Please help me decide!

anonymous

New member
Hi, this is going to be <b><i><b>long </b></i></b>but I want to give as much of the details as possible so you can help me figure this out!

<b>Background:</b>
My daughter Sydney (3wcf) has been pretty healthy so far in her 3 years. She has gotten sick 2-3 times per cold/flu season but seems to get well pretty quickly (same time frame or less time than her friends without CF).

<b>Current Situation:</b>
Sydney has had a sinus cold this past week. Last Monday she had a fever that lasted for about 6 hours, followed by a stuffy nose the next morning, which turned into a junky souding, shallow cough and sore throat. I called the Dr on Tuesday and the nurse said it sounded viral bc the fever was so short and this sort of thing is really going around right now. Sydney, my husband and me have all been having sinus troubles off and on during the whole month of September and all of us are dealing with the worst of it right now. Sydney & I get sinus congestion every year at this time (seasonal allergies?) So, the nurse says that the cough may last a few weeks. Sydney is feeling fine now, plays all day etc, but she is still coughing and I think it may last a while bc she doesn't blow her nose or cough up the mucus so it is lingering in her throat. Her lungs sound clear. So, here is my question:

<b>Do we keep her home until her cough is completely gone?</b>

In the past, we have pretty much kept her home until all of her symptoms are gone thinking that it would help prevent her from picking up a secondary infection while her immune system is low. Also, we didn't really think it was a good idea to possibly expose others to her sickness (although that doesn't stop most other people from sending their kids out with a cough or runny nose, kwim?) Now that Sydney is older, she is involved in more activities and they are important to her.

This week in particular is full of events for Sydney:
<b>Tuesday: </b> Toddler class for 2 hours with 10 other 3 year olds. Kids are in a little classroom, do educational activities, play games, etc.
<b>Wednesday:</b> Toddler time at the library starts. There are usually about 10 other kids
ages 2-4 in here and the class lasts 45 minutes. Kids sit with moms during stories, then do a craft with mom.
<b>Wednesday Night: </b>Fall Fun Fest at our church. This is completely outdoors, which I am thinking makes it less risky(?) but there are usually about 900 people so who knows how many of them will have colds, etc. There are games, climb-ons, hay ride, food etc.
<b>Friday:</b> CF Clinic - this one isn't a question, just wanted to mention that we are going this week.
<b>Sunday: </b>Sunday school 2 hours, random kids each week (bc of visitors, new people, etc) 10-20 kids, etc.


We haven't told Sydney what is coming up this week so she won't even know if she misses any of this stuff but I hate for her to miss it bc without this stuff she is stuck at home most of the time with her baby brother and me (boring!) We opted not to send her to preschool this year but thought these activities (and one other that I didn't mention bc it starts in 2 weeks) would be a good compromise. She is VERY social and LOVES to go places and be with other people. I am just torn between keeping her home where I know she will be more likely "safe" from illness or letting her take the risks that sometimes go with having fun, fun, fun. Both good health and good fun are important!

Now that I have typed all of this, I wonder if I am making a bigger deal out of it than necessary! Anyway, I would love to hear what parents of kids wcf might do in this situation and also what people wcf think of this situation!

Thanks!
Kelli - mom of Sydney 3wcf and Andrew 5 months nocf
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anonymous

New member
Hi, this is going to be <b><i><b>long </b></i></b>but I want to give as much of the details as possible so you can help me figure this out!

<b>Background:</b>
My daughter Sydney (3wcf) has been pretty healthy so far in her 3 years. She has gotten sick 2-3 times per cold/flu season but seems to get well pretty quickly (same time frame or less time than her friends without CF).

<b>Current Situation:</b>
Sydney has had a sinus cold this past week. Last Monday she had a fever that lasted for about 6 hours, followed by a stuffy nose the next morning, which turned into a junky souding, shallow cough and sore throat. I called the Dr on Tuesday and the nurse said it sounded viral bc the fever was so short and this sort of thing is really going around right now. Sydney, my husband and me have all been having sinus troubles off and on during the whole month of September and all of us are dealing with the worst of it right now. Sydney & I get sinus congestion every year at this time (seasonal allergies?) So, the nurse says that the cough may last a few weeks. Sydney is feeling fine now, plays all day etc, but she is still coughing and I think it may last a while bc she doesn't blow her nose or cough up the mucus so it is lingering in her throat. Her lungs sound clear. So, here is my question:

<b>Do we keep her home until her cough is completely gone?</b>

In the past, we have pretty much kept her home until all of her symptoms are gone thinking that it would help prevent her from picking up a secondary infection while her immune system is low. Also, we didn't really think it was a good idea to possibly expose others to her sickness (although that doesn't stop most other people from sending their kids out with a cough or runny nose, kwim?) Now that Sydney is older, she is involved in more activities and they are important to her.

