I hardly ever have time to read, let alone write on this chat line. My wife of 24 years, [Our Aniversary is today!] reads, and tries to stay on top of my disease for me. I was diagnosed at birth, and had my first surgery when I was 36 hours old, and a second a few days later. I grew up trying to live as normal a life as possible. But as many of you, I have had several surgeries (adhesions/bowel obstructions) along the way.
I was called to preach when I was in 7th grade, but wondering if I would ever get the chance to preach. I grew up with my high school sweet heart attending the same church and youth activities. I broke it off many times fearing that we were getting to close, and I didn't want her to go thru the pain of loosing a boy- friend, later a fiancee, and husband!
I took my fiancee to my physician in hopes that he would set her straight about my future. But to my surprise, he told be a thing or two. He reminded me that I had already lived beyond my life expectancy and I shouldn't shorten the hand of God now! While in college we got married, and have lived a very fulfilling life together.
I am presently on the lung transplant list for Indiana [Indy]. I am waiting for a bi-lateral donor. It is my plan to continue my quest for happiness, in Christ, in my marriage, in my family and in my church. I thank God regularly for giving me the gift of life. [Both eternal and physical ] My wife is truly a saint! She has had to bear a huge part of the family responsibilities lately. It takes just about all the strength I have to pastor. She is very supportive of my ministry.
Once during a hospital stay a nurse asked me if I knew just how fortunate I was!? I answered yes, but wanted further dialouge. She told me of those who bring their loved ones to the hospital, and then walk away for life. I thank the Lord each day!
Now I know there will be those skeptical about our spiritual relationship with Jesus Christ, but I am living proof, [or better yet, my wife and I ] that there is strength in Christ.
Standing In the Gap
Greg
When I found out, of course I was freeked! I was crying and didn't know what to expect (of course- I expected the worst since I read about it online and read all of the stats..) but I am so glad I didnt run away because he is worth it all- with or without CF. I think there are many people out there who will love you for you- and not let CF get in the way.. you need to make yourself happy because that's all that matters.. NO REGRETS!