All:
I'm one of the "late" CFF diganosed persons - just diagnosed a couple of months ago at the age of 36. Anyway, prior to this diagnosis, I have operated under the philosphy that "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything" philosphy. Now post diagnosis, I find myself telling friends EXACTLY what's on my mind, much to their shock. It usually has to do with how stupid they're being in their relationships and how unhappy they are, and I'm finally telling them that life is too short...either find a way to be happy in your current situation or DO SOMETHING TO CHANGE IT.
I think what drew the majority of my friends to me to begin with is that they felt safe in talking with me, because I would just listen. But now their issues seem really stupid in the whole scheme of life and I find myself just wanting to smack them all.
I know I'm still very angry about my diagnosis, that it wasn't caught when I was a kid, but should have been, so I wonder if part of my attitude is feeding off of the anger that I'm feeling.
I guess being diagnosed with this has given me certain "liberties" shall we say, and I suddenly feel very free to express my thoughts, whatever they may be. I think I will lose some friends over this...but then, maybe they really weren't friends to begin with...
Anyway, I was just wondering if any of you have gone through this or for those of you who have known your whole life, how you've felt stuff like this? What has anyone done about it, if anything?
I really LOVE this site and feel like without it, I would be going off the deep end at the moment, so I just want to say how much I appreciate all of you!
Amy
36 w/CF
I'm one of the "late" CFF diganosed persons - just diagnosed a couple of months ago at the age of 36. Anyway, prior to this diagnosis, I have operated under the philosphy that "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything" philosphy. Now post diagnosis, I find myself telling friends EXACTLY what's on my mind, much to their shock. It usually has to do with how stupid they're being in their relationships and how unhappy they are, and I'm finally telling them that life is too short...either find a way to be happy in your current situation or DO SOMETHING TO CHANGE IT.
I think what drew the majority of my friends to me to begin with is that they felt safe in talking with me, because I would just listen. But now their issues seem really stupid in the whole scheme of life and I find myself just wanting to smack them all.
I know I'm still very angry about my diagnosis, that it wasn't caught when I was a kid, but should have been, so I wonder if part of my attitude is feeding off of the anger that I'm feeling.
I guess being diagnosed with this has given me certain "liberties" shall we say, and I suddenly feel very free to express my thoughts, whatever they may be. I think I will lose some friends over this...but then, maybe they really weren't friends to begin with...
Anyway, I was just wondering if any of you have gone through this or for those of you who have known your whole life, how you've felt stuff like this? What has anyone done about it, if anything?
I really LOVE this site and feel like without it, I would be going off the deep end at the moment, so I just want to say how much I appreciate all of you!
Amy
36 w/CF