Need of Advice - Please Help ** WOMEN ONLY**

[hopesiris]

All I can add is relaxation is important, especially if you have these concerns about physical discomfort before you even do anything. Maybe dim lighting, a gentle massage...and you could always get a book on positioning to see if you can get more comfortable.

 

[hopesiris]

All I can add is relaxation is important, especially if you have these concerns about physical discomfort before you even do anything. Maybe dim lighting, a gentle massage...and you could always get a book on positioning to see if you can get more comfortable.

 

[hopesiris]

All I can add is relaxation is important, especially if you have these concerns about physical discomfort before you even do anything. Maybe dim lighting, a gentle massage...and you could always get a book on positioning to see if you can get more comfortable.

 

[hopesiris]

All I can add is relaxation is important, especially if you have these concerns about physical discomfort before you even do anything. Maybe dim lighting, a gentle massage...and you could always get a book on positioning to see if you can get more comfortable.

 

[hopesiris]

All I can add is relaxation is important, especially if you have these concerns about physical discomfort before you even do anything. Maybe dim lighting, a gentle massage...and you could always get a book on positioning to see if you can get more comfortable.

 

[blindhearted]

Yes, I could stick with HJ/BJ for his pleasure, its more than that. It's more than me not being in the mood that day. We are missing the things that come with intimacy, outside of the pleasure part.

Froggy, I have not tried that one. Since it is a Gel, it might be better. I will look into it. Thanks.

 

[blindhearted]

Yes, I could stick with HJ/BJ for his pleasure, its more than that. It's more than me not being in the mood that day. We are missing the things that come with intimacy, outside of the pleasure part.

Froggy, I have not tried that one. Since it is a Gel, it might be better. I will look into it. Thanks.

 

[blindhearted]

Yes, I could stick with HJ/BJ for his pleasure, its more than that. It's more than me not being in the mood that day. We are missing the things that come with intimacy, outside of the pleasure part.

Froggy, I have not tried that one. Since it is a Gel, it might be better. I will look into it. Thanks.

 

[blindhearted]

Yes, I could stick with HJ/BJ for his pleasure, its more than that. It's more than me not being in the mood that day. We are missing the things that come with intimacy, outside of the pleasure part.

Froggy, I have not tried that one. Since it is a Gel, it might be better. I will look into it. Thanks.

 

[blindhearted]

Yes, I could stick with HJ/BJ for his pleasure, its more than that. It's more than me not being in the mood that day. We are missing the things that come with intimacy, outside of the pleasure part.

Froggy, I have not tried that one. Since it is a Gel, it might be better. I will look into it. Thanks.

 

[Kelli]

Not sure how you feel about this, but what if you went to a vitamin/herbal shop and got something natural to boost your sex drive. I've heard that (and I'm not kidding here) Horny Goat Weed is good for the sex drive. And you won't be putting any more abx or meds in your body, just natural stuff.
Maybe google something regarding natural suppliments to boosting sex drive.

Maybe (if you can do so w/out irritation/pain) the more you have sex, the more you want it. So even if you don't really desire it, do it anyway (if you can do so with a new gel and not be in pain).

Maybe just experiment w/different products and find something that might be right for you.

Sorry I don't have any better advice.

Good luck!
Kelli
30 f CF

 

[Kelli]

Not sure how you feel about this, but what if you went to a vitamin/herbal shop and got something natural to boost your sex drive. I've heard that (and I'm not kidding here) Horny Goat Weed is good for the sex drive. And you won't be putting any more abx or meds in your body, just natural stuff.
Maybe google something regarding natural suppliments to boosting sex drive.

Maybe (if you can do so w/out irritation/pain) the more you have sex, the more you want it. So even if you don't really desire it, do it anyway (if you can do so with a new gel and not be in pain).

Maybe just experiment w/different products and find something that might be right for you.

Sorry I don't have any better advice.

Good luck!
Kelli
30 f CF

 

[Kelli]

Not sure how you feel about this, but what if you went to a vitamin/herbal shop and got something natural to boost your sex drive. I've heard that (and I'm not kidding here) Horny Goat Weed is good for the sex drive. And you won't be putting any more abx or meds in your body, just natural stuff.
Maybe google something regarding natural suppliments to boosting sex drive.

