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kayleesgrandma

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Jessi, Emily has a good point , try to get Brian to talk to her. She knows where he's coming from. Emily, that was so wonderful of you to say that to Jessie-you never cease to amaze me! I will keep you both in my prayers, Jessi.
 
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thefrogprincess

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Thanks guys, especially Emily. We won't be having kids any time soon because of this. Hell I don't even know if I can stay with him at this point. I know making any final decisions at this point is pointless, I'm way to emotional right now. I feel so damn mad. He did this with absolutely no regard for how I would feel. He didn't even say anything when I was on the phone with him. He's acting like nothing happened. At the hospital he was making jokes about the charcoal giving him the runs. He won't tell anyone. I told our friend who is staying with us while Brian was in the shower just because I cannot carry this by myself, and that way if Brian says or does anything around Kenny then Kenny will take it seriously.
 
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thefrogprincess

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Thanks guys, especially Emily. We won't be having kids any time soon because of this. Hell I don't even know if I can stay with him at this point. I know making any final decisions at this point is pointless, I'm way to emotional right now. I feel so damn mad. He did this with absolutely no regard for how I would feel. He didn't even say anything when I was on the phone with him. He's acting like nothing happened. At the hospital he was making jokes about the charcoal giving him the runs. He won't tell anyone. I told our friend who is staying with us while Brian was in the shower just because I cannot carry this by myself, and that way if Brian says or does anything around Kenny then Kenny will take it seriously.
 
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thefrogprincess

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Thanks guys, especially Emily. We won't be having kids any time soon because of this. Hell I don't even know if I can stay with him at this point. I know making any final decisions at this point is pointless, I'm way to emotional right now. I feel so damn mad. He did this with absolutely no regard for how I would feel. He didn't even say anything when I was on the phone with him. He's acting like nothing happened. At the hospital he was making jokes about the charcoal giving him the runs. He won't tell anyone. I told our friend who is staying with us while Brian was in the shower just because I cannot carry this by myself, and that way if Brian says or does anything around Kenny then Kenny will take it seriously.
 
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Emily65Roses

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Again, I know this is hardly comforting... but usually when one tries to do stupid sh*t like that, they ARE thinking about their loved ones. If he's anything like I was, as cliche as it is, he figured you'd be "better off." I even convinced myself that family/friends probably wouldn't care.

I know, stupid. And I don't expect you not to take this personally. Just try to keep that stuff in mind somewhere.
 
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Emily65Roses

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Again, I know this is hardly comforting... but usually when one tries to do stupid sh*t like that, they ARE thinking about their loved ones. If he's anything like I was, as cliche as it is, he figured you'd be "better off." I even convinced myself that family/friends probably wouldn't care.

I know, stupid. And I don't expect you not to take this personally. Just try to keep that stuff in mind somewhere.
 
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Emily65Roses

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Again, I know this is hardly comforting... but usually when one tries to do stupid sh*t like that, they ARE thinking about their loved ones. If he's anything like I was, as cliche as it is, he figured you'd be "better off." I even convinced myself that family/friends probably wouldn't care.

I know, stupid. And I don't expect you not to take this personally. Just try to keep that stuff in mind somewhere.
 
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blindhearted

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Jessi, I'm sorry you are going through this. I know that what has happened is a terrible thing, but maybe this is something that needed to happen in order for him to get the help that he needs. I dont have any advice to give, so I will be praying for you both. I hope everything starts to turn around for the better soon. Hang in there. *hugs*
 
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blindhearted

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Jessi, I'm sorry you are going through this. I know that what has happened is a terrible thing, but maybe this is something that needed to happen in order for him to get the help that he needs. I dont have any advice to give, so I will be praying for you both. I hope everything starts to turn around for the better soon. Hang in there. *hugs*
 
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blindhearted

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Jessi, I'm sorry you are going through this. I know that what has happened is a terrible thing, but maybe this is something that needed to happen in order for him to get the help that he needs. I dont have any advice to give, so I will be praying for you both. I hope everything starts to turn around for the better soon. Hang in there. *hugs*
 
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wannastayanonymous

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>Emily65Roses</b></i>

Again, I know this is hardly comforting... but usually when one tries to do stupid sh*t like that, they ARE thinking about their loved ones. If he's anything like I was, as cliche as it is, he figured you'd be "better off." I even convinced myself that family/friends probably wouldn't care.



I know, stupid. And I don't expect you not to take this personally. Just try to keep that stuff in mind somewhere.</end quote></div>


Agreed..... I would be suprised if he wasn't considering you, and others more than himself.
 
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wannastayanonymous

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>Emily65Roses</b></i>

Again, I know this is hardly comforting... but usually when one tries to do stupid sh*t like that, they ARE thinking about their loved ones. If he's anything like I was, as cliche as it is, he figured you'd be "better off." I even convinced myself that family/friends probably wouldn't care.



I know, stupid. And I don't expect you not to take this personally. Just try to keep that stuff in mind somewhere.</end quote></div>


Agreed..... I would be suprised if he wasn't considering you, and others more than himself.
 
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wannastayanonymous

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>Emily65Roses</b></i>

Again, I know this is hardly comforting... but usually when one tries to do stupid sh*t like that, they ARE thinking about their loved ones. If he's anything like I was, as cliche as it is, he figured you'd be "better off." I even convinced myself that family/friends probably wouldn't care.



