We will do the sperm test since if there is a blockage, we would like to be able to figure out if it can be fixed and overall know what we are working with, start considering adoption if there is no chance. We have tried for 2 months which I know isn't long enough to know anything.
The urologist felt around to find if he did or did not have the vas deferens "if they were palpable" so I'd imagine that could be done on a kid. Thank you for all the well wishes :-D. I was excited and there aren't many places you can announce "my husband has a vas deferens" and have it be somewhat appropriate.