Thirty years ago July 20 our daughter Christine was born with the same story. She is currently three years post transplant, married and doing alot better than we ever imagined when we started that journey.
What you need to to focus on the reality in front of you, the positives that you see, the day to day progress. Don't get too caught up in fear and dire predictions. You need to have faith that things will work out . You really need support from those around you, this is too big a burden for two parents to shoulder. You will find that people are essentially good, kind and that they care.
Live in the moment, listen to your heart and most of all let love be your guide