This week in particular is full of events for Sydney:
<b>Tuesday: </b> Toddler class for 2 hours with 10 other 3 year olds. Kids are in a little classroom, do educational activities, play games, etc.
<b>Wednesday:</b> Toddler time at the library starts. There are usually about 10 other kids
ages 2-4 in here and the class lasts 45 minutes. Kids sit with moms during stories, then do a craft with mom.
<b>Wednesday Night: </b>Fall Fun Fest at our church. This is completely outdoors, which I am thinking makes it less risky(?) but there are usually about 900 people so who knows how many of them will have colds, etc. There are games, climb-ons, hay ride, food etc.
<b>Friday:</b> CF Clinic - this one isn't a question, just wanted to mention that we are going this week.
<b>Sunday: </b>Sunday school 2 hours, random kids each week (bc of visitors, new people, etc) 10-20 kids, etc.


We haven't told Sydney what is coming up this week so she won't even know if she misses any of this stuff but I hate for her to miss it bc without this stuff she is stuck at home most of the time with her baby brother and me (boring!) We opted not to send her to preschool this year but thought these activities (and one other that I didn't mention bc it starts in 2 weeks) would be a good compromise. She is VERY social and LOVES to go places and be with other people. I am just torn between keeping her home where I know she will be more likely "safe" from illness or letting her take the risks that sometimes go with having fun, fun, fun. Both good health and good fun are important!

Now that I have typed all of this, I wonder if I am making a bigger deal out of it than necessary! Anyway, I would love to hear what parents of kids wcf might do in this situation and also what people wcf think of this situation!

Thanks!
Kelli - mom of Sydney 3wcf and Andrew 5 months nocf
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</a>
 

anonymous

New member
Hi, this is going to be <b><i><b>long </b></i></b>but I want to give as much of the details as possible so you can help me figure this out!

<b>Background:</b>
My daughter Sydney (3wcf) has been pretty healthy so far in her 3 years. She has gotten sick 2-3 times per cold/flu season but seems to get well pretty quickly (same time frame or less time than her friends without CF).

<b>Current Situation:</b>
Sydney has had a sinus cold this past week. Last Monday she had a fever that lasted for about 6 hours, followed by a stuffy nose the next morning, which turned into a junky souding, shallow cough and sore throat. I called the Dr on Tuesday and the nurse said it sounded viral bc the fever was so short and this sort of thing is really going around right now. Sydney, my husband and me have all been having sinus troubles off and on during the whole month of September and all of us are dealing with the worst of it right now. Sydney & I get sinus congestion every year at this time (seasonal allergies?) So, the nurse says that the cough may last a few weeks. Sydney is feeling fine now, plays all day etc, but she is still coughing and I think it may last a while bc she doesn't blow her nose or cough up the mucus so it is lingering in her throat. Her lungs sound clear. So, here is my question:

<b>Do we keep her home until her cough is completely gone?</b>

In the past, we have pretty much kept her home until all of her symptoms are gone thinking that it would help prevent her from picking up a secondary infection while her immune system is low. Also, we didn't really think it was a good idea to possibly expose others to her sickness (although that doesn't stop most other people from sending their kids out with a cough or runny nose, kwim?) Now that Sydney is older, she is involved in more activities and they are important to her.

This week in particular is full of events for Sydney:
<b>Tuesday: </b> Toddler class for 2 hours with 10 other 3 year olds. Kids are in a little classroom, do educational activities, play games, etc.
<b>Wednesday:</b> Toddler time at the library starts. There are usually about 10 other kids
ages 2-4 in here and the class lasts 45 minutes. Kids sit with moms during stories, then do a craft with mom.
<b>Wednesday Night: </b>Fall Fun Fest at our church. This is completely outdoors, which I am thinking makes it less risky(?) but there are usually about 900 people so who knows how many of them will have colds, etc. There are games, climb-ons, hay ride, food etc.
<b>Friday:</b> CF Clinic - this one isn't a question, just wanted to mention that we are going this week.
<b>Sunday: </b>Sunday school 2 hours, random kids each week (bc of visitors, new people, etc) 10-20 kids, etc.


We haven't told Sydney what is coming up this week so she won't even know if she misses any of this stuff but I hate for her to miss it bc without this stuff she is stuck at home most of the time with her baby brother and me (boring!) We opted not to send her to preschool this year but thought these activities (and one other that I didn't mention bc it starts in 2 weeks) would be a good compromise. She is VERY social and LOVES to go places and be with other people. I am just torn between keeping her home where I know she will be more likely "safe" from illness or letting her take the risks that sometimes go with having fun, fun, fun. Both good health and good fun are important!

Now that I have typed all of this, I wonder if I am making a bigger deal out of it than necessary! Anyway, I would love to hear what parents of kids wcf might do in this situation and also what people wcf think of this situation!

