We had a discussion similar to this awhile back--about how different branches of the military run the EFMP (by the way, it's now called something different--don't know if it's just AF that changed the name though) program differently. I believe Julie (Navy) was saying that her husband was given a number rating but in the AF there is just a letter (Q, I believe) in the sponsors file that says he/she has a dependent in the program. My understanding is that they don't give you a rating based on the severity of your illness.
I think most of you are enlisted? My husband is an officer so I don't know, maybe that makes it a little easier for us to get to the higher-ups for the information we need? But the best thing you could do is to ask your husbands commander to get in touch with the person who runs the EFMP at your current base. Once you have made that contact, ask them to get in touch with the possible gaining bases EMFP director. You can tell them your situation and see (unofficially, of course!)if they will approve the assignment. Some will tell you right off the bat that you can not go (we had a possible assignment to Japan and there's no way they would let us go). We also had a possibility of going to Dover. They told us that we could go but that they would have serious reservations about sending us there because we would have to travel, in their opinion, too far for CF care. At least maybe you can get some sort of idea.
Hope this helped a little bit!
I think most of you are enlisted? My husband is an officer so I don't know, maybe that makes it a little easier for us to get to the higher-ups for the information we need? But the best thing you could do is to ask your husbands commander to get in touch with the person who runs the EFMP at your current base. Once you have made that contact, ask them to get in touch with the possible gaining bases EMFP director. You can tell them your situation and see (unofficially, of course!)if they will approve the assignment. Some will tell you right off the bat that you can not go (we had a possible assignment to Japan and there's no way they would let us go). We also had a possibility of going to Dover. They told us that we could go but that they would have serious reservations about sending us there because we would have to travel, in their opinion, too far for CF care. At least maybe you can get some sort of idea.
Hope this helped a little bit!