mamaScarlett
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<p><div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>Keepercjr</b></i> Don't take the power of suggestion too lightly. Tell your baby that you are not quite ready - that you need to feel better to get through labor. My midwife said that babies, when left to their own devices, know when they should be born. Tune into baby and let her (?) know. When I was heavily pregnant with Scarlett, I was just not ready to have her be born yet (not because I wasn't done being pregnant but I just wasn't "there" yet). But one day something clicked and when I was in the shower I told her that I was ready now. And I went into labor the next morning and had her after 4 hours of labor.</end quote>
<p>Yes, good point. I'm not 'there' yet either. If I went into labor now I'd be just filled with fear that I won't be able to do it bc of this cough. After having experienced natural childbirth myself and assisted natural birth so many times, I know its all about the fear. And about letting go! Stress will definitely hold back the bodys readiness to go into labor, even OBs will tell you that. Well, thanks for the boost. I'm fighting the cough with everything I can, now I just have to let go and relax. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
<p>Either way, there will be a baby here soon, right? I may as well go with it and not fight!
<p>Yes, good point. I'm not 'there' yet either. If I went into labor now I'd be just filled with fear that I won't be able to do it bc of this cough. After having experienced natural childbirth myself and assisted natural birth so many times, I know its all about the fear. And about letting go! Stress will definitely hold back the bodys readiness to go into labor, even OBs will tell you that. Well, thanks for the boost. I'm fighting the cough with everything I can, now I just have to let go and relax. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
<p>Either way, there will be a baby here soon, right? I may as well go with it and not fight!