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SilentEarth3

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My problem with that is that he doesnt let me be there. We only talk once in awhile now. I am fighting for him because I know that what we have is real, but the fact of the matter is, he does have a new girl in his life. She prevents us from communicating. I try to fight for him, but how do you fight for someone who wont let you be there? This month would have been our three year anniversary. I have done everything I can think of except just stop talking to him completely. I just dont know what to do... <img src="i/expressions/sad_eyes.gif" border="0">
 
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SilentEarth3

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My problem with that is that he doesnt let me be there. We only talk once in awhile now. I am fighting for him because I know that what we have is real, but the fact of the matter is, he does have a new girl in his life. She prevents us from communicating. I try to fight for him, but how do you fight for someone who wont let you be there? This month would have been our three year anniversary. I have done everything I can think of except just stop talking to him completely. I just dont know what to do... <img src="i/expressions/sad_eyes.gif" border="0">
 
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thelizardqueen

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I really don't think there is much that you can do now. The only way you can get back into his life is if he wants you there. I hate to say it, but sometimes you just have to let go, just like with every relationship that doesn't work out, eventually there is a time where you just can't do anymore on your part and have to step back. Not all relationships work out, its a fact, and there is only so much you can do.
 
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thelizardqueen

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I really don't think there is much that you can do now. The only way you can get back into his life is if he wants you there. I hate to say it, but sometimes you just have to let go, just like with every relationship that doesn't work out, eventually there is a time where you just can't do anymore on your part and have to step back. Not all relationships work out, its a fact, and there is only so much you can do.
 
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anonymous

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ok, i know ur problem...im a chick wit cf and i told my x-fiance that i just wanted to be friends with him because i waz so afraid of loosing him...but i realized that its better to have fun and spend as much time as u can with the person u really truly care about or other people that really care about you then to not knowing them at all...that goes for people wit out cf..if u leave them then u'll be missing out on a lot...all u have to do is just be there for him and don't give up on him...if he see's how much u truly care, just give it some time and he wil be back...if not then he'll know he has a really great person in his life that cares about him other than his family!!!!

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gretzky711

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Speaking from experience I found girls who I knew would give me attention, but didn't know I had CF. It was nice being "normal" and not having to put someone through that, but you really have to live the lie in order to feel normal. I left and would always go back to one girl who really knew about my CF. Just be there for him, because right now it sounds like there are other issues, drugs is a symptom of what is really going on. Be there as much as he'll let you be there. The good thing is, you two still communicate somehow...if he really didn't want you, you wouldn't hear from him at all. If that's what you really want and need to see it through, then go for it. CFrs seem to be pretty stubborn

Dave
 
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gretzky711

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Speaking from experience I found girls who I knew would give me attention, but didn't know I had CF. It was nice being "normal" and not having to put someone through that, but you really have to live the lie in order to feel normal. I left and would always go back to one girl who really knew about my CF. Just be there for him, because right now it sounds like there are other issues, drugs is a symptom of what is really going on. Be there as much as he'll let you be there. The good thing is, you two still communicate somehow...if he really didn't want you, you wouldn't hear from him at all. If that's what you really want and need to see it through, then go for it. CFrs seem to be pretty stubborn

Dave
 
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gretzky711

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Speaking from experience I found girls who I knew would give me attention, but didn't know I had CF. It was nice being "normal" and not having to put someone through that, but you really have to live the lie in order to feel normal. I left and would always go back to one girl who really knew about my CF. Just be there for him, because right now it sounds like there are other issues, drugs is a symptom of what is really going on. Be there as much as he'll let you be there. The good thing is, you two still communicate somehow...if he really didn't want you, you wouldn't hear from him at all. If that's what you really want and need to see it through, then go for it. CFrs seem to be pretty stubborn

Dave
 
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gretzky711

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Speaking from experience I found girls who I knew would give me attention, but didn't know I had CF. It was nice being "normal" and not having to put someone through that, but you really have to live the lie in order to feel normal. I left and would always go back to one girl who really knew about my CF. Just be there for him, because right now it sounds like there are other issues, drugs is a symptom of what is really going on. Be there as much as he'll let you be there. The good thing is, you two still communicate somehow...if he really didn't want you, you wouldn't hear from him at all. If that's what you really want and need to see it through, then go for it. CFrs seem to be pretty stubborn

