.gif" border="0">

Let's get back on the oringinal post, which was about sending a LETTER,for those who want to.<img src="i/expressions/wine.gif" border="0">
 

MaksNana

New member
We become aware of people and their lives through others....<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

Just because she is not a MEMBER on this site,does that mean she shouldn't be noticed or loved or prayed for ?
Is this what this site is about? Is this now what awareness of CF is about???? How sad.. Do you HEAR WHAT YOU ARE SAYING? This is to those only that know who you are.<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-shocked.gif" border="0">

I do think she has been a little bit busy!And on the one month day of Conner's death, she was fundraising for Cystic Fibrosis, for our loved ones!<img src="i/expressions/light.gif" border="0">

Tonya , harriett, I know you know her story, and like I said , if you listen to her, she is crying out for HELP, PEACE, HEALING,AND MOST OF ALL "NOT TO BE LEFT ALONE".

Tom, I am surprized, most of her interactions were about His Cystic Fibrosis, he was also born with a mild case of prune belly syndrome. I don't know why you would so say so bluntly, that 'most people on this site don't know Conner'? Conner's story didn't have to take 7 yrs to be well known Tom, it only took less than a year for them to be known ALL OVER THE GLOBE !<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-shocked.gif" border="0">

He had to do every treatment possible for CF
It's like you are saying that anyone known with any other
conditions along with CF, they should be overlooked ?It
shouldn't be about CF? I'm not sure what you are trying to say.I'm just surprized you took one sentence out of something I wrote, and take a look at the ones that couldn't wait to jump on here with their words of knowledge..Should I be surprized ?


There's not 2 people with CF that are the same. Should he be overlooked because he had prune belly also?

Stacy, I won't even respond to anything you have to say, and you know why.

If you dont' know her Sarah, this is someone who needs all of OUR SUPPORT. She might not even know about this site. But, someday she might, and it would be very sad for her to think because she was on facebook and blogged, that they should be overlooked because she didn't sign in to CF.Com, or because her child had prune belly,then
his suffering with CF didn't mean anything.

I totally agree with Jenny,, I will fight this disease until I die, and will never SIT IN JUDGEMENT
bcause they havn't signed on to this site,and have 2illness's.<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0">

ESPECIALLY when what Sarah has gone through , and is still fighting for CYSTIC FIBROSIS!<img src="i/expressions/rose.gif" border="0">

Let's get back on the oringinal post, which was about sending a LETTER,for those who want to.<img src="i/expressions/wine.gif" border="0">
 
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