i had a port placed in me [pardon my english, not my first language] a year and a half ago, and overall, it's a wonderful thing. before i got it, it was very difficult to finish a two-week IV course, because my veins were very fragile and it was a trouble to hold in an IV. so i had to have the port. i had concerns mainly about how it would look [i'm 20, just turned 19 when i received the port, and obviously looks matter] and whether i was still sexually attractive, clothes limitations and stuff. mine is placed on my left side, right under the breast and to the side. gives me no trouble in the looks/clothes department. the only thing is i try to buy bras that aren't really tight, like, i'm 34/36D and i only get 36 now, sometimes even 38, because when it's too tight, it makes pressure on the tube that goes into the vein, and it can be uncomfortable. no problem with having sex, either. i usually show it to the other person way, way before we even get intimate and it's no big deal. a friend of mine even called it once "lois's third nipple" and we had a great laugh over it. the medical aspect of it is awesome. it doesn't hurt a bit and it's pretty easy to handle the home IV, just have to keep it extra sterile when i have IV's. basically, it's a great thing. it's about a 40 minutes surgery, two scars - one right above the port's box [mine's very white and not really showing] and one on the neck where the tube went into the vein [mine's almost gone now, and it's very small and pink-reddish, looks like a hickey, which also was fun with friends afterwards]. great thing.