Dave
 
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gretzky711

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Speaking from experience I found girls who I knew would give me attention, but didn't know I had CF. It was nice being "normal" and not having to put someone through that, but you really have to live the lie in order to feel normal. I left and would always go back to one girl who really knew about my CF. Just be there for him, because right now it sounds like there are other issues, drugs is a symptom of what is really going on. Be there as much as he'll let you be there. The good thing is, you two still communicate somehow...if he really didn't want you, you wouldn't hear from him at all. If that's what you really want and need to see it through, then go for it. CFrs seem to be pretty stubborn

Dave
 
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gretzky711

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Speaking from experience I found girls who I knew would give me attention, but didn't know I had CF. It was nice being "normal" and not having to put someone through that, but you really have to live the lie in order to feel normal. I left and would always go back to one girl who really knew about my CF. Just be there for him, because right now it sounds like there are other issues, drugs is a symptom of what is really going on. Be there as much as he'll let you be there. The good thing is, you two still communicate somehow...if he really didn't want you, you wouldn't hear from him at all. If that's what you really want and need to see it through, then go for it. CFrs seem to be pretty stubborn

Dave
 
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gretzky711

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Speaking from experience I found girls who I knew would give me attention, but didn't know I had CF. It was nice being "normal" and not having to put someone through that, but you really have to live the lie in order to feel normal. I left and would always go back to one girl who really knew about my CF. Just be there for him, because right now it sounds like there are other issues, drugs is a symptom of what is really going on. Be there as much as he'll let you be there. The good thing is, you two still communicate somehow...if he really didn't want you, you wouldn't hear from him at all. If that's what you really want and need to see it through, then go for it. CFrs seem to be pretty stubborn

Dave
 
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gretzky711

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Speaking from experience I found girls who I knew would give me attention, but didn't know I had CF. It was nice being "normal" and not having to put someone through that, but you really have to live the lie in order to feel normal. I left and would always go back to one girl who really knew about my CF. Just be there for him, because right now it sounds like there are other issues, drugs is a symptom of what is really going on. Be there as much as he'll let you be there. The good thing is, you two still communicate somehow...if he really didn't want you, you wouldn't hear from him at all. If that's what you really want and need to see it through, then go for it. CFrs seem to be pretty stubborn

Dave
 
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gretzky711

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Speaking from experience I found girls who I knew would give me attention, but didn't know I had CF. It was nice being "normal" and not having to put someone through that, but you really have to live the lie in order to feel normal. I left and would always go back to one girl who really knew about my CF. Just be there for him, because right now it sounds like there are other issues, drugs is a symptom of what is really going on. Be there as much as he'll let you be there. The good thing is, you two still communicate somehow...if he really didn't want you, you wouldn't hear from him at all. If that's what you really want and need to see it through, then go for it. CFrs seem to be pretty stubborn

Dave
 
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gretzky711

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Speaking from experience I found girls who I knew would give me attention, but didn't know I had CF. It was nice being "normal" and not having to put someone through that, but you really have to live the lie in order to feel normal. I left and would always go back to one girl who really knew about my CF. Just be there for him, because right now it sounds like there are other issues, drugs is a symptom of what is really going on. Be there as much as he'll let you be there. The good thing is, you two still communicate somehow...if he really didn't want you, you wouldn't hear from him at all. If that's what you really want and need to see it through, then go for it. CFrs seem to be pretty stubborn

Dave
 
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gretzky711

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Speaking from experience I found girls who I knew would give me attention, but didn't know I had CF. It was nice being "normal" and not having to put someone through that, but you really have to live the lie in order to feel normal. I left and would always go back to one girl who really knew about my CF. Just be there for him, because right now it sounds like there are other issues, drugs is a symptom of what is really going on. Be there as much as he'll let you be there. The good thing is, you two still communicate somehow...if he really didn't want you, you wouldn't hear from him at all. If that's what you really want and need to see it through, then go for it. CFrs seem to be pretty stubborn

Dave
 
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gretzky711

New member
Speaking from experience I found girls who I knew would give me attention, but didn't know I had CF. It was nice being "normal" and not having to put someone through that, but you really have to live the lie in order to feel normal. I left and would always go back to one girl who really knew about my CF. Just be there for him, because right now it sounds like there are other issues, drugs is a symptom of what is really going on. Be there as much as he'll let you be there. The good thing is, you two still communicate somehow...if he really didn't want you, you wouldn't hear from him at all. If that's what you really want and need to see it through, then go for it. CFrs seem to be pretty stubborn

Dave
 
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