HEY WHO EVER READS THIS AND IS EXPERIENCED WITH RELETIONSHIPS THEN PLEASE RESPOND.....I AM SEEING THIS GREAT GUY, HE COOKS FOR ME ALL THE TIME, HE WINES AND DINES ME AND WE SEE EACH OTHER ABOUT ONCE A WEEK. HE IS GETTING OUT OF A VERY LONG MARRIAGE AND HAS A HANDSOME LITTLE BOY WHOM LIVES WITH MOM.. WELL MY FRIEND SEES HIS SON A COUPLE TIMES A WEEK WHICH IS TOTALLY AWESOME AND SOMETIMES STAYS THE NIGHT AT HIS EXES SO HE CAN BE THERE IN THE MORNING WITH HIS BOY.... THIS GUY AND I USE TO WORK TOGETHER AND I HAVE ADORED HIM FROM DAY ONE... ANYWAYS, I HAVE BEEN FEELING ALL OF THE SUDDEN THAT THIS GUY REALLY ISN'T AVAILABLE TO ME. THE PHONE CALLS COME EVERY 4 OR 5 DAYS, AND LIKE I SAID, WE MEET ONCE A WEEK OR SO. WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK? HE IS OBVIOUSLY GONNA BE DEALING WITH HIS EX FOR ANOTHER11 OR 12 YEARS OR SO IN DEALING WITH THEIR SON. WHEN HE AND I ARE TOGETHER WE BOTH ENJOY EACH OTHERS COMPANY TREMENDESLY AND I NEED SOME SUGGESTIONS PLEASE... I AM A VERY INDEPENDENT WOMAN AND DO NOT NEED THE CONSATANT PHONE CALLS AND THE CONSATANT GETTOGETHERS, BUT I FEEL THAT HE IS JUST NOT AVAILABLE IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN.....I GUESS WHAT I AM TRYING TO SAY IS IF I GOT IN A CAR ACCIDENTRIGHT AND I WAS IN THE HOSPITAL I THINK I WOULD BE HESITANT TO CALL HIM BECAUSE I DON'T REALLY KNOW WHERE I STAND......I HOPE THIS ALL MAKES SENSE.... AM I BEING REASONABLE, OR NOT?