Bill,
Sometimes, your no nonsense approach to CF and everything that comes with it is appreciated. When people are looking for only the facts in order to make a better decision for them and their life, you are one of the best voices on this site.
However, the sarcastic comments on threads where people are looking for support instead of facts are extremely counterproductive, and in some cases can be hurtful. People do not use this site to only get the facts of CF life. They come here to find people who can sympathize and offer other perspectives when it comes to the tough parts of the disease.
Not once did I see Sara post that she was obviously smarter than everyone. What I read was she had an extremely bad experience the last time she had the glucose testing done, and it worries her about going in for more. It appears to me like she knows what CFRD can do, and wants to avoid it. She stated she wanted a little more time to come to terms with her horrible experience and had worked out a system her doctor was okay with until the time comes when she feels comfortable taking the glucose test again. She wanted support, not to be berated for the choices she is making.
And as for her not telling her parents, she had said she had not had time to tell them before the diabetes education nurse came in. Not once did she say she wasn't going to tell them. Not being able to tell them in a rushed fashion does not mean leaving them out of her life, or thinking she is smarter than they are.
I'm sure you will have a sarcastic response to this post, because that seems to be your posting go-to. To beat you to the punch, I don't know everything. I don't know more than my doctors. I don't understand all the intricate parts of this disease. I do know, however, know how much of a toll this disease can take on a person mentally if they don't have enough support. That is why I love this site. The support it offers. So please, take your berating posts and keep them to yourself. They don't help anyone. If you want to offer help, lose the hurtful sarcasm and offer help. You don't have to agree with posts, but be a decent person and stop insulting others when their views do not line up with yours.
To Sara:
I get what you mean with the glucose tests. They aren't pleasant in any form or fashion and waiting for the results always stresses me out. I'm glad you've come to a workable solution for the time being and I hope you're able to fight past the bad experience for your future health. I'm sorry you and your clinic don't have a great relationship. That relationship can really make or break how you treat yourself and your disease. Hopefully in time you can find some trust in individual people to make your life a little easier when it comes to treatments.
Sometimes, your no nonsense approach to CF and everything that comes with it is appreciated. When people are looking for only the facts in order to make a better decision for them and their life, you are one of the best voices on this site.
However, the sarcastic comments on threads where people are looking for support instead of facts are extremely counterproductive, and in some cases can be hurtful. People do not use this site to only get the facts of CF life. They come here to find people who can sympathize and offer other perspectives when it comes to the tough parts of the disease.
Not once did I see Sara post that she was obviously smarter than everyone. What I read was she had an extremely bad experience the last time she had the glucose testing done, and it worries her about going in for more. It appears to me like she knows what CFRD can do, and wants to avoid it. She stated she wanted a little more time to come to terms with her horrible experience and had worked out a system her doctor was okay with until the time comes when she feels comfortable taking the glucose test again. She wanted support, not to be berated for the choices she is making.
And as for her not telling her parents, she had said she had not had time to tell them before the diabetes education nurse came in. Not once did she say she wasn't going to tell them. Not being able to tell them in a rushed fashion does not mean leaving them out of her life, or thinking she is smarter than they are.
I'm sure you will have a sarcastic response to this post, because that seems to be your posting go-to. To beat you to the punch, I don't know everything. I don't know more than my doctors. I don't understand all the intricate parts of this disease. I do know, however, know how much of a toll this disease can take on a person mentally if they don't have enough support. That is why I love this site. The support it offers. So please, take your berating posts and keep them to yourself. They don't help anyone. If you want to offer help, lose the hurtful sarcasm and offer help. You don't have to agree with posts, but be a decent person and stop insulting others when their views do not line up with yours.
To Sara:
I get what you mean with the glucose tests. They aren't pleasant in any form or fashion and waiting for the results always stresses me out. I'm glad you've come to a workable solution for the time being and I hope you're able to fight past the bad experience for your future health. I'm sorry you and your clinic don't have a great relationship. That relationship can really make or break how you treat yourself and your disease. Hopefully in time you can find some trust in individual people to make your life a little easier when it comes to treatments.