Thanks!
Kelli - mom of Sydney 3wcf and Andrew 5 months nocf
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Allie

New member
I'd send her, but that's me. If it's a simple cold, she should be okay, especially if she's always bounced back quickly before. She'll love the activities, you know she will, if she enjoys being social like you say. Ry , as an adult, always opted to do tings at the end of an infection if they were important/fun, because he made CF work around his life, not his life work around CF.

Hope this helped!
 

Allie

New member
I'd send her, but that's me. If it's a simple cold, she should be okay, especially if she's always bounced back quickly before. She'll love the activities, you know she will, if she enjoys being social like you say. Ry , as an adult, always opted to do tings at the end of an infection if they were important/fun, because he made CF work around his life, not his life work around CF.

Hope this helped!
 

Allie

New member
I'd send her, but that's me. If it's a simple cold, she should be okay, especially if she's always bounced back quickly before. She'll love the activities, you know she will, if she enjoys being social like you say. Ry , as an adult, always opted to do tings at the end of an infection if they were important/fun, because he made CF work around his life, not his life work around CF.

Hope this helped!
 

momtoCory

New member
I would send her. In the world of CF there are many things that have to missed because of hospital visits, doctor visits and illness. Having the social of life is so important! I would do some extra treatments (if the doctor advises) and go for the fun........
 

momtoCory

New member
I would send her. In the world of CF there are many things that have to missed because of hospital visits, doctor visits and illness. Having the social of life is so important! I would do some extra treatments (if the doctor advises) and go for the fun........
 

momtoCory

New member
I would send her. In the world of CF there are many things that have to missed because of hospital visits, doctor visits and illness. Having the social of life is so important! I would do some extra treatments (if the doctor advises) and go for the fun........
 

Scarlett81

New member
I guess I'm playing Devil's advocate today!<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> I would probably keep her home a few more days. I have EXACTLY what Sydney has right now! The terrible sinus stuff, partly related to allergies, partly to a virus. I had the fever that lasted a few hours, all that. I get this thing almost every fall.
I'm virtually staying at home till this clears up. Now I know I'm a grown up, so maybe my immune system isn't as good as hers. I try to be really careful, b/c I am so succeptable right now to catching something else. And with the nature of this virus I have-if I caught something now it would be bad for me.

Just thought I'd give you my input since what we have sounds so similar. In the end-you have the motherly instincts-you go with them. You know best!

Hope she feels better soon.
 

Scarlett81

New member
I guess I'm playing Devil's advocate today!<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> I would probably keep her home a few more days. I have EXACTLY what Sydney has right now! The terrible sinus stuff, partly related to allergies, partly to a virus. I had the fever that lasted a few hours, all that. I get this thing almost every fall.
I'm virtually staying at home till this clears up. Now I know I'm a grown up, so maybe my immune system isn't as good as hers. I try to be really careful, b/c I am so succeptable right now to catching something else. And with the nature of this virus I have-if I caught something now it would be bad for me.

Just thought I'd give you my input since what we have sounds so similar. In the end-you have the motherly instincts-you go with them. You know best!

Hope she feels better soon.
 

Scarlett81

New member
I guess I'm playing Devil's advocate today!<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> I would probably keep her home a few more days. I have EXACTLY what Sydney has right now! The terrible sinus stuff, partly related to allergies, partly to a virus. I had the fever that lasted a few hours, all that. I get this thing almost every fall.
I'm virtually staying at home till this clears up. Now I know I'm a grown up, so maybe my immune system isn't as good as hers. I try to be really careful, b/c I am so succeptable right now to catching something else. And with the nature of this virus I have-if I caught something now it would be bad for me.

Just thought I'd give you my input since what we have sounds so similar. In the end-you have the motherly instincts-you go with them. You know best!

Hope she feels better soon.
 

anonymous

New member
If she doesn't have a fever and she's herself in terms of being happy, active... And doesn't seem whiney and clingy --- I say send her.

Liza aka ratatosk, mom to a 3 year old wcf
 

anonymous

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If she doesn't have a fever and she's herself in terms of being happy, active... And doesn't seem whiney and clingy --- I say send her.

Liza aka ratatosk, mom to a 3 year old wcf
 

anonymous

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If she doesn't have a fever and she's herself in terms of being happy, active... And doesn't seem whiney and clingy --- I say send her.

Liza aka ratatosk, mom to a 3 year old wcf
 

anonymous

New member
I say send her unless she appears to be not feeling well, like mentioned above. Abby tends to get the cough like you just explained because of the post nasal drip and it does take a little longer to get over. Remember too, that a lot of times the cough, germs that our cfers have aren't contagious for other people. The hard part is telling the difference between cf related and cough/virus.
 

anonymous

New member
I say send her unless she appears to be not feeling well, like mentioned above. Abby tends to get the cough like you just explained because of the post nasal drip and it does take a little longer to get over. Remember too, that a lot of times the cough, germs that our cfers have aren't contagious for other people. The hard part is telling the difference between cf related and cough/virus.
 
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