To the "Anonymous" who was asking what chat room:
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To moonshynchik,
I was lucky to enter the chat room today (the 14th for me) and you were there with JazzysMom. It's my first in a chat room, hope you didn't feel unwelcomed--you were welcome, but I found it hard to reply immediately. How this works with more than three users, I imagine two people will be working on a conversation at a time.
Maybe I'll make it there, if the time zone is within my time.