I know, stupid. And I don't expect you not to take this personally. Just try to keep that stuff in mind somewhere.</end quote></div>


Agreed..... I would be suprised if he wasn't considering you, and others more than himself.
 
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JennifersHope

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I am sorry that you are going through all this drama... it is really hard to deal with. I am having a really hard time understanding how they let him leave the emergency room after an attempted overdose..

In NJ, if someone even says the word.."suicide, hurt themself, or even eludes to the fact that they are thinking about it" they are automatically admitted to the hospital....much less when someone makes an attempt however small it is.


It shouldn't be your responsiblity to watch him or take care of him....

As far as him being selfish or you thinking he wasn't thinking of you.. I feel like that can go two ways.

Sometimes not killing yourself if because you are not wanting to cause any more pain to your family, so you hang in there for them.

Other times you think, killing yourself will relieve some of the stress in the family...

It is a hard spot. I certainly wouldn't consider leaving someone that you are so commited to, just because he is going through a rough time... I would consider giving him some time and some serious boundries to get the help he needs.
 
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JennifersHope

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I am sorry that you are going through all this drama... it is really hard to deal with. I am having a really hard time understanding how they let him leave the emergency room after an attempted overdose..

In NJ, if someone even says the word.."suicide, hurt themself, or even eludes to the fact that they are thinking about it" they are automatically admitted to the hospital....much less when someone makes an attempt however small it is.


It shouldn't be your responsiblity to watch him or take care of him....

As far as him being selfish or you thinking he wasn't thinking of you.. I feel like that can go two ways.

Sometimes not killing yourself if because you are not wanting to cause any more pain to your family, so you hang in there for them.

Other times you think, killing yourself will relieve some of the stress in the family...

It is a hard spot. I certainly wouldn't consider leaving someone that you are so commited to, just because he is going through a rough time... I would consider giving him some time and some serious boundries to get the help he needs.
 
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JennifersHope

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I am sorry that you are going through all this drama... it is really hard to deal with. I am having a really hard time understanding how they let him leave the emergency room after an attempted overdose..

In NJ, if someone even says the word.."suicide, hurt themself, or even eludes to the fact that they are thinking about it" they are automatically admitted to the hospital....much less when someone makes an attempt however small it is.


It shouldn't be your responsiblity to watch him or take care of him....

As far as him being selfish or you thinking he wasn't thinking of you.. I feel like that can go two ways.

Sometimes not killing yourself if because you are not wanting to cause any more pain to your family, so you hang in there for them.

Other times you think, killing yourself will relieve some of the stress in the family...

It is a hard spot. I certainly wouldn't consider leaving someone that you are so commited to, just because he is going through a rough time... I would consider giving him some time and some serious boundries to get the help he needs.
 
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JennifersHope

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I am sorry that you are going through all this drama... it is really hard to deal with. I am having a really hard time understanding how they let him leave the emergency room after an attempted overdose..

In NJ, if someone even says the word.."suicide, hurt themself, or even eludes to the fact that they are thinking about it" they are automatically admitted to the hospital....much less when someone makes an attempt however small it is.


It shouldn't be your responsiblity to watch him or take care of him....

As far as him being selfish or you thinking he wasn't thinking of you.. I feel like that can go two ways.

Sometimes not killing yourself if because you are not wanting to cause any more pain to your family, so you hang in there for them.

Other times you think, killing yourself will relieve some of the stress in the family...

It is a hard spot. I certainly wouldn't consider leaving someone that you are so commited to, just because he is going through a rough time... I would consider giving him some time and some serious boundries to get the help he needs.
 
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JennifersHope

New member
I am sorry that you are going through all this drama... it is really hard to deal with. I am having a really hard time understanding how they let him leave the emergency room after an attempted overdose..

In NJ, if someone even says the word.."suicide, hurt themself, or even eludes to the fact that they are thinking about it" they are automatically admitted to the hospital....much less when someone makes an attempt however small it is.


It shouldn't be your responsiblity to watch him or take care of him....

As far as him being selfish or you thinking he wasn't thinking of you.. I feel like that can go two ways.

Sometimes not killing yourself if because you are not wanting to cause any more pain to your family, so you hang in there for them.

Other times you think, killing yourself will relieve some of the stress in the family...

It is a hard spot. I certainly wouldn't consider leaving someone that you are so commited to, just because he is going through a rough time... I would consider giving him some time and some serious boundries to get the help he needs.
 
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JennifersHope

New member
I am sorry that you are going through all this drama... it is really hard to deal with. I am having a really hard time understanding how they let him leave the emergency room after an attempted overdose..

In NJ, if someone even says the word.."suicide, hurt themself, or even eludes to the fact that they are thinking about it" they are automatically admitted to the hospital....much less when someone makes an attempt however small it is.


It shouldn't be your responsiblity to watch him or take care of him....

As far as him being selfish or you thinking he wasn't thinking of you.. I feel like that can go two ways.

Sometimes not killing yourself if because you are not wanting to cause any more pain to your family, so you hang in there for them.

Other times you think, killing yourself will relieve some of the stress in the family...

It is a hard spot. I certainly wouldn't consider leaving someone that you are so commited to, just because he is going through a rough time... I would consider giving him some time and some serious boundries to get the help he needs.
 
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