This is great! I think it is what we have been doing all along.
Though, my 17 year old shakes his head and gets a little frustrated when he wants me to make the decision for him and I start asking him how he feels, what does he think he should do, and so forth. When I got a scholarship offer to pursue a degree in psych, he about died, and said, "well you would be good at it." I jokingly asked him,"How doe you feel about that?" and he shook his head and announced I'm going to my room, "pleaseeeeeeeeeee".
I like hearing about stuff like this as it confirms when we are on the right track, need to make adjustments or changes in our parenting.
Thanks,
Though, my 17 year old shakes his head and gets a little frustrated when he wants me to make the decision for him and I start asking him how he feels, what does he think he should do, and so forth. When I got a scholarship offer to pursue a degree in psych, he about died, and said, "well you would be good at it." I jokingly asked him,"How doe you feel about that?" and he shook his head and announced I'm going to my room, "pleaseeeeeeeeeee".
I like hearing about stuff like this as it confirms when we are on the right track, need to make adjustments or changes in our parenting.
Thanks,