Maybe (if you can do so w/out irritation/pain) the more you have sex, the more you want it. So even if you don't really desire it, do it anyway (if you can do so with a new gel and not be in pain).

Maybe just experiment w/different products and find something that might be right for you.

Sorry I don't have any better advice.

Good luck!
Kelli
30 f CF

 

[Kelli]

Not sure how you feel about this, but what if you went to a vitamin/herbal shop and got something natural to boost your sex drive. I've heard that (and I'm not kidding here) Horny Goat Weed is good for the sex drive. And you won't be putting any more abx or meds in your body, just natural stuff.
Maybe google something regarding natural suppliments to boosting sex drive.

Maybe (if you can do so w/out irritation/pain) the more you have sex, the more you want it. So even if you don't really desire it, do it anyway (if you can do so with a new gel and not be in pain).

Maybe just experiment w/different products and find something that might be right for you.

Sorry I don't have any better advice.

Good luck!
Kelli
30 f CF

 

[Kelli]

Not sure how you feel about this, but what if you went to a vitamin/herbal shop and got something natural to boost your sex drive. I've heard that (and I'm not kidding here) Horny Goat Weed is good for the sex drive. And you won't be putting any more abx or meds in your body, just natural stuff.
Maybe google something regarding natural suppliments to boosting sex drive.

Maybe (if you can do so w/out irritation/pain) the more you have sex, the more you want it. So even if you don't really desire it, do it anyway (if you can do so with a new gel and not be in pain).

Maybe just experiment w/different products and find something that might be right for you.

Sorry I don't have any better advice.

Good luck!
Kelli
30 f CF

 

[bittyhorse23]

I haven't read through the other posts yet so sorry if I duplicate any info.

Welbutrin is the AD that doesn't affect sex drive. See if maybe you can get switched to that.

A friend of mine has the same problem as you sans the ADs and CF. She is very dry and sex is extremely painful for her. She has been married almost 3 years and they have sex maybe once a month but she only does it so her hubby will not be too mad. She has talked to her gyn and they have told her nothing useful. Lubes don't work for her either. And she used to be like me until a few years before she got married. I told her to experiment with different positions until she finds one that doesn't hurt. Then hopefully her desire for sex will return when it doesn't hurt anymore, or hurts much less.

When I started Ad's I totally lost my sex drive. I went from practically being a man in that dept to understanding my friends who had no desire for sex. My mind still craves sex but my body doesn't care either way. I am also turned off by the fact that I get so SOB from it and cough the whole time that it is a hassle to even do it. I have tried being on bottom and even that gets me winded. What really sucks is now I basically just concentrate on my breathing so I don't get SOB and turn purple, but that means actually fully enjoying it is gone. For me now sex is a mental thing and not physical. I have given up all hope of ever fully enjoying sex again. But for me, my end result is not as important as his end result. I know, I'm weird <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

I am also sending you a PM. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">

<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">

 

[bittyhorse23]

I haven't read through the other posts yet so sorry if I duplicate any info.

Welbutrin is the AD that doesn't affect sex drive. See if maybe you can get switched to that.

A friend of mine has the same problem as you sans the ADs and CF. She is very dry and sex is extremely painful for her. She has been married almost 3 years and they have sex maybe once a month but she only does it so her hubby will not be too mad. She has talked to her gyn and they have told her nothing useful. Lubes don't work for her either. And she used to be like me until a few years before she got married. I told her to experiment with different positions until she finds one that doesn't hurt. Then hopefully her desire for sex will return when it doesn't hurt anymore, or hurts much less.

When I started Ad's I totally lost my sex drive. I went from practically being a man in that dept to understanding my friends who had no desire for sex. My mind still craves sex but my body doesn't care either way. I am also turned off by the fact that I get so SOB from it and cough the whole time that it is a hassle to even do it. I have tried being on bottom and even that gets me winded. What really sucks is now I basically just concentrate on my breathing so I don't get SOB and turn purple, but that means actually fully enjoying it is gone. For me now sex is a mental thing and not physical. I have given up all hope of ever fully enjoying sex again. But for me, my end result is not as important as his end result. I know, I'm weird <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

I am also sending you a PM. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">

<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">

 

[bittyhorse23]

I haven't read through the other posts yet so sorry if I duplicate any info.

