I had an upper right lobectomy in Nov 2009 at Barnes in St Louis. I was back to work by January 16 2010. My right upper lobe had a baseball sized aspargilis fungus ball that caused constant hymoptysis. I also was VERY fatigued and had hair loss before the surgery. This fungus ball was pea size to baseball size within 1 year!
Before the surgery my FEV was 30% and today my FEV remains about 28-30%. That lobe was basically 'dead' as it was not able to pass any air to even be significant for my FEV. I am currently listed on the lung transplant list, and this surgery has NOT made me ineligible for transplant. The surgeon said it's a little more tricky due to extra scar tissue, but it's not impossible to transplant. (I'm currently listed at Loyola in Chicago).
I would have probably been considered ineligible for a transplant if I had not had the lobe removed as there was risk to the chest wall bursting and the fungus entering my bloodstream and some other complications, like sepsis. Therefore, I decided to have the lobe removed.
Best decision ever. I am pretty 'healthy' otherwise, so the surgery wasn't terrible in terms of other complications. I was in the hospital about 2 weeks I think and was sent home for 1 week with a chest tube still in. I was able to stop taking prescription pain pills pretty quickly when I came home. Everyone's recovery is so different though....you really need to have a positive attitude and devoted family members taking care of you almost 24/7 for 3 weeks. It is pretty stressful, but in the end we are stronger for it and more prepared for what a transplant might be like!
So ya, right after the surgery there was a lot of pain, but they give you an epidural...I was already doing chest PT 2 days after the surgery and was up walking around!! It did hurt a LOT to cough, but you just have to grin and bear it...it gets way easier after the first week. The biggest pain I think was from the subcutaneous air I had in my torso - not the incision! I don't remember the incision hurting and today you can barely see it!
Obviously each case is individual as to why a doctor would suggest a lobectomy. It's a last resort solution in my opinion. You may have a different experience than me, since I only grow aspargilis and nothing else, I was lucky to get thru the surgery infection free. You really need to be committed to coughing and your treatments no matter how much it hurts. You have to have a positive attitude and do as much for yourself as you can.
I would definitely talk to 2-3 different hospitals/surgeons before making a decision and ask questions! It's so important to be your own advocate b/c the surgeons will not tell you everything unless you ask. The after care in the hospital was a little poor, so my husband and mother and to constantly be on the nurses and doctors to make sure that I was attended to properly, so keep that in mind whenever you make a choice.
I highly recommend reading "Sick Girl Speaks" by Tiffany Christensen. This book will help you and your family understand the importance of being advocates during this difficult time.
Good luck to you =)