For me, it's not about the doctor's age. I'm concerned about his/her knowledge, and also his/her willingness to communicate and listen to me. When my pediatric clinic found a new doc to take over all adult patients, he was someone "new to CF." I was accustomed to my peds doctor trusting me to know my own body. She listened when I described my symptoms, and she spoke to me like an intelligent adult. Over the years, I've been with other docs who speak to me as if they have to "dumb down" their conversation for me, so I know that's not something I can tolerate. This new adult doc was in the "dumb it down" camp.
Around the same time I had to switch, I experienced a 15% decrease in my FEV1. Scary, and very unusual for me since my decline had always been slow and steady. The new doc, instead of being concerned about the drop, only saw a number that looked "good" for someone my age. I think that since he had no experience with CF, he could only judge me based on what the textbooks said, which would say I was in good shape. He wasn't looking at me as an individual, but as a case of CF.
That should have been my sign to leave the clinic, but I stuck around for another year and a half.
My breaking point was when I had a massive bleed that required hospitalization. He never even followed up with me after I was discharged. The home care company just ended my IV treatments after two weeks, because the doctor never even called to ask if I was feeling well enough to end antibiotics. I felt like I was alone in my fight against CF. When I ran into him in the hospital a few weeks later, his question was, "Oh, how's that cough you had?" That was the day I requested that my records be transferred to a new clinic.
I've been to several different clinics in my life (because of college, moving, etc.) and I know there are plenty of CF docs out there who are willing to partner with their patients. They listen and trust their patients. I am extremely happy with my doctor now, and I will never again risk my health with an inexperienced/inattentive doctor.
Martha
44 w/CF, 3 kids with no CF