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theLostMiler

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So I moved in with my boyfriend/fiancee (finally) and I just called SS to change my address and living situation (I was alone for a year and a half).

I just wonder, though we dont consider ourselves even un-legally married, can the gov't do anything b/c I am living with a boyfriend?

I still pay half the rent out of my SSD check, but other things like food we kinda half-hazardly split.

The utilities are under my parents name b/c we are living in a house owned by his parents and they are giving us a deal on the rent.

I just worry about somehow being illegal in all this, though I dont think I am. I dont consider his income "mine".
 
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theLostMiler

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So I moved in with my boyfriend/fiancee (finally) and I just called SS to change my address and living situation (I was alone for a year and a half).

I just wonder, though we dont consider ourselves even un-legally married, can the gov't do anything b/c I am living with a boyfriend?

I still pay half the rent out of my SSD check, but other things like food we kinda half-hazardly split.

The utilities are under my parents name b/c we are living in a house owned by his parents and they are giving us a deal on the rent.

I just worry about somehow being illegal in all this, though I dont think I am. I dont consider his income "mine".
 
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theLostMiler

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So I moved in with my boyfriend/fiancee (finally) and I just called SS to change my address and living situation (I was alone for a year and a half).
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<br />I just wonder, though we dont consider ourselves even un-legally married, can the gov't do anything b/c I am living with a boyfriend?
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<br />I still pay half the rent out of my SSD check, but other things like food we kinda half-hazardly split.
<br />
<br />The utilities are under my parents name b/c we are living in a house owned by his parents and they are giving us a deal on the rent.
<br />
<br />I just worry about somehow being illegal in all this, though I dont think I am. I dont consider his income "mine".
 
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carly23

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Hey so i was reading and i see you mentiond about your boyfriend being your fiancee well
congrats!..My boyfriend got us a hotel last night and proposed to me on the balcony over looking dallas,tx <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> we been together 2 1/2 years on Jan 10th of next year <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> i just had to share lol as i now have a fiancee <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">
 
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carly23

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Hey so i was reading and i see you mentiond about your boyfriend being your fiancee well
congrats!..My boyfriend got us a hotel last night and proposed to me on the balcony over looking dallas,tx <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> we been together 2 1/2 years on Jan 10th of next year <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> i just had to share lol as i now have a fiancee <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">
 
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carly23

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Hey so i was reading and i see you mentiond about your boyfriend being your fiancee well
<br />congrats!..My boyfriend got us a hotel last night and proposed to me on the balcony over looking dallas,tx <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> we been together 2 1/2 years on Jan 10th of next year <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> i just had to share lol as i now have a fiancee <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">
 
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AnnieT

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>theLostMiler</b></i>

So I moved in with my boyfriend/fiancee (finally) and I just called SS to change my address and living situation (I was alone for a year and a half).



I just wonder, though we dont consider ourselves even un-legally married, can the gov't do anything b/c I am living with a boyfriend?



I still pay half the rent out of my SSD check, but other things like food we kinda half-hazardly split.



The utilities are under my parents name b/c we are living in a house owned by his parents and they are giving us a deal on the rent.



I just worry about somehow being illegal in all this, though I dont think I am. I dont consider his income "mine".</end quote></div>

I was wondering this as well.
 
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AnnieT

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>theLostMiler</b></i>

So I moved in with my boyfriend/fiancee (finally) and I just called SS to change my address and living situation (I was alone for a year and a half).



I just wonder, though we dont consider ourselves even un-legally married, can the gov't do anything b/c I am living with a boyfriend?



I still pay half the rent out of my SSD check, but other things like food we kinda half-hazardly split.



The utilities are under my parents name b/c we are living in a house owned by his parents and they are giving us a deal on the rent.



I just worry about somehow being illegal in all this, though I dont think I am. I dont consider his income "mine".</end quote>

I was wondering this as well.
 
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AnnieT

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>theLostMiler</b></i>
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<br />So I moved in with my boyfriend/fiancee (finally) and I just called SS to change my address and living situation (I was alone for a year and a half).
<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />I just wonder, though we dont consider ourselves even un-legally married, can the gov't do anything b/c I am living with a boyfriend?
<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />I still pay half the rent out of my SSD check, but other things like food we kinda half-hazardly split.
<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />The utilities are under my parents name b/c we are living in a house owned by his parents and they are giving us a deal on the rent.
<br />
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<br />I just worry about somehow being illegal in all this, though I dont think I am. I dont consider his income "mine".</end quote>
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<br />I was wondering this as well.
 
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carly23

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I thought once you move away from living with your parents that the money you recieve from ssdi can be spent however you want as its then your money...but if you were living with parents then your ssdi check goes to your parents...this is what i was told
from my ssi office <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
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carly23

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I thought once you move away from living with your parents that the money you recieve from ssdi can be spent however you want as its then your money...but if you were living with parents then your ssdi check goes to your parents...this is what i was told
from my ssi office <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
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carly23

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I thought once you move away from living with your parents that the money you recieve from ssdi can be spent however you want as its then your money...but if you were living with parents then your ssdi check goes to your parents...this is what i was told
<br />from my ssi office <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
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theLostMiler

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>carly23</b></i>

Hey so i was reading and i see you mentiond about your boyfriend being your fiancee well

congrats!..My boyfriend got us a hotel last night and proposed to me on the balcony over looking dallas,tx <img src=""> we been together 2 1/2 years on Jan 10th of next year <img src=""> i just had to share lol as i now have a fiancee <img src=""></end quote></div>

Yay! I just saw the topic on the home page but havent read it yet. Mine was a surprise bc we were fighting haha, but it had been 5 1/2 years of dating so i was ready to be engaged already..
 
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theLostMiler

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>carly23</b></i>

Hey so i was reading and i see you mentiond about your boyfriend being your fiancee well

congrats!..My boyfriend got us a hotel last night and proposed to me on the balcony over looking dallas,tx <img src=""> we been together 2 1/2 years on Jan 10th of next year <img src=""> i just had to share lol as i now have a fiancee <img src=""></end quote>

Yay! I just saw the topic on the home page but havent read it yet. Mine was a surprise bc we were fighting haha, but it had been 5 1/2 years of dating so i was ready to be engaged already..
 
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theLostMiler

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>carly23</b></i>
<br />
<br />Hey so i was reading and i see you mentiond about your boyfriend being your fiancee well
<br />
<br />congrats!..My boyfriend got us a hotel last night and proposed to me on the balcony over looking dallas,tx <img src=""> we been together 2 1/2 years on Jan 10th of next year <img src=""> i just had to share lol as i now have a fiancee <img src=""></end quote>
<br />
<br />Yay! I just saw the topic on the home page but havent read it yet. Mine was a surprise bc we were fighting haha, but it had been 5 1/2 years of dating so i was ready to be engaged already..
 
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julie

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All income in the HOUSEHOLD is counted, unless you can show that there is a rental agreement (i.e. roommate type situation) or that you are paying your parents for rent (if you are living with them).

I'd establish a "contract" with your boyfriend about expenses and make sure that you are leaving a paper trail (i.e. writing checks) for the items you are "splitting".
 
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julie

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All income in the HOUSEHOLD is counted, unless you can show that there is a rental agreement (i.e. roommate type situation) or that you are paying your parents for rent (if you are living with them).

I'd establish a "contract" with your boyfriend about expenses and make sure that you are leaving a paper trail (i.e. writing checks) for the items you are "splitting".
 
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