Ok, the first thing I would suggest, is that you look into getting both of your daughters a Vest. A lot of patients don't like using it at first , it does take some getting used to, but the independance is priceless. I live away from home at college (I'm 22), by my self, and having the ability to do effective PT myself is the most amazing thing! Are you living in an area where you see CF specialists? They should be able to give you a world-wide list of CF centers if she is interested in college abroad. If you take her to tour colleges, you should be able to arrange tours at CF clinics as well. I attend Colorado State, and the health center on campus has developed a relationship with my specialists in Denver (who I still go see every other month) but when I get small colds, it's nice to be able to get care at school. You have to treat her growing up and leaving the nest as you would if she didn't have CF. Your doctor can help arrange for her to have a private dorm room if you are concerned about communal living. If you help her get excited about growing up, and don't treat her like she is still a sick baby (I know it's hard) she will be more likley to tend to her CF by herself. Most of us go through a phase of slacking and it is directly related to learning how to care for ourselves. Yes, we know WHAT to do, but we have to learn to discipline ourselves. People w/o CF do have to do it too. I would also suggest that you discuss a "deal" with her about school. Explain that you want her to pursue her goals and that you fully support her, but adjusting to college is damn hard. Perhaps a year or two at a school in the US, or closer to home to help her adjust ( let her know that the first two years are general ed. classes anyway) and let her see how her health plays into her life as a student. She could also find some really good semester abroad programs that are just as exciting. It's important that you discuss this stuff with her needs and wants in mind, and not yours. Like any other parent, you've done the best you can, and you just have to hope that you did 'em right. It would be really important that when she decides on a place, even if it's close enough to home to go to her old doctors, that she switch to an adult CF specialist if there is one in the area. This is sometimes a big adjustment for parents, too, because suddenly you are out of the loop. You are no longer entitled to sit in at appointments, and doctors will not openly discuss certain things with you. You must adjust. Also, adult specialists are more apt to handle adult problems that onset as we grow older. I've had SO much stuff change since I left the house. I've had questions about birth control, alcohol, family planning, diabetes, social security... and although pediatric docs do their best, it's just not what they are supposed to focus on. An adult clinic will giver her the adult support she needs. If she's interested, she can e-mail me if she has questions about CF and college.I've had to adjust to living alone, but I still go to school, travel, party, ski, camp, ect. It's not about staying alive, it's about living life. Debbie22 yr old w/ Cfdncox3@comcast.net