Hello Catherine. My daughter with CF is exactly one year older than your son with CF! She was born 6/26/08. She was diagnosed prenatally, but I think that the feelings we have at the time of dx are all very similar. It is so difficult to look at a perfect baby with all ten fingers and toes, beautiful eyes and smile and to think that there is something so horrible brewing inside.
The thing is that even though we can not imagine or predict exactly what path or how CF will play out in each of our lives, we know that it will take front and center stage at times, but for the most part it is just another twist in the story of our life. I do not want to minimize the effect CF has had on our life. It really is a big part of it, but it has not destroyed our life. We really are a normal family and we do normal things. I often think of CF as an "interruption" in our life. Each day we interrupt our day to do breathing treatments. We interrupt meals to take enzymes. And occasionally we interrupt life altogether and go to the hospital. But we still live our life. We go camping. We go to the park and the zoo.
At first it seemed unreal. The words Cystic Fibrosis rang in my head constantly for months. I have now accepted CF as part of our life, but I still have a long way to go. I hope you find comfort in knowing that others have been there before. It does get better with time.
Welcome to a road less traveled. Make it a beautiful one.