Welbutrin is the AD that doesn't affect sex drive. See if maybe you can get switched to that.

A friend of mine has the same problem as you sans the ADs and CF. She is very dry and sex is extremely painful for her. She has been married almost 3 years and they have sex maybe once a month but she only does it so her hubby will not be too mad. She has talked to her gyn and they have told her nothing useful. Lubes don't work for her either. And she used to be like me until a few years before she got married. I told her to experiment with different positions until she finds one that doesn't hurt. Then hopefully her desire for sex will return when it doesn't hurt anymore, or hurts much less.

When I started Ad's I totally lost my sex drive. I went from practically being a man in that dept to understanding my friends who had no desire for sex. My mind still craves sex but my body doesn't care either way. I am also turned off by the fact that I get so SOB from it and cough the whole time that it is a hassle to even do it. I have tried being on bottom and even that gets me winded. What really sucks is now I basically just concentrate on my breathing so I don't get SOB and turn purple, but that means actually fully enjoying it is gone. For me now sex is a mental thing and not physical. I have given up all hope of ever fully enjoying sex again. But for me, my end result is not as important as his end result. I know, I'm weird <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

I am also sending you a PM. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">

<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">

 

[bittyhorse23]

I haven't read through the other posts yet so sorry if I duplicate any info.

Welbutrin is the AD that doesn't affect sex drive. See if maybe you can get switched to that.

A friend of mine has the same problem as you sans the ADs and CF. She is very dry and sex is extremely painful for her. She has been married almost 3 years and they have sex maybe once a month but she only does it so her hubby will not be too mad. She has talked to her gyn and they have told her nothing useful. Lubes don't work for her either. And she used to be like me until a few years before she got married. I told her to experiment with different positions until she finds one that doesn't hurt. Then hopefully her desire for sex will return when it doesn't hurt anymore, or hurts much less.

When I started Ad's I totally lost my sex drive. I went from practically being a man in that dept to understanding my friends who had no desire for sex. My mind still craves sex but my body doesn't care either way. I am also turned off by the fact that I get so SOB from it and cough the whole time that it is a hassle to even do it. I have tried being on bottom and even that gets me winded. What really sucks is now I basically just concentrate on my breathing so I don't get SOB and turn purple, but that means actually fully enjoying it is gone. For me now sex is a mental thing and not physical. I have given up all hope of ever fully enjoying sex again. But for me, my end result is not as important as his end result. I know, I'm weird <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

I am also sending you a PM. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">

<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">

 

[bittyhorse23]

I haven't read through the other posts yet so sorry if I duplicate any info.

Welbutrin is the AD that doesn't affect sex drive. See if maybe you can get switched to that.

A friend of mine has the same problem as you sans the ADs and CF. She is very dry and sex is extremely painful for her. She has been married almost 3 years and they have sex maybe once a month but she only does it so her hubby will not be too mad. She has talked to her gyn and they have told her nothing useful. Lubes don't work for her either. And she used to be like me until a few years before she got married. I told her to experiment with different positions until she finds one that doesn't hurt. Then hopefully her desire for sex will return when it doesn't hurt anymore, or hurts much less.

When I started Ad's I totally lost my sex drive. I went from practically being a man in that dept to understanding my friends who had no desire for sex. My mind still craves sex but my body doesn't care either way. I am also turned off by the fact that I get so SOB from it and cough the whole time that it is a hassle to even do it. I have tried being on bottom and even that gets me winded. What really sucks is now I basically just concentrate on my breathing so I don't get SOB and turn purple, but that means actually fully enjoying it is gone. For me now sex is a mental thing and not physical. I have given up all hope of ever fully enjoying sex again. But for me, my end result is not as important as his end result. I know, I'm weird <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

I am also sending you a PM. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">

<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">